Reasons for divorce - boring love and suppressed sexuality. Learn to prevent divorce and reactivate your love relationship

Love can be like roses - colorful and different each and every day. If your love is the same each day, all life long, then divorce is certain to occur sooner or later. Love can be like butterflies, birds, tigers, elephants or other pets .... gentle or wild - but always from the bottom of your heart. Always with the most sincere desire to make happy.

Imagine a love life all in white ... no colors, no spices, no variations

God made humans to be happy. Happy children create happy parents and vice versa. Without happy smiling children no happy parents. Hence it is our all duty to learn to make God happy and thus to be happy to assure God has Billions of reasons to be happy and zero reason to worry about us.

When your love life and sexual life within your relationship start to gets boring, learn to live your fantasies rather than suppressing your fantasies. Why satisfy your sexual fantasies in Internet chatrooms, with hidden dates or telephone sex if you can fully satisfy all your needs and much more beyond your wildest and sweetest imaginations with your truly loving partner ?!

Learn to live your fantasies with your partner - learn to talk about your fantasies openly with your partner and listen to your partners needs - better even, learn to feel your partner's needs of love. If you are truly honest with each other, then you most likely will find that each of you is the fulfillment of his own partners fantasies. Learn from nature, learn from all animal kingdom. Learn which animals have a sweet love life and happy family and which animals have a split and troublesome family life. Look at how animals can be sweet lovers ....

Feel what makes happy and learn to love like in your fantasies ... but in real life with your real partner. Whatever you can do with love, from the bottom of your heart, always is in harmony with God's love. Whatever you can do eyes to eyes and smiling always can result in true happiness in both of you.

It's the difference between male love and female love that makes love between husband and wife attractive.

Love among husband wife is like a bouquet of colorful roses. Each rose has a different fragrance. Each day the fragrance may vary dependent on climate, sunshine and water. So will your love be. Be creative and learn to be spontaneous rather than to repeat multiple times the same.

A happy making love life should be free from distraction. Thus without music or TV, without video and other distractions. A God made lover has an infinite range of love to share and love to absorb. Remember when watching your own sexual love fantasies: Whatever turns you own in your sexual fantasies when focusing on your partner always also turns that partner you have in mind on. The question however is whether or not this partner admits to his or her sexual needs and own sexual love fantasies! To be turned on, you need an established flow of spiritual love between two lovers. Without that consent mutual opening and flowing spiritual love there never can be any turning on - in female and male partner as well!

Suppressing your love needs, suppressing your sexual fantasies will sooner or later result either in disastrous physical illness or in divorce. To live your love is far more pleasant for both than to have to undergo repeated surgery.

Enjoy love - but learn to love with feeling - wild or sweet, angels can be wild, angels can be sweet. Just look at butterflies or birds, at cats or dogs, at any of your loved pets. All wild animals are pets of God, made by God, made to love. Just like humans. Animals and all nature should far more often be used to challenge our own way of thinking or loving to teach us to find our own innermost love nature. To teach us the difference between angel like love and damaging love. True love only can heal. True love however needs to flow to heal. Healing love, active sexuality between husband and wife will prevent all illness and pain occurring in modern society of industrial money oriented life.

Learn to refocus on the true values of life - learn to focus on true love between you and your God given partner.

Love and bliss

hans