Being helpful to others - how to help others - how to be useful source of help

1. Help to selfhelp


2. Help as a contributing source of expert products or expert services

Help to selfhelp

First of all all help would be directed to improved selfhelp. Help offered to others should make others more free, stronger and more skilled on their own.

In this category belongs all help related to Instructions, teaching, tuitions, counseling

to be an expert teacher first you need to be an expert on your own - hence that kind of helping others may be reserved for the very last decades of your earthly life - beyond 40 or 50 years of age. Decades of working experience combined with traveling around the world and working under most difficult situations and a variety different situations and environments may be needed. Professionals may need to work for a variety of leading companies and gain additional expertise and first open their own business before being ready and capable to really instruct or guide others ...

hence this market share of helping others may be entirely reserved for those considering themselves "retired" ... retired means retired from active production - free now to share experiences and free to make other people's life easier by helping them to avoid costly mistakes.

Help on the way to selfhelp requires that the help asking person needs to learn to do all on his own - step by step - rather than have it done for him by an experienced helper. If you love the one needing help - then let him do his own job rather than become dependant from you !!!

The majority of all help needed belongs into that a.m. part. People often start a job or business by far exceeding their own capability or willingness to learn ... hence they struggle and cry for help or drawn in life and fall out of business.

If you start your own business - know what you do and be prepared by learning - learning - learning and invest ALL you have, time, money, potential into that ONE business you love to start.

another kind of help is needed on an eternal level

Help as a contributing source of expert products or expert services

From an absolute and eternal point of view we all have got your "niche" to be found and explored that gives us a chance to be unique and useful / helpful to all creation our way. to produce a special service or special product that is welcomed by others and needed by others to enjoy their own lives better or to be more successful in their own professional and private life.

here we have the many professional experts like

• car mechanics


• engine repair technicians


• radio technicians


• communication engineers


• cooks


• bakers


• carpenters


• repair technicians for the many different fields of special equipment


• farmers


• healers and doctors


• counselors


• developers / inventors of new products or services


• producers of fine resources


• ...

all these above experts need a full devotion to their job to be successful

most of them find their "niche" and keep in all life long

an eternal job ... you could call it, a job you love to do for ever and ever, changing, adapting, upgrading constantly - but always in the same area of activity and productivity.

producing something useful and special that is needed by many and helpful to all those who use of apply it.

are you doing, learning or producing something:

• really useful to others ?


• helpful to others ?


• making other professionals' life easier and/or more efficient and more successful ?

or

are you merely busy surviving in your own and with your family - providing for your food and rent and minimum needs in your own life ???

Happiness is the result of living in abundance

abundance means to always have what you need in the best possible quality at any given time for an always affordable price.

If you always have to wait for solutions that are part of other people's eternal job to provide - then you have no abundance but a steady need based on other people's laziness or stinginess to provide their share of our eternal life and team work.

Our all productivity should be focused on providing what others need
to make their lives more lovable and more enjoyable

on this planet we have some 6 Billions who can clean, iron, dish-wash, grow potatoes or carrots and all the daily stuff ... there is NO NEED for such kind of expert help on a long term basis - we all can do such work on our own at home.

but all the expert problems to be solved

problems that need solutions where YOU first may invest some 10'000+ hrs of learning, practicing, experiencing and investing a similar amount in your currency to become and BE an expert to provide advanced help NO ONE else but you could provide for others ....

to be an expert is an eternal process - to be an expert is the ongoing result of permanent learning - applying the learned and improving the applied ... eternally

love and bliss

hans