To be a better mother, you need to become a better lover. A mother only can be a better woman if she also is a better wife and lover

Happiness of children requires happiness of parents. Happy parents are adult humans - either male man or female woman. Father or mother and husband and wife. Husband and wife means lovers heart to heart, soul to soul, skin to skin. Happy mothers are mothers fulfilled as wife and thus woman as well.

Beautiful flowers are healing for broken hearts

Children in divorce family or broken families definitely have far more problems with health, with study/school/homework and with all life. Children from unhappy mothers, single mothers or career oriented loveless mothers later most likely will develop inner conflicts of self denial, denying the woman inside and ultimately in later relationship problems.

To grow up as happy child you need to grow up in the heart of happy father and happy mother. Two lovers loving each other by all means given by God. Including loving sexuality and romantic love all life long.

How to become a better mother?

To be a better mother you may focus on creating more peace within. Peace with your female side within. Peace with the feeling of being sexy, enjoying being sexy partner with the one God gave you in this lifetime. Feeling comfortable and happy with what God gave you is essential in your mother role. Study the Mothers day Message to understand the relationship between your children and you as mother.

Sometimes to get in peace with yourself requires feeling lovable, feeling "OK" with all your sexuality, feelings, fantasy and love life. To feel lovable you need to CREATE the "account" balance of "having earned" to be loved. If you spoil others, if women spoil men in any possible way. Baking cakes, singing love songs, giving a healing massage, being friendly, being helpful, being useful to male half of God's creation. Then one day - after giving lots of love and loving experiences to your partner and all male world you may improve your own feeling lovable. Feeling lovable as a result of having given abundance of love to all society, but particularly also to your male partner, male friends, father, brothers, etc is the easiest way to get love flowing again freely.

If however you are at war with the other half of God's creation. If you are stingy in love, focusing on career instead of love. Then you may have difficulties in creating a free flow of love INTO you. Your heart and soul is comparable to a confined container. If you never empty a container, there never will be place to refill that container. Hence the flow stops and the existing non-flowing inside rots!

Become a better lover

Love needs to flow. Create that flow and once love starts to flow, keep that flow going and increasing by increasing the amount of love you give as well as by improving the quality of love you give and finally also by enjoying to accept more and more love.

If you have done quantities of good and loving deeds. Quantities beyond your possibility to account for love given, then it always is easy for you to convince yourself to enjoy being loved as a woman much more and more often.

If however you are focusing on selfish goals, career, easy money making and other ego-oriented activities and goals instead of being loving woman and caring mother, then it may become harder and harder to enjoy being loved. Finally after extended periods of selfish oriented life, business and activities you eventually may stop to feel comfortable inn the role as female lover woman and thus you also may develop all kinds of sexual problems, dysmenorrhoea, amenorrhea, painful menstruation or even worst - cysts, tumors and cancer in sexuality related organs and body parts.

Every mother is a woman above all

One tiny but important step toward being a better lover and thus better mother is to spoil yourself and others with lots of tiny gestures of love. Such as installing on your own desktop a beautiful flower wallpaper. A wallpaper to remind YOU of your intentions to be more loving toward others. Wallpapers are made for all and can serve as a valuable reminder of spiritual goals. Wallpapers however may sometimes be more effective on your own desktop. Others may prefer a much more intense proof of love, eyes to eyes, heart to heart, soul to soul, skin to skin.

Beautiful love from God for you - enjoy God's love

Lovable woman are lovable mothers

Unless and until you can create yourself within you the feeling of being lovable, no one else can truly love you. Even God! To be loved you need to open yourself for love. To open yourself for love you need to feel lovable. Hence above all it is your own responsibility to accept love, to prove to be lovable. Buying some flowers yourself for you or using some of the most beautiful flower wallpaper yourself is but one small but most important step toward being a hot woman ready to love, ready to be loved. Even better, you can buy some of the beautiful flowers as plants and keep them inside your home, living room or bedroom. If you care for flowers to bloom and stay healthy and beautiful, then that proves that you care about you and thus that you feel lovable. Flowers only can survive in a sunny, natural and healthy environment. Indoors or outdoors. If your home kills flowers, then your environment also will kill you and your health. You as a God made woman are like a flower in the life of a man. Made to be enjoyed, made to be loved, made to love!

Like every year it is amazing to see how much more Mothers Day e-Cards and wallpapers are used by the Hispanic part of the world as compared to the English, French and German speaking population. May be "Latina mothers" are more loving or better lovers, may be "hot lovers" and thus receive more love in return from their own children? All year long my Postales dia de la Madre, Fondos dia de la madre, Fondos de amor and Postales de amor enjoy high traffic. But weeks before actual mothers day the peak begins already and the "amor-related" traffic multiplies. If you are missing love from grown up children, then you may have given too little love, too many restrictions and too many limits. Time for a change. Everything can be healed and changed. Every change starts inside YOU, with a change of mind, change of attitude, change of your behavior.

From all the mothers I have seen in the many countries and cultures visited, those women who remained to be hot and sweet lovers until old age with their husband have been better mothers and more caring mothers resulting in more loving children and happy children. In the remote province I made the "happy children" pictures it was common practice that grand mothers way beyond 60 years still enjoyed an active and most happy love life with the grandfathers of that village. Happy husband = happy wife = happy mothers = happy children and vice versa!

Love and Bliss

hans