While reading the posting on "when a wife leaves a man" I considered this and reflected on a past marriage dealing with my wife's confusion that she attriubted to our relationship, this after 22 years, she then found after three years of seeking that it was who she was and had nothing to do with me but she had to leave to know that. She apologized three years later in this knowing. This seems to contradict this article that the one who leaves is neglected and that is possible that the one who leaves may also not be capable of giving caught in their own confusion. What do you think?