how to ask your husband to leave

i woman just asked me "how to ask your husband to leave"

normally you never ask anybody to leave - normally the one who wants to
separate goes
hence in your case it's you the one to leave the household - you face
your husband, tell him eyes to eyes in loving words that you want your
freedom and start a new life and love to separate NOW - then you pack
your small bag of personal belongings, clean up the household from all
your personal belongings and go. in less than a half an hour all is done.

when YOU however want HIM to leave - keep in mind that HE will NEVER
return for life. a person sent away has no reason in the world to EVER
return to you ... sending someone else away rather than going yourself
is one of the worst situation ever in any relationship - that decision
is final and for a life time. when you send him away - you lose all and
any right what so ever. you lose the right to see him, talk to him or
meet him - unless he agrees. the one sent away has now obligation of any
kind toward you.

a little more complex is the situation if the wife is real owner of the
property you are living in. then your love is challenged . you - the one
sending him away are the one who failed to open yourself and PROVE love
- hence its you to pay the full price for separation whatever that price
might be.

but how to say .. if you are sure that you no longer have any love at
all and totally lack true love to reconcile or heal / dissolve in love
whatever made you too weak in your heart to PROVE YOUR love and loyalty
to him - if you are sure your situation is hopeless - then just say that
you would love to separate soonest.

normal it's you the one to go - hence you pack all within minutes and go
there is no need to wait any longer and your decision certainly has
matured for months or years. keep in mind that a separation in most
cases is for life - however you need to be able to separate in peace
and as friends.
avoid any accusation -. for sure BOTH of you have made very substantial
mistakes and failed to PROVE love to each other or you simply have
married for a totally different reason than true love.

what ever the reason may be - even if one of you two has already a new
partner - the NEW partner NEVER is the true reason to separate - the
failure of BOTH of you is the only reason why a marriage or relationship
fails and thus the failure of BOTH of you to PROVE love and say a FULL
YES to each others in good as well as in darkest times is the only
reason why any other person ever can enter between two married persons.
a failed relationship always is the result of either a denial to love or
a rejection of love or both at the same time - from one or both partners
concerned.

the one who initiates separation is the one to go - immediately within
minutes - in love and in peace

love and bliss

hans