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[Philippines Blog]Received Sat, 13 Mar 2010 00:33:19 PHT

Kayangan lake travel tips for a tour to Philippines cleanest fresh water lake on Coron island

Kayangan lake is famous for its clean clear water. The cleanest fresh water lake in the Philippine islands and since my previous visit in May 2007 there has been no deterioration at all. The lake looks now as clean as 3 years ago!

Kayangan lake - Philippines cleanest fresh water lake

Kayangan lake
Kayangan lake - Coron island
Kayangan lake - Coron island

We start our half day or full day tour as our other Coron island boat tours in Coron city harbor. A visit to Kayangan lake may be included into a full day Coron island tour or you may decide to enjoy the beauty and clarity of this fresh water jewel and just spend some quality time in a clean tropical lake. The temperature of some 30 or more degrees C invites for extended swims or bath. All over the planet you may find but a very few lakes as clean and clear as the Kayangan lake. But Kayangan lake may be the most inviting by its cozy near body temperature!

Beautiful islands
beautiful islands
Beautiful islands - sceneries around Coron island

Passing by most beautiful island sceneries - the journey to the lake itself is as beautiful as the goal of our excursion!

Beautiful island scenery
Beautiful island scenery
Beautiful island scenery - Coron island

Our voyage to Kayangan lake in the final stage passes through a beautiful island labyrinth with a few corners. After each corner a new most beautiful scenic view with blue or turquoise lagoons and high rocky cliffs and an amazing and unique rocky island vegetation.

Beautiful islands
Beautiful islands
Beautiful islands - Coron island

The journey to the final and very beautiful lagoon takes less than an hour by boat if you take your time to enjoy the journey as much as its beauty deserves. From here we leave our boat and walk up the stairs ... to enjoy the beautiful view to our lagoon.

Beautiful lagoon
Beautiful lagoon
Beautiful lagoon - Coron island

After enjoying our beautiful scenic view to above blue lagoon, we are ready for a memorable swim in Philippines cleanest tropical fresh water lake - Kayangan lake. Below picture says it all. The lake water is easily accessible with a wooden peer and stairs in and out of the water.

Philippines cleanest fresh water lake - Kayangan lake
Philippines cleanest fresh water lake
Kayangan lake

For an enjoyable trip - take ample fresh drinking water and may be some snacks along. There is NO restaurant, NO food and NO drinks available en route!

Love and Bliss

hans

[Philippines Blog]Received Thu, 11 Mar 2010 20:22:43 PHT

Coron island travel tips and beautiful island sceneries

Coron island travel tips and beautiful island sceneries

From Coron city to Coron island by boat

Coron city harbor with boats
Harbor view Coron city - with native tourist boats

The easiest way to get to Coron island is to hire your own private boat. However if you are on budget travel, you may find group travel arrangements to do the same much cheaper. A private boat just for you alone may range from 35 US$ for smallest boats to 55 US$ for medium size boats. I chose a medium size boat for me alone. There is a precise reason for such choice. My trip was entirely focused on photography. I was looking around in the above harbor. The smallest boat a captain offered me to hire, was dancing like wild even in small waves ... While the medium size boat was quiet and stable. Hence as a photographer in a wild dancing boat it is almost impossible to make steady shots of nature scenery. There are but a very few locations where you can actually leave the boat and go ashore. Most of all pictures have to be made from a stable boat. The medium size boat was good enough for 6 passengers and had an 18 HP diesel engine.

The main reason to visit Busuanga island usually is to finally stay or at least visit and explore one or several of the beautiful islands outside Busuanga island. One very unique island next to Coron city is Coron island. A "young" island with very unique rocky island vegetation and beautiful crystal clear lagoons with turquoise and blue colors.

Coron island
Coron island
Coron island - rocky island and clear ocean
Explore Coron island by boat
Coron island by boat
Coron island by boat

Coron island has a very young volcanic rock basis - young because there still is no real soil, just volcanic rock slowly eroding and rocky island vegetation. It may take another several ten thousands of more years until Coron island has matured and evolved into a real "grown up" island with lush tropical island vegetation.

Typical Coron island nature
Coron island nature
Coron island nature - more pictures and sceneries from Coron island's beautiful nature and blue ocean wallpapers from Coron island.

A few locations allow you to go ashore. Small beaches for your lunch or small lagoons for a swim from shore. One of the "must see" is at least one of the island's fresh water lakes!

Coron island lagoon
Coron island lagoon
Coron island lagoons with beautiful blue ocean and turquoise ocean colors.

The coral reefs start just below the water surface. You may want to take snorkeling equipment along to enjoy the UW world as much as the topside Coron island nature sceneries.

Coron island has one of Philippines cleanest fresh water lake - Kayangan lake. With water temperature around 30+ C, and schools of small needle fish and ideal place for a swim!

If you plan a half day trip to Coron island you may see enough and still make sure to return home to base without sunburn. A good time to leave harbor for Coron island is around 0800 morning and you may return to Coron city harbor around noon or very early afternoon. Of course you may plan a full day trip with extensive swimming or snorkeling - take drinking water along, Coron island has NO restaurant, NO drinks - NO food - just beautiful nature on beautiful islands.

Love and Bliss

hans

[Philippines Blog]Received Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:45:20 PHT

Busuanga island - travel tips - beautiful rocky islands and nature sceneries from Coron city

Its dry season in most regions of the Philippines. Busuanga island is even much more affected by dry season. Most of the mountains and hills are empty of any real vegetation. Just dry dust and rocks. Nevertheless there are a few unique and quiet spectacular nature sceneries to enjoy on Busuanga island.

Starting point Coron city - a scenic view into the neighborhood

The easiest way to get an overview always is from a vantage point. Let's go Mt Tapyas Coron to get our scenic view!

Mt Tapyas Coron view from Coron harbor

Mt Tapyas - seen from Coron harbor
far right background shows Mt Tapyas Coron

How to get up to Mt Tapyas? The easiest way is directly straight up from where ever you are! The way up is easy and stony/rocky.

Walking up Mt Tapyas
Walking up Mt Tapyas

May be 20 minutes of walking up in beautiful hot sun keeps your heart and body enjoying the practice! Going down after sunset is much easier. From top of Mt Tapyas you find easy cemented stairs going into the center of Coron city - a safe passage even in dark after sunset.

From top Mt Tapyas you have a beautiful 360 scenic view with Coron City harbor view ... and

From top Mt Tapyas you have a beautiful 360 scenic view with Coron City harbor view ...
Busuanga island landscape
Busuanga island landscape toward Busuanga city

Then you wait a while until sunset time. At my place people had no idea at all about sunset hours ... This time of the year it is about 1800hrs.

Beautiful sunset wallpaper
Island sunset
Island sunset - More sunset wallpaper from this view and more tropical beautiful sunset pictures and beach sunset wallpapers

Coron as a starting point offers more nature sceneries to enjoy. Just be prepared for long boat trips to the islands or long bumpy motor bike tours around the island. Start easy and visit the nearby Makinit Hot Springs - Coron

Hot Springs
Hot springs
Makinit Hot Springs - Coron

Once at the hot springs you may enjoy a beautiful island view toward Coron island with its beautiful rocky island sceneries, crystal clear water and very unique rocky island vegetation and countless most beautiful .

Nature picture
nature picture
Nature scenery toward Coron island as seen from near hot springs.

The main reason why I came to Busuanga island was the beauty of Coron island with its turquoise lagoons and blue ocean sceneries. Hence one of my next blog articles may be about Coron island ... Meanwhile you may enjoy some of the pictures already made from beautiful islands.

Love and Bliss

hans

[Love]Received Tue, 16 Feb 2010 00:34:51 PHT

Negligence in spiritual life: How superficial spirituality may lead to accidents and new karma as a result of spiritual negligence

Among Christianity and other spiritual groups, specially new age groups, it is quiet common to burden responsibility in daily life and spiritual life to God. About 2 decades ago a young man, physics student in Germany told me once how often he drives under influence of alcohol. Then he showed me a medal from Christophorus (Saint Christopher) who often is used as a protector or guardian. That medal was used as a protector when driving under influence. That young man denied to carry full responsibility for his own life. Instead the young man preferred to enjoy a superficial fun oriented life and burdened responsibility for his own wellbeing to the Saint Christopher. Gross negligence of this kind is common among many spiritual disciples and widespread among Christianity. Burdening the duty of protection to either a Saint, Guru, Jesus or directly to God.

That appears quiet similar to the superficial negligent behavior of rich people's kids who depend on daddy bailing them out of any self created emergency by the power of money or by abuse of influence some rich ones have.

In spiritual life there is no place for gross negligence of any kind. God gave freedom to all. If you ever realized what true freedom means for you, then you know that such a treasure is beyond any monetary value of any kind. No gold can buy freedom. God given freedom is a gift of love. That gift of love however has a price: Your love in return. Love means caring, observing, helping, being awake, paying attention. Your love toward all, your attention for the need of all, your loving care toward anyone in need of your helping loving care. Walking, driving or flying brainless while day dreaming is a violation of proper spiritual use of God given freedom. Your freedom never should be at the expense of others but for the benefit of others. Your freedom never should be a burden for others but an asset for others.

In spiritual life is no place for drug addicts or alcoholics. neither drug addicts (junkies) or alcoholics are of any use in emergency situation. Contrary - drug addicts and alcoholics are the cause of countless accidents, even fatal accidents.

The moral and ethical duty of every spiritual person is the opposite of negligence: A permanent state of full awareness of the surrounding. To permanently have all senses open, awake and ready to act where help is needed. That permanent awareness and conscious readiness to help requires you to permanently observe, listen, feel, with open heart and awakened intuition. To be fully aware of all surrounding also makes you aware of any existing danger. Traffic, road condition, road damage, ice or any other potential danger.

Negligence occurs when you drift away with your mind at a point different from your present location. Day dreaming, being mentally and/or spiritually absent, having unfinished business, etc.

To be free and to enjoy God given freedom requires a state of permanent awakening of all senses in all dimensions and physical directions to keep you safe as well as all your surrounding.

It never is and never was God's duty to protect you while day dreaming or mentally absent. Nor is it the duty of any saint or Guru to protect you from any results of your spiritual negligence of performing your own duties and homework. As a free child of God you are expected to grow up and be an adult grown up mature being. Young kids of new age era want to enjoy all the benefits of adults without performing all the work and duties of adults .... To enjoy before earning, to have holidays before working days, to be protected before having solved own karma and protected others first.

God will protect you, if you permanently devote all your life to God, if you permanently are available to do the most loving and spiritually best for God on earth and beyond. When you have completely surrendered your entire life on earth to God, then God also may help you in all your smaller problems and protect you all the way. Or if needed God may make you aware of your very personal duties all the way to be cared by you alone.

Spiritual negligence is the result of many people, specially Christians, to fully depend on Jesus, to wait for Jesus to do ALL their own homework, to do all their own loving, to do all their forgiving and reconciliation on behalf of lazy ones among Christianity.

It is each and every ones own duty to forgive all, to reconcile with all, to share all with all, to love all, to help all when ever help is needed. Then and only then can you enjoy all the ocean and heaven of love to be poured upon you and God's bliss and love uplifting you. Never expect all those gifts of love to be poured upon you for watching TV, playing computer or hanging around making easy jobs and leaving all the dirty work for others.

Freedom has 2 sides. The shiny pleasant side you and all others love to enjoy and the responsible mature side all have to prove beyond any doubt for millions of years and beyond into all eternity before true eternal freedom is achieved and enjoyed.

The freedom to travel to places also includes the freedom to help at such places and to serve God at such places. Thus to be open for all! Open for duties and fun alike. See the fairy tale Mother Holle.

When you practice dangerous recreation or sport activities or travel to dangerous places, then it is your own duty to increase your awareness of all potential dangers and pay full attention to all safety precautions to stay safe and healthy. Never expect God or anyone else to do your duties on your behalf. Always stay within your own limits - that strict and absolute rule includes to stay or move within worlds and activities you completely master to a highest possible degree of perfection with the absolute highest safety standard possible for all beings involved. Highest safety standard possible always is a firm 100% safety for all! Anything less than 100% safety for all creation is gross negligence in life and thus a violation of your spiritual duties.

Love and Bliss

hans

[Business solutions]Received Sun, 14 Feb 2010 11:37:43 PHT

Honest salary and the self regulatory power of honest wages to balance the entire global market and humanity

Learn about honest salaries, the benefits and results of honesty in business life

  • What is a honest salary or honest price?
  • What is the benefit for paying honest salaries to employees?
  • How can honest wages regulate our global market and balance our entire global business environment?
  • What happens if we refuse to pay honest wages to our employees or if we refuse to pay honest prices to our suppliers of goods and services we need ourselves in our life?
  • Instant global benefits for family size business

First we may need to understand how to achieve honesty. Honesty in all life always is the direct result of love toward all. Without true love toward ALL there can be no honesty at all.

True love toward all requires selflessness. Selflessness includes your full efforts to create well being and happiness in all others above all. If you care for the needs and wellbeing of all others, Then God and all others shall care for your own wellbeing.

What is a honest salary or honest price?

The definition I apply to my own life as well as all my visitors is simple. Pay exactly the same salary per hour as you earn in your own job in your own country. No matter where you use other people's services or product. That means if you earn 6 dollars per hour and take a local transportation for sightseeing tour or a tourguide for a trekking tour, then you him 6 dollars for each of his hours he spends for you.

If you charge 50 EURO per hour for your services, then you pay 50 Euro for every hour of your cleaning lady, housemaid, driver or gardener as well!

And if you earn 5000 US$ per hour - then you pay 5000 US$ per hour!

If however you have NO money or tiny amounts only because you are jobless = to lazy or overqualified to do ANY job offered that needs to be done. Then you either may have to ask for free stuff: "give me free bread or free apartment I am too lazy to work to pay for it". This may work a few times. One day you may get your ass kicked and get nothing at all. Hence there is a lower limit of how much still is honest.

On our planet we have dozens of millions or may be hundreds of millions jobless people. Some of them I saw with my own eyes simply feel too good to do any job needed for the prices offered and they prefer to hang around and do nothing at all rather than to work for 2 or 5 dollars an hour cleaning streets or toilets or loading trucks, etc.

There are situations in life were we all have to strip down all our demands and just do what needs to be done at the price affordable to be paid! It is our all duty to work, to be useful and to contribute our own share of work and services in exchange to all the products and benefits we love to enjoy in our lives.

What is the benefit for paying honest salaries to employees?

If you treat your suppliers or employees like you would treat your own children or family members. With love and dignity. The you are considered a father rather than a boss. Your employees or customers become your family. You no longer need protection or security as all feel deep in their hearts that you treat them with dignity and love as equal human beings.

Honest prices and honest salaries result in a working and living environment flooded with mutual love and happiness. In a honest living environment where work and private life becomes one, we no longer need fences, guards and tribunals or lawyers. Our heart can solve all eventual conflicts before they actually occur.

How can honest wages regulate our global market and balance our entire global business environment?

There are many among you who may rebel now and say: Then I no longer can afford to have employees or I no longer can maintain my industry or business.

Fine! Then it be and you close down your business that grew only at the expense of other people being exploited! Then your employees loose their underpaid jobs and gain their dignity and freedom back. Without jobs, without industries in cities, all employees eventually return home to their provinces and start their healthy natural but simple and happy life all over again. Ten years later they have fully recovered from the period of exploitation and have become again self sustaining farmers, fishermen, carpenters, etc!

The only one who really looses his job is you. Most of the investors, bankers, CEOs, managers, etc would be nothing at all in their lives without employees doing the actual work, the actual service or production! You as an exploiting and abusing employer had dreams far too large to be executed and realized by your own financial means and your own physical capabilities and potential. You may have exceeded by far your very own limits for an extended period of time at the expense of all society, at the expense of investors luring for easy money and quick profits and most of the time at the expense of our entire planet and nature that keeps us alive.

If however you are truly spiritual and open heart-open minded. The follow below mathematical model and understand how such a simple rule like paying honest salaries or honest prices may instantly auto-regulate the entire global market, global industry and our all life at once.

To help you understand the model, I use some numbers out of my own life. You may adapt these numbers to your own situation and you fully understand the power of self regulation that is within honesty in business and life!

Last year my annual average per hour was about 5,20 US$. Living modest and simple, doing a job I love. That amount is plenty if you consider that the potential working day has up to 24 hrs with just a few breaks. If you love your job, you rarely get tired at all. Love feeds you and keeps you healthy and awake until job done.

To simplify the example, lets take 5 US$ per hour. Means if you earn that amount. You pay for your riksha 5$/hr, for your housemaid 5$/hr and for your hairdresser as well 5$/hr, etc. For every hour of service you enjoy to receive FROM others you pay 5$/hr!

If you use 8 hrs of housemaid, 4 hours of baby sitter or sales girl, 3 hrs of gardener or driver per day, then you pay 15 hrs 5$ each = 75$ wages paid out per day. If you work yourself 15 hrs each day, that would leave you zero $ per day for you. Hence you would need to increase your own working hours.

You are human and most likely never manage to work more than 20 hrs per day over an extended period of time. That means the maximum you can earn would be 100$ per day. Leaving you 25 $/day for your own life after deduction of your honest pay outs to all your servants and helpers in your life.

May be that might be enough if your overall living is most simple and cheap. Most likely you may find that amount too little to keep alive and motivated. Hence you reduce the number of hours you use other people's services until you make ends meet again.

May be in an average you work 15 hrs a day and use 3 hrs of services from others and you may feel OK.

As you see from above example, there are self regulatory mechanisms built into honesty in payments made to others, payments for services and / or products.

To live with the honesty model you have to stay within your own limits of business size. There is NO way to become a global dominating leader in any industry. That exactly is the purpose and power of honesty in business. There is absolutely NO need at all that a few companies dominate and exploit all world. There is no need at all that mega companies hire hundreds of thousands of employees to grow bigger and bigger until they eventually collapse. The larger a company, the more administration cost that company has, the less efficient and the more environment destructive that company is. Huge companies have top level management earning dozens or hundreds of millions a year including all bonuses and expenses, private jets, private cars with drivers, body guards, etc.

If you stay family business size, you need to body guard, no protection, no administration, no expenses. A family business or as in my case one person PLUS God operation has exactly zero administration, zero expenses, only a decent life in harmony with God and tons of work to be done. No secretary answering phone calls or eMails. I dropped long time ago all bla bla calls and mails completely.

The ultimate goal of all mankind is a happy life in freedom. Freedom requires love from all and toward all. Freedom requires that all are self employed, freelance and their own boss. Hence employment of any kind should only be considered temporary. For example to gain experiences, to learn, to be apprentice for a short while and then move on in life to continue further learning and acquiring skills until mature and ready for self employment.

In a society of strong self employed "bosses" without any underprivileged employees, we have acquired a deep appreciation of each others' values and are all willing to pay honest prices or exchange values on a 1:1 basis where we need and enjoy other people's services or products.

If you stay family business size, you have instant global benefits:

  • You need no advertisement at all. You serve your local community and your customers value and appreciate your services or products. Hence you get all customers by worth of mouth.
  • No need to outperform competitors. No need to compete with competitors. You have your local community, Others have theirs - all work together serving all mankind, all creation instead of competing with each other.
  • You need no patents or brand name protection. You serve in one community leaving the entire global market to millions of other family businesses alike. Each serving their own local community. Instead of completing, you are helping each others to serve mankind, planet and creation.
  • You need no spy-protection as you have no secrets. Instead you share your recipes of success with all world to help many others to learn from you and do the same as you in their own neighborhood.
  • Small size local business have far less or no pollution and can easily be in full harmony with nature
  • Local need oriented family business have limited or no need for logistics. You mainly use local products for local customers. Hence need for energy is limited, need for transportation and logistics is minimal. Instead of a life in luxury you opt for a life in happiness. Having more time for your family, being amidst your entire family all time. Working and enjoying live together as a family endeavor.
  • Instead of outsourcing to cheap countries, you do all locally and yourself. Leaving same full job opportunities to all others in the world. Thus leaving same revenue opportunities to those otherwise working with below minimum wages in third world countries. No one is working for you - all are their own boss providing whatever generic demand needs to be satisfied.

What happens if we refuse to pay honest wages

The first result is a loss of trust between employees and employers. The next step is a loss of social peace and eventually long lasting legal battles. Employers loose such legal battles and are forced to pay at least legal wages. No one really benefits from enforced minimum wages because such minimum wages in third world countries such as in the Philippines are a ridiculous joke! The same applies to most other third world countries industrial salary system.

Below are a few pages from a real scenario case that occurred just recently. Poverty in the Philippines is like poverty in most countries of 2 root causes: Exploitation or laziness. Laziness often results from lack of motivation to work a full day for less than the cost of daily living. If for example you fail to afford daily local fruits for your own children or basic health care or basic professional education for your family and children. Then how can you expect someone to work 20 hrs a day if he still fails to make ends meet each month. Even worst if he never can afford even week now and then to travel, enjoy and explore his very own country!

Cheap labor often has been lured from remote provinces into cities. Once in the city living fro extreme underpay such work immigrants rarely ever can safe the money needed to return home to their own provinces. Worst even. Often these people gave all their property away for a tiny amount to pay travel to industrial cities. Once all property gone, there is nothing at all waiting at home. No farm land, no house, all gone for life. Once in such deep shit, employers have easy job to maintain a cheap labor. Living in slums or slum like colonies, working for micro amounts just to avoid death by starvation .... and all just to satisfy the need and greed of investors and rich business men looking for even more profits and greater wealth.

When employers fail to pay honest salary, then employees get into troubles, entire families drift into poverty and entire future generations lack basic professional qualifications to conduct a happy life. All such chain reactions purely for a quick profit of greedy employers or investors. Greed and stinginess are destructive mental and spiritual illnesses that need to be healed just like any other virus.

When a business man needs more money, he simply reduces expenses or increases prices to balance his budget again. When underpaid employees need more money, they either ask for higher wages or change jobs or drift into poverty for life. Usually higher wages are refused in third world countries. Legal minimum wages are a joke and far below the amount needed for a decent happy family life. Changing job often is impossible because all employers use same strategy to exploit the need of poor ones. In most countries of the third world the employers are either expats or corporations financed by rich ones from in and out of country or banks. Hence inn most cases there is no loving solutions but to either accept solid underpay or to die!

Honesty in business is as rare on this planet as 10 carat diamonds inn the streets of New York. The typical characteristics of a business man is to earn as much for the lowest amount of work and the smallest amount of investment. See the global crisis in US car industry as well as other global industries and its management levels bonus systems.

Can you pay more for other people's services than you earn yourself?

Yes of course you can. If you feel that a particular service you enjoy is worth more than your 5$/hr then you are free to show your appreciation. But you should avoid paying less than what you earn yourself.

The ultimate benefit for honest prices and honest wages

Honest prices or wages paid by you will after a while make you feel like a real human. Innermost satisfaction and true love received by all those benefiting from your loving honesty in pricing will lead to increased happiness around you and thus to a better and more loving, stronger living environment for you, for your loved ones and best friends. To live in a strong environment is far more fun than to live amidst a bunch of starving exploited slaves.

Remember that you always can live without others at all. However the less services you use or consume from others, the more you may miss some of their services and products and thus the more you learn to appreciate others. This too is self-regulatory. All alone life would be boring and lonely. We are social beings and made to love each other and share all fun and happiness with each other. However we all have to contribute our own share to the wellbeing of all others as well. By paying a honest salary or honest price to all others we force ourself to work and produce more than we need from others. Hence we force ourself to produce abundance and out of this abundance we have a honest contribution or honest value in exchange of services needed or enjoyed from others.

Once we strictly abide by the principle of paying honest wages or honest prices, we self regulate our own creative production and consumption in harmony with our God made limits. Honest prices paid eliminates waste of goods and resources and balances the consumption to within healthy natural limits of available resources. We are the main resource and our own physical life force is the limit of our production and consumption.

To offer value in return for values received we have to acquire qualifications, skills and deploy God given creative productivity within our own limits.

Love and Bliss

hans

[Love]Received Sat, 13 Feb 2010 15:30:05 PHT

A different approach to Valentine's day, Mother's Day and similar festive days of the season.

Focus on a loving family day in nature or with best friends instead of traditional Valentine's Day

For quiet some time - up to many decades - hundreds of Millions focus on spending money, makings gifts, abusing credit cards to impress loved ones on Valentine's day or other days like anniversary, birthday, fathers day, etc. How can you impress a loved one with a Rolex watch purchased by credit card or an expensive dinner in a gourmet restaurant paid by credit card? If money is all you have to offer ... money also is available to your loved ones in abundance as a result of honest hard work. Hence no one needs you to get money gifts or material gifts.

Instead of maintaining wrong traditions of money oriented love days, try a different concept for Valentine's Day and all similar days like Mother's Day, Father's Day, Birthday, Anniversary, etc. Spend some quality time in God's beautiful nature. Take your children along if you have. Then enjoy a happy family day all together. No shopping, no spending, just loving and sharing joy, happiness and love with each other.

Sharing some quality time with a loved one may include such love activities like helping poorest ones. Bringing flowers and self-cooked food or delicious healthy cakes to needy ones. Sometimes a poorest one may need something different from money .. just your love. That reminds me almost ten years back of an older woman, may be in her 50ies sitting on the street. No real beggar but begging in her heart only. I.e. without hand stretched out - just a heart crying for help. When I passed her - I grabbed into my pocket and gave her an amount. Then continued ... just to realize that her heart still was crying for ... love. I went back and gave her a flower from those flowers I carried to share with "strangers" in the street that day. That flower made the difference. Her heart smiled. She needed love rather than money. If people receive love, then often they also regain motivation to work or find a motive to work. Life without love received offers no incentives to work or to be lived at all. Only a life flooded with love is worthy to be lived.

If you have true values in common with your lover, then your lover may be more happy sharing some of a.m. quality time with you rather than another dinner for 2 or tech gadgets or jewelry or flowers. Flowers grow in nature by the millions to enjoy for free. Good food is much better when prepared with love at home or amidst friends rather than in an expensive restaurant. A watch on the wrist may remind your lover "it's time to go home" before actual loving is over....

True love has no limits, true love is free from money or material goods of any kind. True love however does require true values inside a lovers heart and mind. True love is the result of serious and most intense achievements in your own spiritual efforts during the past many incarnations and during this entire lifetime until today. Only those empty of true love attempt to hide their emptiness by purchasing material gifts instead of giving their heart, soul and body as a gift of love. Truly loving ones - male men or female women - always can buy whatever money can buy.

All the other treasures however are the true gifts of love you alone may be able to give. This Valentine's Day may be the best time to start. And all other festive days may serve as a follow up to improve your practice of true love.

Enjoy God's gift of love together with your entire family if you have one. All have family - you just have to open your heart, senses and eyes to see the "strangers" in the streets actually may be your loved ones from an earlier incarnation, just waiting to be recognized by you and loved by you again.

What if your lover only reacts to material gifts ?

If your lover only smiles on Valentine's Day, Birthday, etc after receiving expensive roses, flowers, gadgets, jewelry, weekend beach vacation, etc then think about the following and make your own conclusion to change partner, life and future before your divorce settlement ruins you.

  1. What is the difference between a lover asking for 50 or xx $ amount before making love to you and the lover asking you for a candle light dinner at a first class restaurant costing you 50 or xx$ amount?
  2. What is the different between a lover asking you for a weekend in Hawaii, Bahamas or any exotic beach location before having sex with you and a lover asking for xxx $ to do the same?
  3. What is the difference between a lover expecting to be flooded with all kinds of invitations, gadgets, weekend activities, travel, expensive homes, cars, etc and by the end of years of courting by spending, that lover still may be expecting a diamond ring costing your overloaded credit card another several thousand US dollars to accept your proposal and the lover asking you directly for a monthly life long "allowance" of xxxx dollars per months?

Make or female - in both above or similar situations the result if the same. Except that in the last case you may end up with a multi Million dollar divorce settlement on top of all current expenses already paid. There is little difference between male world and female world. In all above cases the situation is simple clear prostitution. One is a hidden form of prostitution practiced by hundreds of Millions men and women across all countries and cultures. The other is a honest prostitution with no hidden costs but a straight price. Both is wrong, both has nothing to do with any love at all. Both is equally disgusting and both is one of many possible reasons why people are HERE on earth instead of being at home in God's heaven.

If your lover only reacts to material gifts or your readiness to spend cash, then you either have no real values to offer or you have a wrong partner or immature partner. In any such case it is time to separate while you still can without the use of divorce lawyers.

The true lover can touch your heart

The true lover can touch your heart - the fake lover can only touch your bank account or credit card. If you have true mutual love and true values in common, then share those most important treasures with each other on Valentine's day and all other festive days of the year. If you both love nature, then enjoy a day amidst wild nature together - more often than just the few love days of the year. If you love and enjoy each other - then share yourself - skin to skin, heart to heart, soul to soul and God shall bless your love and make your love day an enjoyable day again and again for all eternal life.

Make Valentine's day nature family day - simple but with love

For Valentine's day you should get in love-mood. Use flowers of love to do so are colorful roses or Beautiful rose bouquets touch the hearts of humans since thousands of years. Others may love beautiful flowers as love greeting Cards or love wallpaper to get in mood for a happy loving days.

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Love and Bliss

hans

[Alternate lifestyle]Received Sat, 13 Feb 2010 13:10:29 PHT

The easier we receive what we want, the faster we loose what we own. The harder you have to work for your goals the better you preserve your values

In modern society people often get instantly what they want or belief to need. Cars, gadgets, apartments or houses often are financed by banks and credit cards before we have actually earned those items we value or wish. As a result of easy obtaining without real work, we handle all such gadgets of life superficially and thus loose all one day.

It is the greed of our financial world striving for ever growing mountains of easy money without work that increases the offer of the financial world to potential consumers. Higher offers to totally unqualified recipients with nothing else in mind but a fast way to earn more easy profits or to enjoy an easy life without having to really work and sweat at all.

Myself I grew up in a country where credits or mortgages where difficult and sometimes impossible to obtain and if then only a small share of the total real estate or business value. Hence above all there was a real need to first work hard and save some real cash surplus before approaching a bank for financing the missing small share.

In my own life I have used financing one single times in my early life for a small amount to start a small business. It was an amount of some 1000 US$ equaling approximately 2 monthly salaries. That situation of owing money to someone was so unpleasant to me that I returned the full financing amount plus interest rate after just a few months instead of a year or two. I worked hard and soonest had the full amount to return to the bank and ask for a change of contract to end immediately instead of the planned 1 or 2 years loan period.

All the real achievements and values acquired I had to earn in advance. That was my greatest blessing because hard work to achieve a goal also makes you careful to maintain your values for all life if needed. Those who gamble and earn at once large sums also may gamble and loose all at once. Just look at the bank and finance industry of the last few years. All these values are nothing but virtual values resulting from gambling with OTHER people's money and in current times with taxpayers bailout money.

Since such bailout money is given by the Billions, that bailout money often also is wasted by the Millions or more through bonus payments or heavily oversized wages for managers.

If you learn again to actually work toward a goal, step by step, until you have achieved your goal all on your own, then you will have paid huge amounts of efforts, sweat and may be blood of your own for the hard work needed to achieve your goal. The result is: Your goals are smaller and potential damages to environment also smaller. The goals are all within your own limits, thus also any reparation of damages resulting from your activities is well within your own possibility to fix and solve.

No matter who pays your dreams, bank, credit card, friends or investors. You, the dreamer, pays for all damages and resulting karma of all your actions and dreams.

In a social system of honesty and love it is easy for all to have your own small family business. All self financed, all done without employees but with your family members only. If you "hire" own family members it is most likely that you always pay honest wages to all and honer the dignity and integrity of each and every one working with you. Family members work with you - regular employees most of the time work for you. That is a total difference in attitude as family members get full benefits from the overall results while employees rarely get more than a small "tip" from your overall earnings or benefits.

Having to finance every part of your dreams all on your own results in a global system well within the limits of our planet and all nature as well. Your true limits are tiny compared to the healing power of our planet. If all your projects are within your own limits, then the destructive impact of each and all humans on our planet is tiny compared to our current system where people find investors, banks and easy money makers to finance even the sickest of all dreams - just for the single cause of making another easy dollar profit at any cost to our human society or the entire planet.

Learn to earn all your achievements on your own without foreign financing and learn to maintain and protect all your values all on your own without body guard, without security, without any protection from third party resources and you will soon have your life again under your sole and full control.

The harder you have to work for all your goals, the more you review your goals and values before investing all your life into your projects and endeavors of life. That system of earning before enjoying also is valid for all your relationship situations. Learn to earn a partner rather than to buy a partner with mortgages and credit card use. What you have and earned all on your own should be enough to attract the right one. Else you either have been too long too lazy and need to work harder or the person you focus on is the wrong one or too immature to recognize true values in life.

Love and Bliss

hans

[Politics and God]Received Sat, 13 Feb 2010 11:46:18 PHT

The fastest way out of our global crisis is the most powerful method to global peace and environment problems as well

In today's time of global economy crisis, global warming, global war against xyz, politicians as well as bankers, businessmen and hundreds of millions of people talk and think about how to get greener energy, how to increase industrialization in a green way to make more green profits in the future.

As a solution to all the mistakes made by hundreds of millions during past decades of excess life and excess consumption and excess pollution. Most of these possible options take years and trillions of dollars to realize. may be or may be to fail ...

One solution however is available at zero cost and can be effective within seconds or minutes - by ALL. Yet that one affordable instant option and solution never gets mentioned nor considered by the majority of people concerned by our ongoing and eventually developing global crisis:

The instant return to a simple life in harmony with nature, in harmony with God in a simple life living in a - a simple house. Even a life without electric energy or with a tiny fraction of energy produced some 30-50 years ago already. In a beautiful natural environment. With happy and healthy children.

Look at the alternatives, then listen to your heart and act in harmony with your heart using nothing but heart plus common sense. No scientific (fake?) data, no political opinions. Just you, your heart and God with nothing but love in mind. No profits, no interest rates, no war, no punishment, no retaliation, just a simple happy life in love with each other.

If you drop all intentions of punishment, retaliation, exploitation or profit making, then you loose all enemies. As a result you also loose the majority of all your expenses, the need for administration, defense and law enforcement. You may even loose your need for government soon after dropping all your violent or aggressive thoughts, aggressive fantasies, aggressive emotions and intentions. All our enemies are self-made - made by US alone. No one else creates our problems and enemies but we ourselves.

The amount of problems created since world war 2 are growing beyond our potential to finance and to solve our way. Hence we created our global crisis and the need for alternate solutions different from the solutions of war and brute force we practiced since thousands of years.

Instead of excluding religion in politics, we need to learn to consciously include God into all our politics and listen to God's words of wisdom and love in all our daily life - business, politics and family alike. True love and happiness in life are free to all. Solutions of love are free and available to all. God's guidance requires to be loving and to have an open mind and open heart. To perceive God's divine guidance we need to find our peace again. To find our inner peace we need to drop all causes against all others. We need to forgive and offer a full pardon empty of any conditions at all!

A life in harmony with God is affordable to all and pleasant for all. You can never force your government to be more peaceful and more loving and more forgiving than you are. Hence it all starts in your own heart, mind and soul. It is your own duty to first prove beyond doubt that you can forgive all to all and love all by sharing all with all and getting in peace with all world.

To ask forgiveness we may need to learn to humble ourselves, to even bow to the feet of our victims and ask for forgiveness and eventually we may have to offer full reparation of damages done unless the victims pardon in full and waive the need for reparation of damages caused by you. To know what damages and how much damages you may have to consider, look at the past history of your current country and the past history of your current countries enemies. Look back for at least a few thousand years to see how much accumulated karma your current country has and how the current politics of brute force, retaliation and obliteration has guided your country and culture.

In our high tech world governed by authorities, brute force and money, we need to learn again to appreciate the fact that the most simple and cheapest methods might be the most powerful solutions to all our self created problems on earth. We also may need to learn to give what some value most: Our selfishness in exchange for God's gift to love all again.

God never abandoned us at any time for all eternal past and never will for all eternal future. We however abandoned God in our heart, mind and soul for thousands of years already. We abandoned God so much in our lives that we even have created constitutions that exclude religion and thus spirituality and God from politics. Our life on earth is governed and enforced by politicians which in turn are governed by money and selfish greed for power, that exclusion of religion from politics also enforced exclusion from God in our daily life to a great extent. The exclusion of God in our daily life finally has lead to the current self created karma causing disaster after disaster on earth. Each disaster on earth is a warning that we have since long exceeded our limits and also left the path of love given by God in his one and only first commandment: Love all!

Love and Bliss

hans

[Alternate lifestyle]Received Wed, 03 Feb 2010 09:54:48 PHT

Alternatives to child adoption in Haiti or other 3rd world countries - Helping children by adopting kids in your heart and supporting the orphans country

In many countries "orphans" are often no real orphans. Often such "orphans" have one or even both parents but are given away to an orphanage or eventually even given away for "adoption" to a foreign country. The reason often is the same - poverty of parents. Poverty however often is the result of extensive exploitation of such third world countries by "first" world countries during past many decades or centuries.

I have seen such situations of children in an orphanage myself here in the Philippines. Children from remote rural provinces with real family, given away to a remote orphanage in a city. Often the reason is the parents' hope for the children to have a better future than kids may have at home with poor parents. Even if both parents would be death, in third world countries the extended family often is strong enough to have real family members taking care of real orphans!

Man made poverty never should be exploited to export children. Poverty in most cases is self made by our society. Exploitation by foreign countries, exploitation of labor by greedy business men paying illegal underpay. Artificial creation of debts and exploitation of emergency situations to create debts until all property, all farm land and finally even the home is lost.

It is our "first world" politics of past many hundred years that has caused poverty in "third world" countries. It is our all mutual moral obligation to correct and compensate in full any damage and result of previous or ongoing exploitation. At any cost and during what ever time it takes - even generations and centuries to come.

The solution to children in poverty is our own readiness to pay full honest prices for all services and products from 3rd world countries!

The only human way to help orphans or children with poor parents is to support their parents and restructure, refinance and support the poor ones in their very own country. To support in a human and loving way, to help all poor ones to regain financial freedom and achieve prosperity on their own. To support poor families has only partially to do with money. Support of poor families in third world countries starts with all of us being willing to pay honest prices, honest wages for all products and services coming from third world countries.

As long as industrial nations exploit labor in third world countries for just a few dollars a day salary, we need to send real money by the Billions. As soon as we start to pay honest wages - the very same wages we ask or love to receive for the same labor, we no longer need to send money support to third world countries. With the high wages we earn in first world countries - there never could be any poverty and thus never could be any need to surrender or abandon children for adoption to rich countries. With our own first world wages all people in the third world doing dirty work for us as farmers or factory workers would have a more than comfortable life on their own. If we all accept to work for half our current salary, then there is enough money left to pay a honest wage to all the other labor we need from outside our own country.

Exploitation in the Philippines is comparable to exploitation in most other third world countries such as Haiti, Congo, India, Cambodia and most other poor countries of this entire planet. Approximately 1976-77 I spent one year in Haiti. The last few months for a large US company employing some 400 women as factory workers. The daily wage was in the range of US$ 1.65. Producing car radio tuners for Chrysler cars. That is one of those companies where managers earn up to many millions per months and up to millions or dozens of millions in annual bonuses. Often a single overpaid manager earns more in a year than all 400 factory workers together. No wonder Haiti is poor and no longer can support its own children.

Even when hotel employees now may earn the minimum legal wage in a hotel after all problems have been cleared and exploitation appears to be ended. The minimum legal wage in the Philippines and other third world countries is far from honest. There is no way to be proud of paying legal minimum wage. The only honest wages are in the proportional range of your very own wage! Plus minus a few percents for more or less knowledge, skills or experience.

To help orphans and children on poverty, we need to live in the countries in need and share our life

A truly loving woman or man never would take away a child out of his native culture or even away fro existing family, relatives or single parent. Children belong to their native country else God would have sent them to you in the first world. There is no evidence that children in central Europa or USA are doing better in real life, in spiritual life, in family life simply due to the fact that they may have more money or more high tech gadgets or more canned processed food and more debts in life than people in third world countries. Children and adults alike may be far more happy in simple living conditions of their native country amidst a loving social environment, amidst loving extended families. The only thing missing in those families is a honest pay in return for all the valuable natural resources they provide to the outside world or to cities in their own country.

In western countries we have Millions of children in teenage years exposed to drugs, alcohol and missing true content in life. Millions of children wasting their lives behind computers and computer games instead of enjoying real nature and real human relationships with other children. I have seen many more smiling happy children in third world countries than in Europe or USA in my own life.

Third world countries have many most valuable lessons to offer to people from the "first world". Hence to spend a few years or even an entire life or at least the remaining decades of an early retirement life in third world countries may offer job opportunities to learn. To share expertise and to help and support existing families in taking care of their own kids at home in their native and often far more beautiful natural environment than we ever could do when adopting children and removing them into strange and remote "civilizations" socially far behind many third world countries.

May be we could also look at first world countries as first graders and third world countries as third graders - both learning different levels of spiritual lessons. Some higher levels (3rd grade) others very beginner levels (1st grade) ... The real human quality of life in the 3rd world is much higher than the human quality of life in the "first world"!

Instead of giving money - give your life and expertise to dissolve poverty

To help poor families out of poverty takes very little money and little efforts on our side. To get orphans or children from very poor families off the streets into a self dependent happy life may take far less than the cost for an orphanage. During the past 10 years I have observed many street children growing up and becoming young entrepreneurs in young teenage years. Young responsible people living without debts, without mortgage, without credit cards .... When we look at the recent global economy disaster and the global environment pollution. The it appears that their are vital lessons in life most college students of first world countries apparently never learn even at old age.

To my heart and soul it is evident after nearly 40 years abroad in some 40 countries in Africa, Caribbean, USA, Middle East, Asia and South east Asia, that life in third world countries is far more human, far more worthy to be lived and far more love-filled. Above all, most third world countries still offer some real nature - while in Central Europe for example nature is widely modified by humans and to a frightening part already polluted and destroyed.

Happy family life is beyond the amount of money or luxury items you can afford

Never assume that others may have the same values in life as you do. Never assume that having more money or more square meters living area means having higher standard of living. True quality of life depends much more on having a real work such as farm and natural living conditions. Simple self employment as family business with all family always together. A simple but cozy home fully paid in cash. A garden of your own, loving-helping and sharing neighborhood are of far greater value than having a car or having 24/7 electricity at home. Simple life without electricity may be far more happy and far more fun than life with a foreclosure waiting to happen or a life with a loss of job and thus loss of family income pending.

Create your new future and move to Haiti or any other country in need - to help families taking care of their own children

Think about all those alternatives to child adoption and some of you may have a new goal in life - a new destination. To move away from your current country to Haiti, to Congo, Cambodia or any other country with a need for sincere help from the bottom of your heart and soul. The before mentioned countries and many other third world countries all have an exciting living environment and if you offer real life qualifications, it always will be possible to either find a descent job or to have your own self employment, a small family business.

Love and Bliss

hans

[Internet]Received Tue, 02 Feb 2010 02:23:51 PHT

Publisher efficiency: How to get your traffic and where to loose your time and money. Learn to use all web resources efficiently and preserve your own resources

Nowadays with hundreds of social networks appearing in the web it is easy to get lost, to waste your time and money and eventually even to waste your entire life. There are 2 aspects of social networking:

  1. Use of social networks as Internet user
  2. Use of social networks as Internet publisher / site owner

Many things in life can be useful for a while at the right time when applied or used properly. And everything useful may turn into detrimental when abused or used excessively. It is your responsibility and liability to make proper wise use of all resources offered to you in modern high tech times. We have a look at both aspects of social network site use here below:

As a Internet reader or Internet user:

You may temporarily enjoy the virtual company of new friends across the planet. You may enjoy to meet new friends, to consider friends people never seen, never met in real life. That certainly has benefits: To show you that we may have "family" across the planet and that our politicians' war and sanctions against other nations may harm our own "friends and family". Some networks are purely professional, to exchange professional opinion, advice and expertise. Such as Linkedin for example. Such professional networks may offer real benefits. Real values shared, real information being shared directly from expert to expert, from manager to manager, from business owner to business owner.

Social network friends however are virtual friends far from you, too far to be there for you when you need a hug, when you need a bed to sleep after having lost your own home in a disaster, earthquake, Taifun, etc.

A much greater danger however is that you loose the ability to directly communicate with real humans face to face, skin to skin. There are large numbers of people spending most of their time, including paid office / work time in chat rooms and social network sites. Far from real life, far from all those needing real hugs, real words, real advice from people next to them, from neighbors and physical family members.

Social networking may be addictive just because by nature we are social beings longing for friends and extended family. For some one to talk to, to love and to spend quality time with. Millions and more have become lonely in real life as a result of loss of human communication skills and closed hearts. Hence to substitute real contacts with humans we often get excessively involved in virtual activities.

In real life, with real friends however we have to prove our words of love, we have to prove our statements of help or support by actions of help and actions of support. We actually may have to spend some real money and invest some real efforts and work rather than just bare empty words. Real life is about actions following all words.

What really counts in life is what we do physically in our physical environment - eyes to yes, with all our heart, body and soul! If we all take care of our direct environment, then we have more work to do and less problems left after all work done. The main work in life is to create peace, to love, to forgive, to reconcile and to become a real family of love again.

Hence for Internet users the true value and benefit of social network certainly is limited! Look at a recent disaster still ongoing: Haiti after the recent earthquake. In social networks you may ask for donations or donate yourself money for Haiti. Reality however requires real people being really there in Haiti to physically assist. Real experts hands on, to help, to teach, to repair, to heal, to fix, ...!

Money alone is no solution to such disasters. Money needs to be converted into real help. That real help requires real people offering real time, real people having real expertise and real life job experiences for months or even years or a full lifetime invested directly in disaster zones such as Haiti. The money donated often is used only to pay experts, to pay helper teams, to buy help in form of supplies, technical equipment, logistics. The same results also could be achieved by a large number of people offering all of the most valuable they have: Part of their life, expertise and own workforce - hands on instead of donating money to have others do the job.

There are many virtual worlds beyond social network sites. Even your "real life" in white collar jobs, in corporate worlds of finance, banking and government administration, most or all office jobs and IT jobs may be nothing more than a virtual world within your own comfort zone far from real life on this planet. Real life always is outside white collar. Real life needs people willing and qualified to put hands on, to really sweat and work until job done. People who have acquired real qualifications needed to fix or construct farms, clean water supply, affordable housing, simple but happy living environment in harmony with nature.

Instead of adopting a child from Haiti and bringing it into a strange remote culture, go to Haiti, spend part of your life IN Haiti caring for an orphan IN his own country. There is plenty to work for anyone having learned real work. Such kind of on site real help is far outside the virtual worlds of our limited thinking. We may encounter new worlds and finally may even realize that we may have more to learn IN such "3rd* world countries than we have to teach them in our own home country!

Virtual worlds like social networking sites allow us to remain in our comfort zone, at home in our apartment or house, within our own walls. This type of virtual communication allows you to say whatever you love to say knowing well that no one ever will expect you to actually do what you say.

As publisher

With hundreds of millions of users active in various social network sites, social networks may become a valid source of traffic to your own site. A recent review of my own site traffic statistics show that I have some 40% of total traffic coming from Search Engines. That means some 60% of my site visitors come from various other sources, such as RSS subscription, direct bookmarks for regular visitors and also social networks.

To get some substantial traffic from social networks requires however to first and regularly invest time in maintaining social network site profiles, social site blogs, bookmarks or even answer questions and participate in discussions. The higher the quality of your contributions the more likely you may receive traffic from social network sites.

That is your critical decision to make. How much time, efforts or even money can you invest without getting lost in a virtual world. That is a critical question you only can make with real visitor numbers in mind. You need daily traffic statistics to see from where your visitors are coming, then make a decision where to promote your own site and how much of your time you can afford to invest without getting lost on a side path of publishing.

Love and Bliss

hans

[Love]Received Sun, 24 Jan 2010 05:03:06 PHT

Life is an eternal adventure and love romance. Enjoy REAL life, skin to skin, eyes to eyes, soul to soul!

Every now and then I meet people who spend hours or more every day and week reading novels, watching TV, movies, etc ... reading about love, reading about romance never teaches you to actually practice love in real life. People hide and often get lost in virtual worlds of TV, movies, computer games and love/romance/adventure books.

Real life when lived with open heart, open senses and connecting to God is like an infinite and eternal adventure movie and eternal love romance.

Real life brings you all the precise lessons, precise surroundings and sceneries you need for most efficient and most loving learning experiences custom made by God just for you!

Instead of reading about romance, about kissing or loving, learn to practice in your own real life all your fantasy longs for. Prepare for love, spiritually as well as physically / professionally and then learn by doing. Any relationship where both are spiritual, where both are God oriented and hungry for love, hungry to learn to love - all learning is a fun game always with a true happy end created by God.

You find many small lessons for life made for your daily love practice. Learn by loving rather than by thinking about love. Love is far too vital for your future to delay your real life love practice sessions. Love at first starts with working amidst people needing your services and products. Then after a while of preparatory "work-loving" God may send you the one to practice direct love - skin to skin, soul to soul.

Spend quality time amidst nature and learn from nature. Accept healing from nature. Then share your love amidst real humans. Life even if eternal is too short to be wasted in virtual worlds or hiding in loneliness. Humans are social beings made to love, made to be loved - skin to skin, real, eyes to eyes, soul to soul - all the way!

Love and Bliss

hans

[Alternate lifestyle]Received Fri, 22 Jan 2010 15:35:31 PHT

Benefits of a public profile in job, business, to find the right new friends and for your love life

Dear members of the Cyberspace Ashram Google friend connect network

One of the many benefits of joining the CA friend connect is to feel and to be among a loving community. To feel as a family member and to know that there are others out on this planet also focusing on God and Love in their own lives. Often people feel lonely on their spiritual path. God always is there with you where ever you are on this planet, day and night! At some point in your own life you may realize that the number of truly God and Love oriented humans on this planet is tiny small. Hence at that moment you may wish to have at least one or a few truly loving God-seekers in your own life as a friend or partner.

In our todays global economy crisis and the ongoing increase of other crisis such as global warming, political tensions, wars, need for change, some of you may think about reorientation in professional life or life in general.

When looking for a new job as freelance, as self employed or when looking for partners, employees or employers - it may be helpful to know the single most important factor to be in common = that is the spiritual orientation of your friends, "customers", partners or team mates in life as well as in your professional endeavors.

To offer other site members from the Cyberspace Ashram - Google friend connect network a better knowledge about you, it may thus be helpful for your very own future to have a public profile completed. Google friend connect allows you to connect any of already existing below profiles to your Google friend connect account to let other members know some more personal or professional details about you.

Social networks and profiles that can be used currently appear to be (Google may add more):

Thus if you have any account with an a.m. social network, then you may complete the profile information of that account as accurate and as complete as possible and then connect your Google friend connect account with that already existing profile.

Each and everyone among us has some real value to offer a everyone may at some point in life need assistance or a friend in his life. Having a public profile may allow other Google friend connect members of the Cyberspace Ashram to find the best match - may be you - for a more happy and more successful future in life, in business or whatever endeavor you may have in mind on your path of love through life home to God.

Thus your profile always should include some detailed information about your professional experiences and expertise, your languages, your location and your interests in life.

God always reaches out to help you - do you reach out your hand to accept God's help ? If no - then learn to reach out your own hand toward God now and for all future. Together the path of love home to God is much easier than all alone, encapsulated in a coconut shell around your heart and soul!

If you have - like most - a missing profile and none of above profile already existing, then you may consider to either at least to create a Google profile.

To improve your life, you may need changes in your life. Changes require actions. Successful changes in life require God's blessing. Love from your side is the best way to secure God's bliss for all your current and future endeavors in life.

Stay tuned with the Cyberspace Ashram for Kriya Yoga, God and Love - visit or subscribe to my Blog Secrets of Love - Solutions of Love.

To join the Cyberspace Ashram friend connect community - visit the Cyberspace Ashram start page, right side below the RSS feed icons.

You may also find some of the loving God seekers in the Cyberspace Ashram spiritual chat room. Though it is sometimes difficult to meet people at your time of login - keep in mind that the Cyberspace Ashram has site visitors from more than 220 countries and the time zones and Internet access often are much different from your own situation.

Love and Bliss

hans

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