This is with reference to your posting in love blog on
3rd Sept 2005, where you have written that
"when meeting the right one...
...
...
- both need to have sufficient experience in love, job and life to make an instant and full commitment FOR each other for the remainder of time"

First, what kind of experience in love are you talking about here. Is it sexual love? If yes, now if the right one has not come then any experience before would it not be a "mistake". So, do we have to make "mistake" to gain experience?

Other questions pertaining to this is that if any or both of the partners are not ready when they meet then generally what happens?