Valentine's day on a money budget can be a day with abundance of love. Valentine's Day is only about love and money only substitutes missing love

Valentine's Day is about love only

Now is Valentine's Day and for millions of couples a day of love on low budget due to our global economy meltdown. Love however has nothing at all to do with money between lovers. Love is skin to skin, heart to heart, soul to soul flowing true love. Love has to do with feeling and the heart is the source of such feelings.

The tradition of making gifts, flowers, Valentine roses, jewelry or other material gifts are but a substitute for either missing love - missing love potential within the giver, or a closed heart and missing potential to accept love on the love recipient's side.

If you expect any - any! - material gift for Valentine, then you have to ask yourself about the sincerity of your love and intentions. Are you too blocked to actually FEEL love flowing from the heart and soul of your lover ? If YES, then you are an extreme spiritual emergency and have reason to instantly start learning to love until you can really feel love.

If you feel an urge to make material gifts of love, then you too have to ask yourself if you are able to really give love from the bottom of your heart. True love can travel meters, later kilometers, much later across the entire planet and finally across God's entire creation!

Material gifts are substitutes for love - learn to give the original

Missing feeling of being loved results in desire to substitute true love by material values a closed heart-person can physically see or feel or calculate / estimate its money value and thus attach a love-value to it. Such superficial love always is destined to end in divorce and separation. The less true love flows between "lovers", the more money is needed to substitute true love by "material gifts of love".

Shift from material love to true love

This Valentine's Day is a challenge to mankind to learn to focus on true values in life, true love between lovers rather than substitutes. Substitutes are of temporary nature and never of lasting nature. Substitute for love only have the power to trigger an idea of loving or an idea of being loved. The feeling deep inside your heart and soul of being loved is beyond material world and never can be purchased by any amount of money or other material property or material wealth.

Hence accept the challenge of our global situation for your mutual spiritual benefit. A partner accepting only material gifts of love for Valentine's Day or a partner being able to only give material substitutes of love for this love day is the wrong partner. Wrong partners never change within a few years but may need an entire lifetime of much longer to move from superficial material love to true love.

How to spend your Valentine's Day on low budget?

Spend romantic quality time together. Create romantic privacy for 2 or for your family if you have children. If you have young children always include all your children in your Valentine's Day plan. Children are part of your partner and thus part of your partners love for you and hence belong to you both even more during such romantic days!

Spend time in nature, go on a moonlight walk, if without children - may be you spend an entire romantic night on a moonlight beach or in nature. Create as little distraction as possible. No music, no movie, no TV, no shopping, no third parties around. Just focus on a one on one - heart to heart, skin to skin, soul to soul! Invite God to be with you, to guide you, to heal your hearts, to heal your love, to heal your relationship and to protect your love from outside influences. Love is like a baby plant.

Love needs protection, love needs mutual care for each other. Love needs time one on one - regularly and extended. Love needs mutual activities for the mutual benefit of many others. Love needs to be shared among others by helping others together. Whatever you do in life together - side by side, heart in heart is joining you even more. Whatever you do separately - in different jobs, with different employers, living in different apartments is more and more drifting you apart. Hence plan to share ALL life in love for each other.

Love and Bliss

hans

Tip:

If you stay at home - try my recipe for a sweet exotic Valentine dessert.