You should never worry whether she understands HER mistakes or NOT - your own changes and progress within only count

Only your true understanding and your TRUE love and progress on your path of love is of any importance to you AND to all others !!

a truly loving person can work with an ex at same desk to at any other place
never mind

a possessing lover however will want to own a person totally or part far away and never see that person again ...

learn to love WITHOUT owning,
to love without control at all

all the times YOU wanted to control her rather than to LOVE her

let her go
pay the full price and GO

A qualified professional finds a job anywhere

a qualified professional finds a job anywhere
may be a different job
but a job to live on and grow stronger
if needed be prepared and willing to learn and improve professional qualifications to earn yourself the privileges to find new and better job. the quality of work is nothing else but a visible reflection of your qualification of love toward all creation.

you write yourself "... (though it's not making me happy too) ..."

learn from that too

do and work ONLY what makes happy
work what makes OTHERS happy
work what makes YOU happy

Unhappy people at work never can make happy at home or elsewhere

if unhappy at work
then that work is worthless to you as well as to all others

the happiness you create at work is what gives YOU the real values
the happiness you create at work IN others is what makes YOU lovable and love-worthy
an unhappy person at work NEVER can make OTHERS happy at home
an unhappy person at work never can be attractive to anyone else at all

if YOU unhappy
- never expect OTHERS to change - but change yourself in FULL first
- never expect OTHERS to leave - its you the unhappy one - hence YOU are the one to change job, to leave job ...

Focus on all the changes and improvements needed within you

focus on all the changes and improvements needed
and proof your full understanding by making all the changes needed within you
by actually making substantial changes in your life

for a change in life most often a change of environment, job, neighborhood, etc may be of greatest benefit and help
at a new place
with a new job

no one knows you
no one knows your OLD mistakes
no one knows your OLD behavioral patters

hence all accept your inner and outer changes
... with love
hence a total change in life may create a total new set of possibilities to grow faster, to grow more direct and finally to grow with more love and more fun for all persons involved

right path often means
different life
different job
different environment
different city
different employer
different address
ALL different

to change life totally
all you need is RUE and SINCERE will to change YOU inside and outside to LOVE as perfectly as possible

God bless

hans