Received Wed, 08 Dec 2004 16:03:12 PHT

Christmas gifts - Christmas gifts to avoid for him, her or your children - tax deductible Christmas gifts for work - why to avoid computers and laptops and similar gifts as Christmas gifts

Christmas gifts - Christmas gifts to avoid for him, her or your children
- tax deductible Christmas gifts for work
- why to avoid computers and laptops and similar gifts or working /
study tools as Christmas gifts

there are a few things to avoid when selecting your Christmas gifts for
others

keep in mind the nature of a true Christmas gift - love
when selecting a Christmas gift you want to express your love
hence a Christmas gift should be an expression of love
something touching heart as only love can touch a true heart

hence a true Christmas gift should come from a loving heart
a true Christmas gift is intended to make happy
to create joy of life ...

there are a few useful objects that may be needed
however may seldom create true joy of love
objects that are tools for work or for study may be extremely useful for
some time in certain situation of life
but never really cause true happiness - even less joy of life
some gifts may even cause at some time of life real frustration or stress
some objects chosen as Christmas gifts may cause work, waste of money
for repair
time to prepare in its use

typical object of such potentially stressful nature are computers,
laptops and similar products
while for students or workers or self employed people of any age such
objects may appear to be a required tool to learn or work - they are
surely also a potential source of security and privacy issues,m of
stress due to virus, crashes, data losses and may even cause
relationship problems due to wasted time while using such electronic
tools of work

a typical true Christmas gift however should be purely a source of love
creating joy, relaxation and fun
creating a smile and happy heart

tools of work or tools of study such as computers of any size and any
variations in most cases are tax deductible investments for study as
well as for work
anything tax deductible should be purchased when truly needed but never
as a Christmas gift
you may purchase a computer during December if really needed in December
but it is an investment for the study of children or the work of husband
or wife
and hence never should be considered a typical Christmas gift

Christmas gifts that cause fun, smile and joy of life may be music or
music related objects
or anything that can cause an instant success in making happy or
creating joy of life
usually smaller objects serve this purpose far better than expensive
high tech objects

tools of work or dresses for daily use should always be considered
normal cost of living and never Christmas gifts or gifts for a special
personal occasion such as anniversary or birthday

investments in study, work or business are investments and if truly
necessary should instantly be made when truly needed and be selected by
the one in need - child or husband / wife

to get the feeling of true gifts of love when selecting your Christmas
gifts,
you may want to read the chapter about
Christmas gifts

or the chapter about Christmas gifts for her and him

love and bliss

hans