Minutes ago i received a call for advice by email:


Hi Hans,

I have found a person who i think is my soul mate and I love her very
much.I love every thing about her but I am hung up about how she looks.
Her soul is so beautiful and she is not ugly by any means but she has a
look that is not attractive to me. We met on the Internet. I know the
physical appearance is only temporal. how can I get over this hang up? I
am trying to dissolve it in love but my shallowness is causing me
turmoil. I think the problem is more in me than how she looks. And i
would like to see my ego be dissolved here. Do you have some thoughts
here for me?

I need your help,

Love ...




and my advice to him was:
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Hi ...

as i wrote in another micro letter or so :

the outside - physical body - is a clear and true reflection of the
INNER beauty of that soul ...

the outside behavior PLUS the karma
all combined with your willingness to HELP and even to have pity and
love the ones NEEDING your love
may cause that special affection and ATTRACTION

just like i did in my earlier decades

when YOU wake up in the morning
then you should look into her eyes without turning toward her
eyes to eyes
arm in arm

and

you should LOVE to SEE what you look at

you should feel AND think

how beautiful she looks
how beautiful she is
how much cute she is
how much i love to SEE her
how much i love to KISS HER
how much i love HER
and then you should LOVE her

every morning
every day
every noon
every night
every minute

you should FEEL lucky and happy and thrilled by looking at her
like looking into something magic that causes butterflies to dance within
that causes your heart to sing
that causes your mind to dance
that causes your BODY to love as much as your heart and soul loves

the ONE God gave you is such
the one God MADE just for you will cause that thrilling, tormenting love
to dwell within and flow everlasting happiness creating within and around

anything else is wrong and causes pain and suffering
anyone else is either in need of lots of preparation and loving before
such experience in OTHERS can be created
or she has still so much love to be learned that lasting happiness fails
to occur

lasting happiness
always includes a kind of "pride" of HOW BEAUTIFUL your one and only is
as BEAUTY in a female is nothing else but the beauty of HER divine love
IF she has dissolved all karma and ego
and drooped all female ego

that's exactly how i can feel inside AND outside for the one God gave me
no matter where she is
no matter what she does
is is inside AND outside the single most beautiful EVER created
she is Nr 1
and there is none else
there is no #2 because in the worst of all cases she still is and
remains Nr 1 !!!

look for THAT one yourself
never cope with any # 9 or so

YOU are worth the very best - the one God made for you - the one who
looks AND is AND loves ... beautiful !!
and the one made for you is worth the very best - YOU


love and bliss

hans

It's Sunday again
many go out
others have lots of visitors or guests
see many friends
call many friends
watch lots of TV
get useless distraction

and
have no time for love
no time for family
no time for partner - for the loved one they once said YES to

now it's time to change, to adapt and modify old routines
Sunday is the day of canceled meetings
Sunday is the day of canceled appointments
Sunday is the day of canceled travels, journeys, zero work

Sunday is the day of
FULL fun

what's most fun ?

Love !!

Sunday is the day to do lesser things MORE lovingly than any other day
Sunday is the day to consciously re-focus again and making love in a
variety of different ways
gently sharing ALL your ways to love the one you said YES to

Sunday is the day to have but one with you - the ONE you said YES to
and your kids if you have and if they are young
because if they are older than 8-12 - then they themselves may want to
share some time with their best friend or boy-/girl-friend ...

Sunday is the day when you do so few things so gently and lovingly that
you gently fall in love again
with the ONE you said YES to

try
enjoy
savor it
all ways to share your love again

and improve Sunday after Sunday

and

sometimes a week may have MANY Sundays ...
because each day you have learned to spend in love with the love one
suddenly turns into a Sunny day
a day filled with love becomes a Sunday

there is always a beginning
Sundays are the beginning
May be God knew his exact reason why he truly invented Sundays for all
his beloved children
one of the side-effects of Sundays may be to have more smiling eyes
more happy children
more happy husbands
more happy wifes
...... less divorces as a result of more love
...... less divorces as a result of more problems being dissolved in love

there is always love ready and willing to flow
each and every day
there is always an occasion to love even on a working day
there is always a time, situation and occasion to REALLY love the one
you said YES to

HERE in the Philippines people have invented the term "short time"
short time is when you have sex and enjoy love without any ego game at all
starting like Michael Schumacher at full acceleration ...
but making and ENJOYING love and enjoying love AT ONCE

a marriage with the one and only can be an eternal "short time"
consisting of MANY continuous times
to do what is most fun

to love
and to be loved