Remember that the ONLY mistake EVER to change is inside you

While you keep on thinking that your girlfriend made mistakes
or that her behavior is the cause of YOUR blurred heart and mind
it is ONLY your selfishness to POSSESS her that creates all your present and past problems ...

it was BUT your extreme obsession to POSSESS her - instead of learning TRUE love toward her, that made her and you as well unhappy
and that made her aware of who really loves and always loved her from the bottom of his heart

... her ex boyfriend

hence may be you helped her to realize WHERE she really belongs
where her heart is
where the one is who always accepts her the way she is
the one who let's her go and keeps on loving her
...
BACK to her ex boyfriend

hence a change of life for you ONLY makes sense if YOU are willing to change 100% inside YOU

else if you repeat same mistakes
of course all is back to same old problems and screwed up life

there is NEED for REAL and very substantial changes inside YOU
that takes time
may be years
or a full lifetime
it requires POSITIVE affirmations applied all life long

it all depends on you
- how much do YOU accept FULL responsibility FOR your life
- how much do YOU want TO CHANGE
- how much do you want TO GIVE TRUE love

God bless

hans