Received Mon, 28 Feb 2005 15:27:24 PHT
Husbands and Kriya Yoga - wives and Kriya Yoga - Kriya Yoga in relationships - relationships and Kriya Yoga. What to do with your Kriya Yoga if your partner is too lazy to do as much Kriya Pranayama as needed ?
Husbands and Kriya Yoga
- wives and Kriya Yoga
- Kriya Yoga in relationships
- relationships and Kriya Yoga.
What to do with your Kriya Yoga,
if your partner is too lazy to do as much Kriya Pranayama as needed ?
The relationship between men and women has since long been very special - Men are to spoil their wives with their love. Of course !!
Girls however also have to spoil their husbands with their sweet angel love - of course. However as a result of thousands of years of men courting women - many wives tend to do little of no Kriya Yoga at all and leave all to their husband.
Here on earth however we are in absolutely no position to leave all our wellbeing and success up to others - we are in no spiritual situation to leave our very own spiritual progress up to the spiritual success of our beloved partner.
If a wife wants to fine her way of love home to God - then that girl needs to do her very own Kriya Yoga in full herself. If a man waits for his wife to do her part - he may wait another few thousands of years !!!
Hence a firm recommendation to all husbands and wives:
Do the maximum in spiritual efforts you love to do independently of your partner and family members
Do the maximum in spiritual efforts you WANT to do
NEVER wait on others
never wait on your wife or husband
never wait on your children, best friends or family members
Know your spiritual goal in YOUR heart and soul and go for with all your love and efforts
Invest all your strength and all your resources and all necessary love and time to achieve YOUR goal with your own efforts
If one day you have the possibility to go home - to enter Maha Samadhi - then do it free of any situation of your relationship or family !!
why ?
the opportunity of Maha Samadhi is a firm hand of love from God reached out toward YOU, that means the opportunity to ACHIEVE Maha Samadhi proves to be the VERY best solutions among ALL infinite other options available ...
The *death* of a loved one often is a severe *kick butts* with love to all beloved ones who proved to be TOO lazy to do all the very same efforts on their own during all the years YOU have done your own maximum efforts.
Make sure YOU leave YOUR recipe of spiritual success in material form, such as - books, CD, web sites, diksha, Guru, ... to ALL your family members, friends and relatives !!
Make sure ALL of your beloved ones know exactly HOW you proceeded and succeeded on YOUR path of love home to God ... often it is but AFTER YOU have proved the correctness of YOUR path that your loved ones START their first serious steps toward their return home to God.
During marriage many wives tend to do a little regular Kriya Yoga - because they know very well that practicing such a divine technique makes them a better lover - in bed as well ! Hence often the girls' efforts are self oriented to reduce competitiveness from OTHER girls and to secure YOU the husband ...
The same often also applies to husbands of a very spiritual wife. No Kriya Yoga means poor lover in bed - a little Kriya Yoga means better lover - less chance to face divorce ... a little Kriya Yoga may mean no divorce at this moment - but may result in even faster divorce in a few years when your partner has realized your true intentions and efforts in your heart.
A little spiritual efforts may be too little to be BEST lover and far too little to succeed on your path of God realization !!
If you WANT to succeed on your path home to God you have to do ALL possible efforts. ALL possible - that is LOTS of efforts - all possible efforts is surely a multiple of what MOST Kriya Yogini and Kriya Yogi do these very months or years.
HERE on earth our spiritual situation is a situaiton of extreme darkness and separation from all - our all spiritual situation leaves ZERO room for any laziness, even less room for OTHERS to do OUR work - OUR happiness is OUR duty. Before WE can make happy we have to learn to love - before we can REALLY love we have to be FREE of all our karma and fears. ONENESS in God is the only proof to have dissolved ALL in divine love. Anything less may just be a simple lie to ourself - to pretend that we are already self realized or even God realized without having achieved FULL oneness in God means to pretend ....
If YOU have succeeded on YOUR path of love to God - and if you have told all who wanted to know how you succeeded and have left them the clear instructions YOU have received and followed - then you have done ALL you ever could have done. Now it is up to the OTHERS, your wife, husband, children, best friends and family members to do ALL the very same clear and sincere efforts of Love and Meditation YOU have done yourself. Then it's time for YOU to return home and leave all this planet to all your loved ones.
Once YOU have learned to love to the extent of being able to make Maha Samadhi - your love has developed to a degree of divine perfection that opens the door to even more efficient help outside your physical body toward all those here on earth and elsewhere.
love and bliss
hans






