A true lover always focus on the loving beauty of his beloved one

We humans are like the rose below - beautiful inside but carrying scars outside from our man accidents in life or from our wild and adventurous lessons we choose. Like the rose below having a few scars in the outside rose-petals - the greater is her inside beauty of all remaining body.

Girls and men need to grow strong and to mature, learn and become wise and loving before they are ready to join for life and beyond - i.e. to join for eternity. Hence even the most beautiful girl may have scars from a bite by a shark or from playing tigers or lions, or riding an elephant or horses ...

A girl that never made any adventurous life, outdoor sports or exciting experiments may never show any scars, be like a model - boring and artificial and having nothing at all to offer but fear and lack of experience.

A man who never was involved in some kind of war or fighting will never appreciate true strength, freedom and eternal peace. A man who never slept outside on beaches, mountains or jungle has never seen the real world ... and may have no scars and no strength and no security and courage to offer. The one who conquered the world, went from heaven to hell and beyond - he may show scars all over his body - but his heart and eyes may sparkle like stars - sparkle of true divine love that can heal all the wounds and broken hearts of his lover girl as much as all the wounds and broken hearts of millions of others.n True beauty is when you see beyond the scratches and scars an adventurous person active in life, work and worlds has on his body. True lover thirsts for true love - hence a true lover will look beyond the scratches, into the eyes, into the heart, a true lover will listen to the softness, strength and warmth or a voice, a true lover will look into the depth of the beloved's eyes, a true lover will touch and want to see actions and reactions - a true lover wants to feel love, see love, smell love, hear love, taste love - all over his heart and soul.

Now these days and all future - look far beyond the surface - beyond make-up. get your girl into shower first and look what is left after all the make-up is gone ... are there sparkling eyes and hot love ... is there a smile on her face and readiness to accept and give love - or is there fear, shyness, stinginess, a no, a later, a not so fast, a slowly please ... or is there a readiness to become ONE with instantly. Is the man next to you ready to do all, give all, love like a fountain of love dwelling from an ocean of love.

Anything less than true love is boring - boring people attract boring lovers. Exciting lovers attract true angels. The choice is yours - the work to grow strong also is your own work. You can decide at any given time to grow together - suffering less or no broken heart and less or no more scars - or you can continue to to live, learn, mature and grow separately as most of us did in past milleniums.

Together all life is far more fun - God made us as men and women to be together, to learn and enjoy all life together. The moment to join your love only is up to you. He alone - she alone - will be the one to heal all your wounds from broken heart resulting from the many wrong choices you made, from the many wrong love affairs you hat, from the many sleepless nights thirsty for sweet warming securing embrace by the one to protect you, to hug you and to heat your heart when fire is ready to explode into a sparkle of love.

What many need to learn is to say:

I come to you - love me please - I come to you because I miss your love, I miss your magic touch, I want to love you, I want to be with you - to love you, to kiss you, to hug you to feel you inside and outside, I want to share all my life with you - eternally. Since it is the man to have the home ready for his lover girl - it is the girl to come home to her man - to join him and share all her sweetness with him and his world. It is the man who needs to be sure he has far more than housekeeping to offer - he needs to offer an entire world for his lover woman - a true woman wants to be actively involved in his family business, she wants to be loved and to love, to let all her love flow toward all, healing all, helping all, enjoying life with all.

Are you ready ? Do you have a solid life and home to offer for an entire family with sweet babies growing up smiling and having fun - a life full of love and loving adventures. A life open for creativity and useful, meaningful helpful content as a basis of eternal joy of life?

If you are ready to really love, to really be loved, to really make happy - then you never ever have to ask "can I come to you" - simple say "I come to you" - the one who truly loves is sure to really make happy and hence to really be happy. The one who wants to bring along part of all of his ego however has to ask "can I come to you" and you should sway NO - because you have to divine right to be loved and to be allowed to fully love - without ego.

Love and bliss

hans