Marriage counseling and spiritual relationship advice. Your marriage drifting apart or broken? Then spiritual counseling and advice will help!

Spiritual marriage counseling and advice is needed whenever a relationship breaks apart, is broken or on the way to divorce. The is one ultimate question that needs to be answered honestly by both: Is there any true love left, hidden deep inside the heart of both? If so, even buried under mountains of pain, stress, broken heart and frustrating memories of repeated failure of even repeated adultery, then there always is a one hundred percent chance to fully heal that marriage. Even more, you have a chance to strengthen your marriage far deeper than ever before. True love between lovers will go on and on forever and far beyond the initial love tests and sweet kisses of the first seconds of minutes you met.

Remember one of the most typical marriage wow: Do you want to love each other in good times and in bad times? Most answered such or a similar question clearly with YES, but rarely ever thought about the meaning of such a sacred promise to each other.

Do you want to take xyz as your wife ?
Do you want to take abc as your husband ?

Both say YES, both usually rarely think what it means to be wife or husband FOR each other. A wife is more than a woman. A husband is far more than just a man. let me explain in detail what most people forget easily in todays world.

God created man and woman - to be husband and wife. God created each being as a sexual being because sexuality is the act of consuming love, giving love and absorbing love physically. All the love offered or needed by a husband and wife. God created all organs, including sexual organs. God also created the fact that we can enjoy repeated times moments shorter or longer of orgasm. Of inner and outer joy of union of our body, soul and hearts.

Hence to be wife means to enjoy being a female woman offering her God given body as a source of joy to husband. Husband means to be a male man offering his God created love and body as a source of love to his beloved wife. Both are in a certain way "toys of love" for each other. Like a love doll - living, alive, creative, enjoying to be enjoyed by the one beloved partner in life, enjoying to be a source of joy for the one partner in life as well. You need to enjoy to give love as much as to receive love. Both at the veery same time and both in full. No limits, no numbers. Just pure divine sweet angel love!

To be wife or to be husband above all first requires to be ready for love. ready for love means to enjoy to be what you are: A man or a woman. Do you love and enjoy and feel cozy, comfortable and happy within your skin as a female or male ? If NO, then it is time to first of all heal your own inner attitude until you accept, enjoy and love what you are - male man or female woman!

As long as you are struggling with your own identity and having a problem to accept yourself as a sexual being as is - made by God - you never can be loved by any partner. Hence step one of every marriage healing always to review and heal your own inner sexual attitude and feeling toward self.

To be ready as wife or husband also requires from the very beginning a full readiness to become mother or father whenever God feels the best time. There never can be a successful marriage when one or both start with any kind of "protection", contraceptives or other means to prevent free flow of love between husband and wife. To become mother or father you need to be willing to be lover all inclusive! A father needs to be prepared in many ways to acquire inner and outer strength needed for a woman to feel good and to fall in love and maintain that being "a woman in love". A mother needs to be sweet as a lover girl as well to maintain a status of angelwife in addition to being in a new role of mother. Hence women need to develop the skills of caring love. Caring for others.

To be properly and completely prepared as husband and wife also does require proper preparation in life. A man needs to have a solid job, a regular income that easily supports a full family with any number of children. That inner and outer strength will radiate into the surrounding and finally create the ocean of deep love a woman needs to actually fall in love! A woman as well needs to be prepared for marriage. By gaining strength in her female aspects of caring love. To care for others, for weak ones, for other children, homeless, ill ones, etc. By knowing how to keep a family healthy and happy inside. The man is in charge of the outside stability of his family, a woman contributes to the inside strength and happiness of a family. Both share together, both help each other, both support each other's role and work.

The ultimate criteria for marriage failure however is usually a lack of true mutual spiritual orientation and mutual spiritual progress. Without spiritual development and progress by both, the marriage drifts more and more apart until finally ready for divorce. As human beings we are spiritual beings temporarily hosted by a mortal body. We are a spiritual soul, a fully conscious and self-aware soul enclosed or imprisoned by our current body. The cause for the temporary imprisonment is our self created karma that separates us from our true home in God. To join in our hearts and soul as angel-husband and angel-wife, we both need to refine our spirituality again. We both need to sweeten our love for all and for each other again. We need to dissolve in love whatever we have caused to be separated from God. To drift away from God until we end up on earth takes a long while and huge efforts in committing mistakes and pain to others in our past years of life or past incarnations.

Hence to reunite, to heal our marriage we need to be willing and ready to "invest very substantial efforts" and resource. That also includes to invest time, money, travel, until we have done all necessary to completely heal all our past. That means we need to be willing to love, to work in a loving way until "job done". There is no place for stinginess, there is no place nor time to save efforts or choose shortcuts even less to save money. If we ever want to reunite, to heal our marriage until fully happy as lovers made by God, then we need to pay whatever needed, work whatever needs to be done, heal all damage - at our own expense, with our own body, soul and heart - with all our strength until ONE in body, mind and soul. That progress of marriage healing only is possible under God's guidance, with God's blessings and love. So either we feel and perceive directly God's guidance or we find a truly loving and qualified spiritual guide, marriage counselor and friend who can guide both with love but utmost precision home to God and toward each other.

The more people progress toward God, the more their ego is dissolved. The less ego we have, the closer we get again as husband and wife, as true lovers made by God. Made of love - made to love.

Where to find spiritual marriage counseling? Above all you need to be willing to invest whatever needed to succeed. Hence forget about therapy in your backyard or neighborhood. Be willing to travel any distance. To invest vacation and more - up to many weeks at a time. Up to repeated times each year for as long as it takes to really fall in love again. To really heal each other's heart and soul from any damage caused by past mistakes. Past mistakes have been expensive. Past mistakes resulting in broken heart, in damaged soul, in drifting apart marriages are far more expensive when finally resulting in a life time loss of the one we originally loved and may be still love deep inside our heart. A divorce always is s success of darkness, a divorce always is a proof of success of our ego. A divorce always is infinitely more expensive by all means, financially, karma wise and love wise than any marriage therapy ever could be on this planet.

Love and bliss

hans

P.S.:

When you read through all my pages, then you see that I never linked to any outside web site for anything spiritual. In this case I know for sure that Georgi and Galina know spiritually exactly what they do or need to do to heal a marriage. Because I know that both have been for many years in deepest marriage problems as well. Both successfully solved all their problems and much more, to become truly loving, truly spiritual husband and wife. And both together had one of the toughest marriage counselor in God's entire creation. In my own counseling I had a strict and absolute rule applied to the two and all others: Either you love each other fully and instantly and you prove that love to each other in full immediately or you instantly divorce!

I no longer offer spiritual marriage counseling on a personal level. I am an "old man" ready to surrender my place on earth to a next younger but qualified few ones truly on their path of love to God. Spiritual guidance also remains eternally available beyond physical body - hence spiritual. For all eternity I shall guide, help and protect all lovers and bring together what belongs together. Here on earth I leave you the Cyberspace Ashram with its completest teachings of love available to all world for free as long as you maintain the text and forward them person to person, generation to generation, from parents to children. Always in its true original.