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Mothers - babies - children and family role - Mother roles within a family - roles of eternal wives and eternal mothers - when women want to
Mothers
- babies
- children and family role - Mother roles within a family
- roles of eternal wives and eternal mothers
- when women want to "have a baby" but refuse to accept the role as mother
These very moments there are a few thousand mothers preparing for inner divorce by abandoning their children in favor of career or social status in an outside work - for profit or just for the sake of being out of home - away from family.
Going "back" to work involves giving children away to others, to day care centers or kindergarten or leaving children alone ...
God cares for all his children - on earth and beyond eternally
here on earth - specially in some countries like Germany or other similar cultures having babies is more duty or burden than joy for most mothers, hence breast feeding often is replaced by bottles and the mother is replaced by early by paid day care centers, kindergarten or mother substitutes.
In countries like Germany it is quiet common to "give away a child" or better "dump a child" a baby as soon as 3-4 years in favor of career and money making. Once many years ago, while having my small clinic in Germany, I had a patient - a loving mother who run a private daycare center for about a half a dozen children. One boy just some 2-3 years of age from a dentist mother .. got a brother. The mother announced already early during her second pregnancy that she will give the newborn into the same daycare center after the first few months. so she did after some 6 months ...
what is more important - money/profit making dentist business and social status of being called "Dr." in a country with abundance of dental care
- or
ONE lifetime loving care FOR the OWN family without any financial benefits nor profits - just for love !?!?
Of course money often is missing in many households ... even a millionair may lack money and needs more - depending on how many thousands of $ he spends a day or week and how much he needs for Mercedes, Ferrari and Porsche cars and other gadgets of zero true value ... There always is a way to waste so much money that even the very richest one need to earn more than they already have.
but valid for most families in Germany and most similar countries ...
in MOST such cases money never is really missing, instead most central European families or households simply spend far too much money for material and luxury items of life leaving insufficient funds for human values in life !! most of these families never think or thought of reducing expenses in favor of happiness and love
in many families having a baby often is considered a duty to secure later pension or even worse a child may be considered an accident - an accident of sex
The readiness for a simple life with values of love and social family life is nearly absent - the ego and thus desire for career, social status and luxury life far too great.
God cares eternally for ALL of you - mothers and fathers alike - of any age, culture and nation...
HOW LITTLE would 20 - 30 years of being FULL time mother be compared to being eternal heavenly father and compared to your later eternal care for all creation ?? your present situation as a "mother" - or father - is but a TEST for your truly loving readiness TO RETURN home OR to stay for another number of ... years, incarnations or millennium away learning the difference of various "values".
Of course it is your free choice to treat babies like robots and dump them for later use as pension-provider only ... as long as you too are happy with zero true love for the remainder of your eternal future or any time to come.
how selfish may mothers be that abandon their children in favor of purely financial or material goals OUTSIDE their family homes ??
why having husband at all if his children are of no meaning nor value to you all - if readiness TO CARE for the ONE tiny little family even for a few decades is missing ??
Think about above questions and your present or future situation BEFORE having any partner and before wishin any babies at all. If you lack the love needed to care ONE lifetime for ONE tiny family - then you absolutely certainly lack readiness to RETURN home to God as well.
returning home means eternal love and care FOR ALL - 7/24/365 !!!
NO vacation - NO weekends OFF and never kids given away to paid babysitter nor children given to childcare centers or orphanages ...
Going home to God means TRUE divine love for HUSBAND AND ALL your children of any age in any position. Going home to God means having learned all human values and having PRACTICED the role of loving father and loving mother.
If you lack readiness to CARE and to LOVE during ONE lifetime here and now on earth above all for all your children and neighbors around you ... then before choosing a husband or living partner you better afford yourself a vibrator,
it may create little of no true satisfaction - true satisfaction deep inside your closed heart appears of no value to you anyway at present
but
a vibrator certainly never creates the pain IN A CHILD's soul a child feels deep inside when being dumped in exchange of MORE money, a second car, skis, SCUBA divine equipment, digital camera, another laptop or simply because the mother has abandoned the child's father in favor of social status or career due to lacking true love ...
leaving home - abandoning the full time role of a loving mother is the inner divorce
that always precedes the outer divorce - the end of husband wife relationship. once fully separated reunion usually takes more than a life time - since all lessons to be learned are fully open and need to be repeated. lessons including having loving babies to care for a full lifetime together. husband wife love is proven by having and caring for babies together a full lifetime on earth. the love you give to your babies proves the love you have for your partner and for God and God's entire creation.
if material things are more valuable
may be its better to CALL on God to FREE the soul caught in your presents children's body
and take them BACK to where they originally came from
you still can buy a rubber or plastic puppee and play mom with plastic substitutes
... until you fully realize the value of a REAL baby and REAL values in life - a value important enough for you to prove at least ONE short lifetime true loving care full time like many mothers did it a few hundred years ago and still do in in some cultures of this planet
like we all do it at home in God since millions and more years for YOU all
are you aware of YOUR values and the true value and MEANING of your children TO YOU !! or are they a mere "investment" to work and pay YOUR later pension ...
a life without children
is like a field without flowers
when you LOOSE your children
any method
then no single person shall cry or pity you
the loving one will know why and where they are gone
the selfish one will save money for daycare and food
and thus has no right to cry for loss of tax deductability
its only about love in God's creation
even if here on earth material values and cowardice may appear to gain majority among much of our society
men and fathers have a different lifelong role as well - comparable to all mothers. I may write later about that in another chapter. for today it may be time to remind some of the regular readers about their near future choices and decisions while damage still can be prevented before divorce has occurred inside and outside your hearts
once a child is dumped into paid services
you may as well already have lost your husband for the remainder of this incarnation
a mother who dumps children
also dumps the father of her children
the love and care you give to your children also is given at the very same time to your husband and partner
if caring for ONE family including ALL "duties of love" is too much after just a few years being wife and mother
then a few decades being single may help you to refocus on your true values
a true father has a home with all goods, shelter, food and security needed as a result of his own hard work - hence he offers all the fields of activities to the mother of his children to allow mother AND children to always grow up in ONE family - together. The fathers home is the playground for all family, to learn, to grow up, to love and to be happy together.
if a mother seeks a change of her "boring mother role" away from her husband and family - in the outside world - then it is time for instant divorce to make place for a loving partner or single life for another while ... another while means a lifetime or a few thousand years - whatever you need to VALUE love and family above all.
God cares eternally - all mankind is MADE to the image of God - hence all have the potential to do the very same - to care ABOVE all day and night years and decades for ALL their children.
Follow simple rules of life and you always have in abundance all you need to be a full time mother for all your children, neighbors and wife for your partner as well. There is plenty to do in the world of a true female women - there is exactly 50% of infinite amount of creative loving healing and caring to do - the other half of what your male partner does - with you - for you and for your children.
In the meantime - in Germany and a few similar places - almost an entire nation gives away their children at the age of a very few years ... fully failing any love tests and spiritual lessons as well as the true joy of being loving angel wife and angel mother. IN exchange some 30% of married partners divorce .. and a rough guess - another more than 30% go astray without divorce - too stingy to pay the price of divorce or to coward and too lazy to clean up the full mess they created in a world empty of love.
what is your world - where do you belong to and what is your decision ?? dump a child or all children together and seek satisfaction in career - or seek and care for the existing love at home in a cozy love filled home with humans and hearts - angel babies and loving husband ... make up your mind NOW - later it may be too late to repair the damage in a single lifetime. mountains of karma can be HUGE - to huge for an empty heart to be dissolve in money !
love and bliss
hans
- babies
- children and family role - Mother roles within a family
- roles of eternal wives and eternal mothers
- when women want to "have a baby" but refuse to accept the role as mother
These very moments there are a few thousand mothers preparing for inner divorce by abandoning their children in favor of career or social status in an outside work - for profit or just for the sake of being out of home - away from family.
Going "back" to work involves giving children away to others, to day care centers or kindergarten or leaving children alone ...
God cares for all his children - on earth and beyond eternally
here on earth - specially in some countries like Germany or other similar cultures having babies is more duty or burden than joy for most mothers, hence breast feeding often is replaced by bottles and the mother is replaced by early by paid day care centers, kindergarten or mother substitutes.
In countries like Germany it is quiet common to "give away a child" or better "dump a child" a baby as soon as 3-4 years in favor of career and money making. Once many years ago, while having my small clinic in Germany, I had a patient - a loving mother who run a private daycare center for about a half a dozen children. One boy just some 2-3 years of age from a dentist mother .. got a brother. The mother announced already early during her second pregnancy that she will give the newborn into the same daycare center after the first few months. so she did after some 6 months ...
what is more important - money/profit making dentist business and social status of being called "Dr." in a country with abundance of dental care
- or
ONE lifetime loving care FOR the OWN family without any financial benefits nor profits - just for love !?!?
Of course money often is missing in many households ... even a millionair may lack money and needs more - depending on how many thousands of $ he spends a day or week and how much he needs for Mercedes, Ferrari and Porsche cars and other gadgets of zero true value ... There always is a way to waste so much money that even the very richest one need to earn more than they already have.
but valid for most families in Germany and most similar countries ...
in MOST such cases money never is really missing, instead most central European families or households simply spend far too much money for material and luxury items of life leaving insufficient funds for human values in life !! most of these families never think or thought of reducing expenses in favor of happiness and love
in many families having a baby often is considered a duty to secure later pension or even worse a child may be considered an accident - an accident of sex
The readiness for a simple life with values of love and social family life is nearly absent - the ego and thus desire for career, social status and luxury life far too great.
God cares eternally for ALL of you - mothers and fathers alike - of any age, culture and nation...
HOW LITTLE would 20 - 30 years of being FULL time mother be compared to being eternal heavenly father and compared to your later eternal care for all creation ?? your present situation as a "mother" - or father - is but a TEST for your truly loving readiness TO RETURN home OR to stay for another number of ... years, incarnations or millennium away learning the difference of various "values".
Of course it is your free choice to treat babies like robots and dump them for later use as pension-provider only ... as long as you too are happy with zero true love for the remainder of your eternal future or any time to come.
how selfish may mothers be that abandon their children in favor of purely financial or material goals OUTSIDE their family homes ??
why having husband at all if his children are of no meaning nor value to you all - if readiness TO CARE for the ONE tiny little family even for a few decades is missing ??
Think about above questions and your present or future situation BEFORE having any partner and before wishin any babies at all. If you lack the love needed to care ONE lifetime for ONE tiny family - then you absolutely certainly lack readiness to RETURN home to God as well.
returning home means eternal love and care FOR ALL - 7/24/365 !!!
NO vacation - NO weekends OFF and never kids given away to paid babysitter nor children given to childcare centers or orphanages ...
Going home to God means TRUE divine love for HUSBAND AND ALL your children of any age in any position. Going home to God means having learned all human values and having PRACTICED the role of loving father and loving mother.
If you lack readiness to CARE and to LOVE during ONE lifetime here and now on earth above all for all your children and neighbors around you ... then before choosing a husband or living partner you better afford yourself a vibrator,
it may create little of no true satisfaction - true satisfaction deep inside your closed heart appears of no value to you anyway at present
but
a vibrator certainly never creates the pain IN A CHILD's soul a child feels deep inside when being dumped in exchange of MORE money, a second car, skis, SCUBA divine equipment, digital camera, another laptop or simply because the mother has abandoned the child's father in favor of social status or career due to lacking true love ...
leaving home - abandoning the full time role of a loving mother is the inner divorce
that always precedes the outer divorce - the end of husband wife relationship. once fully separated reunion usually takes more than a life time - since all lessons to be learned are fully open and need to be repeated. lessons including having loving babies to care for a full lifetime together. husband wife love is proven by having and caring for babies together a full lifetime on earth. the love you give to your babies proves the love you have for your partner and for God and God's entire creation.
if material things are more valuable
may be its better to CALL on God to FREE the soul caught in your presents children's body
and take them BACK to where they originally came from
you still can buy a rubber or plastic puppee and play mom with plastic substitutes
... until you fully realize the value of a REAL baby and REAL values in life - a value important enough for you to prove at least ONE short lifetime true loving care full time like many mothers did it a few hundred years ago and still do in in some cultures of this planet
like we all do it at home in God since millions and more years for YOU all
are you aware of YOUR values and the true value and MEANING of your children TO YOU !! or are they a mere "investment" to work and pay YOUR later pension ...
a life without children
is like a field without flowers
when you LOOSE your children
any method
then no single person shall cry or pity you
the loving one will know why and where they are gone
the selfish one will save money for daycare and food
and thus has no right to cry for loss of tax deductability
its only about love in God's creation
even if here on earth material values and cowardice may appear to gain majority among much of our society
men and fathers have a different lifelong role as well - comparable to all mothers. I may write later about that in another chapter. for today it may be time to remind some of the regular readers about their near future choices and decisions while damage still can be prevented before divorce has occurred inside and outside your hearts
once a child is dumped into paid services
you may as well already have lost your husband for the remainder of this incarnation
a mother who dumps children
also dumps the father of her children
the love and care you give to your children also is given at the very same time to your husband and partner
if caring for ONE family including ALL "duties of love" is too much after just a few years being wife and mother
then a few decades being single may help you to refocus on your true values
a true father has a home with all goods, shelter, food and security needed as a result of his own hard work - hence he offers all the fields of activities to the mother of his children to allow mother AND children to always grow up in ONE family - together. The fathers home is the playground for all family, to learn, to grow up, to love and to be happy together.
if a mother seeks a change of her "boring mother role" away from her husband and family - in the outside world - then it is time for instant divorce to make place for a loving partner or single life for another while ... another while means a lifetime or a few thousand years - whatever you need to VALUE love and family above all.
God cares eternally - all mankind is MADE to the image of God - hence all have the potential to do the very same - to care ABOVE all day and night years and decades for ALL their children.
Follow simple rules of life and you always have in abundance all you need to be a full time mother for all your children, neighbors and wife for your partner as well. There is plenty to do in the world of a true female women - there is exactly 50% of infinite amount of creative loving healing and caring to do - the other half of what your male partner does - with you - for you and for your children.
In the meantime - in Germany and a few similar places - almost an entire nation gives away their children at the age of a very few years ... fully failing any love tests and spiritual lessons as well as the true joy of being loving angel wife and angel mother. IN exchange some 30% of married partners divorce .. and a rough guess - another more than 30% go astray without divorce - too stingy to pay the price of divorce or to coward and too lazy to clean up the full mess they created in a world empty of love.
what is your world - where do you belong to and what is your decision ?? dump a child or all children together and seek satisfaction in career - or seek and care for the existing love at home in a cozy love filled home with humans and hearts - angel babies and loving husband ... make up your mind NOW - later it may be too late to repair the damage in a single lifetime. mountains of karma can be HUGE - to huge for an empty heart to be dissolve in money !
love and bliss
hans
