Received Sat, 13 Feb 2010 13:10:29 PHT
The easier we receive what we want, the faster we loose what we own. The harder you have to work for your goals the better you preserve your values
In modern society people often get instantly what they want or belief to need. Cars, gadgets, apartments or houses often are financed by banks and credit cards before we have actually earned those items we value or wish. As a result of easy obtaining without real work, we handle all such gadgets of life superficially and thus loose all one day.
It is the greed of our financial world striving for ever growing mountains of easy money without work that increases the offer of the financial world to potential consumers. Higher offers to totally unqualified recipients with nothing else in mind but a fast way to earn more easy profits or to enjoy an easy life without having to really work and sweat at all.
Myself I grew up in a country where credits or mortgages where difficult and sometimes impossible to obtain and if then only a small share of the total real estate or business value. Hence above all there was a real need to first work hard and save some real cash surplus before approaching a bank for financing the missing small share.
In my own life I have used financing one single times in my early life for a small amount to start a small business. It was an amount of some 1000 US$ equaling approximately 2 monthly salaries. That situation of owing money to someone was so unpleasant to me that I returned the full financing amount plus interest rate after just a few months instead of a year or two. I worked hard and soonest had the full amount to return to the bank and ask for a change of contract to end immediately instead of the planned 1 or 2 years loan period.
All the real achievements and values acquired I had to earn in advance. That was my greatest blessing because hard work to achieve a goal also makes you careful to maintain your values for all life if needed. Those who gamble and earn at once large sums also may gamble and loose all at once. Just look at the bank and finance industry of the last few years. All these values are nothing but virtual values resulting from gambling with OTHER people's money and in current times with taxpayers bailout money.
Since such bailout money is given by the Billions, that bailout money often also is wasted by the Millions or more through bonus payments or heavily oversized wages for managers.
If you learn again to actually work toward a goal, step by step, until you have achieved your goal all on your own, then you will have paid huge amounts of efforts, sweat and may be blood of your own for the hard work needed to achieve your goal. The result is: Your goals are smaller and potential damages to environment also smaller. The goals are all within your own limits, thus also any reparation of damages resulting from your activities is well within your own possibility to fix and solve.
No matter who pays your dreams, bank, credit card, friends or investors. You, the dreamer, pays for all damages and resulting karma of all your actions and dreams.
In a social system of honesty and love it is easy for all to have your own small family business. All self financed, all done without employees but with your family members only. If you "hire" own family members it is most likely that you always pay honest wages to all and honer the dignity and integrity of each and every one working with you. Family members work with you - regular employees most of the time work for you. That is a total difference in attitude as family members get full benefits from the overall results while employees rarely get more than a small "tip" from your overall earnings or benefits.
Having to finance every part of your dreams all on your own results in a global system well within the limits of our planet and all nature as well. Your true limits are tiny compared to the healing power of our planet. If all your projects are within your own limits, then the destructive impact of each and all humans on our planet is tiny compared to our current system where people find investors, banks and easy money makers to finance even the sickest of all dreams - just for the single cause of making another easy dollar profit at any cost to our human society or the entire planet.
Learn to earn all your achievements on your own without foreign financing and learn to maintain and protect all your values all on your own without body guard, without security, without any protection from third party resources and you will soon have your life again under your sole and full control.
The harder you have to work for all your goals, the more you review your goals and values before investing all your life into your projects and endeavors of life. That system of earning before enjoying also is valid for all your relationship situations. Learn to earn a partner rather than to buy a partner with mortgages and credit card use. What you have and earned all on your own should be enough to attract the right one. Else you either have been too long too lazy and need to work harder or the person you focus on is the wrong one or too immature to recognize true values in life.
Love and Bliss
hans






