Usefulness - do you feel useful - are you useful to others ? Missing usefulness in your life may lead to lack of feeling loveworthy

Usefulness
- do you feel useful
- are you useful to others ?
Missing usefulness in your life may lead to lack of feeling love worthy
the more useful you are - the easier it will be for you to enjoy to be
loved by others - by your own partner as well
the more useful you are - the easier you may enjoy love and happiness

Everyone loves to be loved
a simple way to be loved is to be useful
usefulness to others is nothing else but being a source of help, relief,
love or fun for others

being useful to others hence is a natural state of any healthy human being

if you lack the feeling of being useful
then you may really lack true usefulness to others as a result of
lacking expertise in a particular field of activity
or as a result of lacking motivation to BE useful to others as a result
of stinginess or lack of community or family sense ...

if you wish to receive more love from others
from your family, partner, neighbors and colleagues or any other persons
then you need to learn more, strive for better skills
skills are learned or achieved as a result of actual work
thousands and ten thousands of loving work in one field eventually lead
to true expertise var above average or beginner level
hence people may recognize such and make you to their source of help or
advice or to their supplier of goods if your goods are above average

average quality is of no use - nor does it make sense to spend or waste
money for average quality
the best is just good enough for all
for you too
that however requires that you too are willing to give and do the best
the best always is better from what you do today
hence there always is room for improvement
eternally

no one is waling 5 miles for an average coffee or an average lunch -
unless he is starving to death
but many drive 100 miles for top ... whatever !!

no one drives 100 miles for an average music in a dancing
but millions may drive 100 miles for a top music in a truly loving and
romantic dancing ...

to be useful you need to be attractive
the quality of your services or products is the magnet to attract your
customers and your loved ones as well as the one and only God gave you ...


being useful may require being polyvalent - many talents practiced to
the overall situation of life around you
true usefulness means providing true final and complete solutions -
neither workaround nor patches but full and complete solutions and
complete products or services

being useful is nice feeling
being useful is normal
look at nature
all you see is useful
those few plants, trees or animals who fail to be useful are dissolved
in love - to make place for stronger healthy replacements waiting for
THAT place and space that has been occupied by a useless plant, tree or
animal

in human life it is quiet similar
if one baker is providing average quality
if one restaurant is cooking average food
there may be another ten potential business-men already waiting since
months or years to jump into the empty gap as soon as that spot is
getting free and available

or

they jump into the occupied space and start competition
better quality
higher prices may be
more love for customers reflected by more attention
more useful by fulfilling needs faster, better and more perfect

the one who is better always survives
usefulness always survives
the useless always is replaced
in human society as much as in all creation

however
there is space, place, opportunity for ALL to BE useful
the question is
do you WANT to be useful to others ?
do you want to LOVE others ?

if you say YES ..
PROVE it
by working better
longer
providing better quality
meeting the needs of more people in a more precise and more perfect way
by being more useful to more people

usefulness is just another aspect or another word for being love worthy
all are love worthy provided all GIVE love
giving love is the result of a positive decision FOR love
love never flows without active decisions nor without action in general
love is the nature or ONE kind of action toward all - God and all creation
love is the result of spiritual maturity proven in thousands of years
lived and practiced in millions of hours of active work since the
creation of your innermost being
look how useful all trees are and all flowers
all are
loving
healing
converting junk or waste into neutral and healing energy
all are UPLIFTING to their entire environment

love and bliss

hans