Love without sex or is love a permanent part of sex ?

Love vs sex - is love without sex possible or is love a permanent part of sex ? Learn to fully understand the relationship or meaning of love vs sex to avoid emotional and spiritual stress and broken relationshipsbr
Many say or wish to love without sex
others say sex is unimportant only love matters

what is the relationship between love and sex ?

here a few examples to help you understand the meaning of love vs the meaning of sex:

love is like food
sex is like EATING food

another example of love vs sex:

love is like the ocean
sex is like swimming or playing IN the ocean

let's look at first a.m. example to fully understand the relationship between love and sex in a loving relationship:

Love is the idea people have
- love is the POTENTIAL to make happy or to be made happy

like a menu in a restaurant offers you the potential to eat and thus to satisfy your physical needs for vitamins, minerals and delicious energy resources for your daily work or activities

Here below our learning scenario:
Our delicious daily menu
are you hungry ? make your choice below


Looks very delicious - Price US$ 7500 per person - can't afford.


Out of stock - need 3-6 hrs to shop missing ingredients ...


Your consciousness remembers the TV show - too many calories for your age, may cause XYZ illness ...

Now keep looking at all above delicious gourmet food - repeat it for a few hours - just looking at good food without having the opportunity to ever eat or even taste any of above ...
How does that feel like ? After a few hours it may suddenly turn into stress and soon later into a decision to have ANYTHING at all - rather than starving to death ...
( all above gourmet food is available in reality for affordable prices and usually within minutes in Baguio city - Philippines )
a menu full of delicious gourmet dishes easily and instantly may turn into a factor of stress if:

- the food is too expensive and you may fail to afford it
- you have no money at all to buy food
- the food offered is unavailable - out of stock or what ever reason
- the waiter refuses to serve you any food
- you are at the wrong time in the restaurant and the kitchen is closed/off duty
- you have no permission to eat any of the food - but only can look at the pictures of delicious looking gourmet dishes
- you are being told: wait we need first to get ingredients it may take a few hours

...

you are hungry
getting more and more hungry
and have NO food at all

hence the offer, pictures, menu about food PLUS the knowledge of its unavailability despite the offer of food quickly may turn into a powerful factor of stress

soon you are ready to go OUT and take ANY food offered, even fast food, junk food, snacks ...

food offered without the ability to eat it when ever you are hungry for a PARTICULAR food YOU love to eat or feel needing is totally worthless and has NO positive affect on your health, strength or wellbeing at all - in contrary, food offered in pictures or menu or visible but UN-available for what ever reason turns into a solid stress factor and thus into a factor for serious illness ... emotional illness, mental disturbances and spiritual illness - all leading sooner or later to physical discomfort and serious physical illness.

Food only is of value to the hungry one if he/she can eat all at any given time to satisfy the needs for a well balanced health, body and overall wellbeing

love is the food for the soul
sex is the act of absorbing food !!

love needs to be offered by BOTH in full and on a permanent basis FREE of even the slightest restrictions or limits what so ever
then love can flow
in a truly loving relationship love always needs to flow in both directions simultaneously

if you have a container or bottle to store drinking water
the filling of the container makes no sense if the water never is emptied by proper usage
the container would overflow and hence the water be wasted

on the other side
if you only drink without ever replenishing the water - the container soon wold be empty

the very same applies to love
love from man to woman needs to be given
while love from woman to man also is given at the very same time

may be one of the 2 "containers" the woman or the man is more empty
hence ONE of the 2 in a relationship may feel the need to first give before receiving

being empty may never have to do with THAT particular relationship
a person - any person - can be "burnt out" from work, from life, from any or all previous WRONG relationship

as a loving partner you HAVE learn to FEEL if your partner is burnt out and be ready to HEAL his needs before being able to receive. Millions among us carry a serious damage in our hearts as a result of MANY incarnations with wrong partner or no partner at all or partner with selfish, non-loving attitude

Now some additional explanations about the comparison of love and water
when love is like water
then sex is like swimming in water, playing in water, farming in water ( mariculture ) water sports, having fun in water ...

all the millions who LOVE water will fully agree that just looking at a picture of water or standing on the beach looking at the ocean, a clean lake or river or observing others having fun in the water is in absolutely NO way satisfying their appetite for being IN the water themselves

water is an exciting playground to have huge amount of fun all life time
water has many most fruitful purposes

water is needed to let fruits and food grow
water is needed by all healing herbs, plants, flowers, vegetables, bushes and trees to grow and thus to provide us with food

water is used for straight HEALING power and many therapeutic systems have been developed entirely with various water applications to heal even complex illnesses

water is used for drinking
water is used to refresh
water is used for cleaning of inner and outer body

all above is valid for love as well
love in ALL various ways is nutritious, a substantial factor in growth of inner satisfaction and joy of life and above all love is the single greatest healing power of all possible healing resources or pharmaceutical products
even more important
love is available to all mankind, poor and rich, young or old
male and female
even all plants and all animal kingdom have love and can receive love or produce love for all and from all

God is the source of love and all plants, all animals, all trees and all humans have a potential connection to God
how open that connection is depends solely on each individual
hence each of us decides how much love can flow
or if no love at all can flow due to full denial of love

the flowing love only can heal
the flowing love only can make happy

hence

love needs to be absorbed, touched, played with, enjoyed
any time
any place
FREE of even the smallest restrictions

ONLY a sincere and FULL YES to your partner can initiate the flow of love
once that magic flow of love has started
the healing from all damages resulting from our past experiences and crashes in life will begin the more often we love - the faster we are being healed
the healing takes place by giving AND receiving love
BOTH is of equal importance
we begin by establishing a balance between giving and receiving
hence those who have been on the recipient side more often than on the giving side may first reverse the flow by being given more until their inner balance is reestablished

sex requires love = the desire to BE happy PLUS the desire to MAKE happy
love without sex is like food without eating it
love without sex is like water without using it
hence
love is the principle to create happiness and joy
sex is the activity to really fulfill and realize the principle of love


Happy Valentines to all

Love and Bliss

hans