Preparation for meeting the right one starts way before sexual love is practiced

the post "Is he the right one ?" states zero exclusions
hence there are zero exclusions from experience in love!

love however starts in basic steps LONG before venturing into sexual love with a partner.
all - you too - have to start with the basic steps FIRST before even thinking of having partner and sex.

just have a look at the results of the long time outstanding homework about your own vector forces in life ...
where are they leading you and how are you progressing in converting ALL efforts into LOVE results for the benefit of all ... ?

the basic steps of love years BEFORE sexual love becomes an issue is WORK - becoming a qualified, dependable and valuable expert in a useful work for the benefit of all causing zero damage to anyone nor any part of creation and acquiring strength in love toward ALL before being ready for a true love relationship.

FIRST you prove to have prepared the "house and home" of a marriage / relationship before starting the relationship and thus before starting to experience divine sexual love.

if you meet someone and want relationship BEFORE having prepared yourself
then a karma-relationship results.
karma relationships are EXPENSIVE in all aspects - including $, efforts, resources, time, pain

if the two right ones meet before both are ready then disaster results
disaster meaning years or a life-time of fighting, arguing, possessing and using each other with the power of ego instead of divine love. most such disaster relationships eventually end in divorce, alcohool, drugs or aggression as a result of ongoing sexual, spiritual and emotional stress.

most of he time the right ones simply never meet while lacking preparation and all you can and most likely will meet are "learning partners" of equal ego and karma" to make aware of lacking preparation.

the pain missing the right one eventually kills all laziness to prepare in a most efficient and most direct way to truly be strong in love - for many such painful separation lasts thousands of years, thousands of years of fighting, missing, longing ... until it is fully and clearly understood that ONE way only leads to the right one - to truly learn to love ALL and to be a real, strong and true lover free of ANY limits in love fromthe very first second of finally meeting for eternity.

a few however have done ALL their basic homework in earlier incarnations - such few ones may be ready at early age, meet in teenage years and stay together learning in love with each other all remaining spiritual lessons - together all learning is fun and only fun! however such maturity is the result of most intense work done at any tiem before ...

love and bliss

hans