Husband wife are drifting apart as a result of artificial outside
factors and crowded areas with too many other persons nearby and around you

when you met some time ago - all your situation most likely has been
different. may be even different location, different job, different
apartment and neighborhood and different employer and colleagues as well.

all your environment is influencing you - from all people around you you
constantly absorb energy and get more and more their problems and their
illnesses, fears and desires imprinted in you without noticing that YOU
are drifting apart form YOURSELF ...

to be among many is no natural condition. to be in cities is artificial
and man made. the natural, God made environment that heals you day by
day is missing and as a result of missing balancing energies you are
drifting away from your true nature and thus you are as well drifting
away from your partner.

first of all your partner and you are made to be always together, share
all day and night whatever you do - helping each others to love others
and to help in love others. one helping - the other maintaining mutual
contact to God and vice versa.

no human being is made to work and work for profit only but instead all
are made to do loving work. loving work always and very easily can be
done while constantly remaining open for God and thus allowing God to
maintain balance between you to - husband and wife - as well as between
you and God.

while far away from God here on earth it is even far more important to
establish a healthy environment and to be your own boss as soon as
possible. thus allowing you to fully control your environment, the
exposure time and intensity you can handle at any given time and also to
allow you to change whatever is needed or felt to be beneficial for your
holistic overall health.

as long as you are weak you remain employed and thus depending on orders
and assignments without any direct own influence. you entirely depend on
human qualities of your boss and such are often only business and profit
oriented no matter what the cost. a typical boss in nowadays money
oriented world feeds YOU to the benefit of HIS profit and business. YOU
are material to be used up and when used up you may either retire or be
fired.

that's perfectly fine - because that is your very own decision to be
weak and thus employed and a slave of either an organization or company
using you as business robots in human body.

weakness in job also is reflected in weakness in your love and relationship.

if your first and only goal is love and freedom in God, then you have to
strive for a strong position - the only strong position ever in life is
to be free and thus to be your own boss. better your own boss of a tiny
one man one woman family business than a CEO of a billion dollar company
and divorced in a few years !

the question - specially for YOUNG people below 40 or 50 most of the
time is money or love and most decide for ..
money and career offering reputation, recognition and titles. the day
you have all such - you also have lost all your best friends and family
as well.

is that really worth it ??
difficult to belief it ?
then look at all top managers, CEO and leading politicians .. how many
of all you see or know are truly happy in their relationship and how
many are divorced ?

the artificial environment in corporate situations, large cities and
industrial nations is extremely detrimental to relationships, health and
nature as well. forces unseen to most are constantly acting on all
people living in such environment and always pulling them apart form
each other.

keep than in mind when after a few months or years your present
relationship is risking to end in a divorce or disaster. change as long
as it is time - later may be far too late. when you change your
situation you still need time to find back to you - depending on how
long you have been drifting away and apart this inner self healing
process may take many years in a fully natural environment.

another detrimental factor in relationships is the presence of one sided
gender in an office or working environment. a husband in a men only
office or working situation or a wife in a girl only office may drift
back into the 2 world situation we had long time ago and still find
remainings in todays society.

every working environment always should be balanced male / female - yin
/ yang. that means there should be an equal quantity of female energy
and male energy - which normally is given when we have an equal number
of men and women in each office or working environment. anything else
lets you drift out of your own inner balance.

but

if we find locations and working areas with equal number of men and
women - then why can the other part at your job - the one facing YOU be
anyone else but YOUR partner ?? if anyone else can be there to maintain
your balance and inspire you then it also would be possible to do it
with your God given partner as well. may be at home or in a different
company.

love and bliss

hans