My present place - Burnham Hotel - is already fully decorated for
Christmas like most places in the Philippines

the lobby and outside of rooms show signs of love
Christmas decoration is like a mental, emotional and spiritual trigger
changing the focus of life from business or material life toward
spirituality and religion - toward God

may the same occur at your place
all you need to do is to start early in the year to listen to Christmas
songs and to decorate your home and office with colorful loving
Christmas decor

the switch in all hearts will change automatically toward more love and
thus toward forgiveness
resulting in peace among and between more and more
until we are all again one divine family of love

love and bliss

hans

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When visiting places - there are always many ways to look at it
a optimistic way
a pessimistic way
a business way
OR
a loving way

when people arrive here in Baguio
they may see
beggars
blinds
extreme poor ones
excessively rich ones
abundance of sexual problems such as thousands and more of lesbians,
travesties and other MOST severe sexual problems

or

they may see

lack of technology
lack of electricity
lack of water
lack of industry
lack of banking
lack of ??

OR

they may see

need for love
need for spiritual support
and the existence of true hearts
true calls for help
true calls fro assistance into freedom
the NEED for help - the CRY for help
no technical help
no medical help
NO financial help

but they become aware of the SPIRITUAL cry for spiritual help

a city like Baguio called City of God
here on earth it also and first of all means
all people are crying for help from God
help of any kind to FREE their souls
and to take them all home
on the basis of divine love - grace and mercy always and any time is
available to absolutely ALL

flowers are one powerful medicine for broken hearts and damaged souls -
in Burnham park we have thousands of blossoming flowers of many kind at
any given time in the year
these days the roses start to blossom more and more
in a few weeks there may be thousands of sunflowers
and during summer time we see thousands of dahlias - some up to 2+ meter
high in many colors

flowers and healthy nature as a surrounding is one of many methods to heal
spiritual development and active getting in peace with self and all
around you the other part needed for the most direct self healing of
your spiritual being

denying what you are
running away from relationship
suppressing sexuality
avoiding sexuality
remaining single
or venturing into homosexuality
and similar escape attempts or work-arounds NEVER work as they just
avoid manifestation of a problem or try to escape contact with the
origin of a problem

here in Baguio more than any other place severe emotional distress and
spiritual imbalance is manifested by high percentage of the population -
resulting in many other problems as well

most of all problems have their original roots in wrong relationship due
to lack of true love and very specially lack of REAL forgiveness towards
persons met in the past

lack of true knowledge about human creation by God - lack of true
knowledge about God and any and all part of his divine love made
creation results in misunderstandings and emotional stress as well as
spiritual stress and ..
distress

love and bliss

hans

Now that you have studied the chapter about the first kiss - and your
lover has past that first moments of falling in love - it's time to go
on and into the depth of subconscious signs of true love or ego love.

remember that you need to FEEL love without being touched
any love that takes ONLY place in your brain is pure ego love !!

love needs to flow on ALL levels
true love includes sexuality - but true love always MUST include
spiritual love
spiritual love CAN ALWAYS be felt at any distance when meeting
true spiritual love can be felt INSIDE your heart, body AND soul
such capability to FEEL love however depends on YOUR OWN spiritual
preparation and spiritual progress !
it is YOUR responsibility to FEEL love
if YOU fail to feel your partners love
then your partner may also fail to truly FEEL your love as well

Marriages and relationships break apart due to one major reason
lack of love
lack of love results in missing harmony
missing harmony can be caused by two factors

1. wrong partner
harmony is divine
only the ONE single partner in entire creation can be the best match

while having ego - many could be a temporary acceptable match for a
while, years or even the remainder of THIS lifetime / incarnation

truly spiritual persons however are developing faster and faster and
thus as a result of their own conscious spiritual efforts resulting in
progress - spiritual persons get closer and closer to their own true
divine being as made by God.

the more you are spiritually evolved - the less you can be happy with a
wrong partner and the more it is apparent to you

either the right one HERE and NOW on earth

or

NO partner until the right one is ready and met - either here on earth
or back at home in God's home made for us

2. lack of love results from missing testing each other the very first
seconds
if lack of love is causing later expensive divorces or painful
separation and thus wasted life time and wasted true occasions to love
then
why NOT start where relationships break apart ??

makes sense !?

sure !!

far more than waiting and hoping for ..

later
may be
eventually
much later
may be never
...

love while having a physical body is expressed the single most direct
and single most powerful way by ..

SEXUALITY
http://www.kriyayoga.com/english/on_your_wings/sexuality.htm

sexuality consists of MANY parts
being a sexual partner is infinitely much more than just having one kind
or a few kind of sex together

sexuality means:

showing that you can fully accept the love from your partner
showing that you can accept him as the sexual being God has made - male
or female

latter however also requires FIRST that you can accept YOURSELF being a
sexual spiritual being - either woman or man

if I look at the access_log of my domain
if I look at other relationships and see their problems
if I talk to older experienced women and men
of course i see always the very same cause for separation and / or divorce

lack of FULL acceptance of the partner as a sexual being
lack of readiness and WILLINGNESS to MAKE happy

or

i see the same reasons for happiness and lasting relationship -
improving year after year

full acceptance and an active loving and spiritually oriented sex life
between the two

acceptance as a sexual partner
being accepted as a true woman by the man
]or being accepted as a true man by the woman

is easiest and most efficiently shown in oral sex

http://www.kriyayoga.com/english/on_your_wings/oralsex.htm

the spiritual meaning is far more precise as many may want to belief
the point is simple and short

you want to make your partner happy
then you love to have oral sex with him as well
from the very first second and without any limits

for a man that means

a loving man loves to drink the sweet delicious milk his girl has to
offer - even if at the beginning it might be but a few drops

drinking a girls milk is a firm proof of FULL acceptance of HER female
love and to fully absorb female love

EVERY truly loving man also loves to kiss her pussy and make her happy
this way as well - because a girl who accepts being a female easily can
have one or many orgasms by her partner kissing her pussy

any time - when ever she feels like missing or needing it
!!

kissing her pussy is a final proof of loving her as a female - of
enjoying making her happy, enjoying to love make the female being inside
her happy

then he will be a good sex partner as well

any time - any style - any place
from the very first meeting

for a girl that means

a loving woman will love to give her breast and share her milk with him
that is a proof of readiness to GIVE love - as the breast is a location
of a secondary chakra of anahata chakra - heart chakra - used to GIVE
spiritual love

it also means that she will LOVE to make him a blow job and fully absorb
/ drink his sperms - as this is nothing else but the male supplement to
female sweet breast milk

as many girls know and regularly experience - the flow of sperms is
preceded by a constant lasting flow of spiritual love emerging like a
fountain of love from the penis of her partner as well - just like the
breast of a girl is a fountain of physical and spiritual love for her
lover as well !!

when fully absorbing such spiritual love along with all flow of love -
she easily may experience an orgasm JUST form making him a blow job !

a girl with a TRUE loving heart can do anything from the very first
meeting, the first minutes

any girl or a man saying "later"
means she/ he wants to enjoy YOUR love - without giving any love NOR
happiness at all
wanting to enjoy your love without accepting YOU as the spiritual source
of love

above love test typically is done the very first time
and again and again
as it is pleasure to make happy
and of course even more if you see that she / he enjoys being made happy
BY YOU

the first 3 minutes for the first sweet kiss
the first 3 hours for the first sexual proof of love

if any of above fails
then you better stop before wasting more time
failure of any of above is absolute proof of NO LOVE AT ALL
why would you want to spend weeks, months, years or a life time without
being truly loved at all ??

if you add all the previous love tests
and the first kiss within the first 3 minutes as well,

then 99,999999+ % of all potential partners fail during the very first
few minutes...
making any attempt for sex fully obsolete
thus also making any potential pregnancy form wrong partner totally
impossible

out of a few millions - less than one may pass the first few hours of
love test
provided YOU to all the maximum loving as well
else YOU may fail HIS love test while testing your potential new crush
or love
love is serious "stuff"
either you are TRUE
then you can prove it any time
from the beginning and all eternity
again and again in the single most direct and most loving way
by accepting ALL love from your partner
and by GIVING all your love TO your partner as well

later i may write you a practical example of a recent experience i had
with a girl that failed all - even th4e first kiss
and never got even near my room - despite her many "i want to make love
with you", "i want to have sex", "i am horny ..."

having spent far too much time with wrong partners
there is much need for all of us to always BE TRUE to YOUR innermost
being and to your heart
love
give all
do all
but only when your intentions are true love
and only if YOU are sure as well that the potential partner also MEANS
true love and can instantly prove it

that rule is valid for girls as much and exactly as precisely as for all
men !!

save your love for the one who gives you true love who is ready to give
ALL HIS true love as well


love and bliss

hans

After your first looks at your love - either it's love at first glance
either you can love him and have the innermost feeling to want to love
him from the bottom of your heart

or you leave it and abandon any further attempt
it is useless to attempt to spend a life time for someone you have
difficulties at the very beginning to fully and truly love in his outer
appearance as a male or female.

if however you fall in love
love at first sight

then it's time to move on
there may be ONE single chance in a life time to get THAT ONE or be in a
waiting queue for the second best choice God has to offer you
or
to wait a life time or near life time for a "second shot at your missed
love until he is widow or divorced years or even decades later ??

if you are truly in love
then you WILL feel it
you will feel knowing him - you will feel familiar with him
you will feel an instant desire to love him
to hug him
to embrace him with all gentle and strong love you have
you will of course instantly desire to be kissed by him - hence you kiss him

how can you evaluate the first kiss ?

ego kisses with hard tongue !!!

love kisses with soft tongue

ego kisses with wild or very active tongue !!!

love kisses with gently or quiet tongue - gently touching only tongue to
tongue
with very soft and open lips - mos likely wet lips

it's that simple but you will experience the truth of this simple first
3 minutes rule for the first kiss

but what if your "crush" says "i am shy" "only at home" or "later' or
"next time" or find any other excuse for avoiding a LONG sweet gentle
kiss ...
then all his love is FULLY FAKE ego play - nothing else and absolutely
nothing else

true love either exists in a person or is totally absent and of selfish
nature only
selfish love however may need decades or incarnations to re-develop
again into true divine love
too long to waste your life with

it's time to love NOW
later
you may be death when a fake lover is ready to truly love you
you are entitled to true love NOW and you are entitled to be truly loved
in full NOW !!!

ANY excuse to delay the first kiss is proof of LACK of love
at ANY place in God's entire creation a true kiss between truly loving
souls always is appropriate
in a church, at the mayors office, in a police station, in a bus or
restaurant, in the presence of friends or relatives or anyone else !

what to do if the first kiss fails ?
leave that partner instantly but friendly !
there is no second chance for ego
either love or nothing - ego however causes but pain, expenses and ..

further increases YOUR HUNGER for real and true love
the more hungry for love you get while young
the more likely you are coping with wrong partners for a short while - a
one night stand, a weekend or vacation flirt
leaving by the end - when all breaks apart anyway - with an empty heart,
a broken heart needing even MORE love to be healed

by God or by the ONE God gave you ..
HE - the one partner God made just FOR YOU - he will easily and any time
always pass all tests of love
with a happy smile and lots of surprises BEYOND any of your limited or
"infinite" expectations !!
that one - he will be magic to you from the beginning and all eternity

a first truly loving kiss may cover all your face as well - with dozens
of gentle kisses all over your cheeks, eyes and all face and nose
meaning full loving acceptance of your soul as well
and kisses may extend to all body .. meaning love and acceptance in love
of all your present personality and body as well

- male and female - we all are made to be magic lovers

if our ego stops and true love starts all becomes magic in our divine love

every day - every moment - every kiss - every making love is magic and
unique for eternity
that's why it is well worth to be prepared and free for the ONE who
proves true love instantly and all the way
for the one who IS ready and prepared to be happy with you because he
will love to see your happy eyes and fall in love with you again and
again - deeper and deeper ...

the first kiss is long and sweet and makes you horny = hungry for love -
always leaving you hungry for more ... of all this partner has to offer
as the first kiss is a full confession of the depth of his love for you

hungry for more in ALL ways - kissing - loving and hugging and beyond -
open heart free flow of love
a true kiss may easily make a lover girl pregnant ..
how ???
a true kiss in love always may lead to ..
making love once or many times

even within the very first hours of your very first meeting
are you ready to be father or mother ?????

if YES

then YOU prove to have true love

else

you prove to lack preparation and spirituality

or do you really intend to start a "relationship" with barriers, NOs and
limits ?!
if so
THAT kind of love always ends ...
leaving you alone - most likely with a broken heart

make CLEAR and firm decisions when you decide about true love and true
happiness
be true to your partner !
be true to yourself as well !
show who your are and how you are ready to make happy
prove your love and see what is offered to you
then decide using common sense and listen to YOUR heart
while your brain may say "may be later it may be different"
your heart, body and soul is most likely starving for true love NOW
and may get true love NOW as soon as YOU are ready and prepared as well
to truly love.

love and bliss

hans