Sex addiction - sex addicts. Meaning and definition of sex addiction. Why are people suffering from sex addiction and how to solve sex addiction problems?

Sex is the divine act of exchanging love between 2 partners of opposite sex. Addicted to sex means addicted to love - sex addiction in a negative way ONLY is experienced if a loving partner is missing - when in a situation of rejected love or denied love. Hence a mutually satisfying exchange of love only works if:

- there is true love actually flowing from both sides toward their partner

for love to actually flow:

- both partners need to be really open to fully accept and fully absorb the love offered in the bottom of their heart

In most situations both above is missing in today's relationships. Most relationships are karma relationships and no love relationships.

In a typical karma relationship there is a desire to possess a person without making that person really happy. Marrying a person by denying love or by rejecting love is a cruel manifestation of revenge and punishment for something that might have been experienced in very ancient times in an earlier incarnation between the 2 or a painful experience from any other person of the opposite sex. Hence there is either no love or no readiness to accept the offered love. As a result of lack of any one or both of above 2 most important factors for a satisfying relationship - the permanent hunger for love - equaling a hunger for sex results. Sex addiction results in relationships where an attempt to love without sex is made. Hence people know where they are missing the satisfaction - in their relationship - and search for the solution by searching for more or better sex. A sex addict is nothing else but a person who has repeatedly failed to receive true love and thus true satisfaction in sex. He/she will keep on searching and searching, changing partners or increasing the number of sex - waiting in vain for the real experience of full innermost sexual satisfaction. Sex addiction can only be solved by ALL mankind being most sincere in all love relationships. Being more direct and fully open to give all love needed by the own partner and to fully absorb all love offered by the own partner. Ask yourself the question: "Do i truly want to give ALL possible happiness and fullest satisfaction in love to that particular partner?" and "Do I really want that particular partner to be the one to make ME happy?"

A YES to BOTH above questions is a YES to true love - then do it, prove love and allow him / her to make you fully happy in the most direct way God gave you - by means of divine loving sex - and give him / her all love needed in the most efficient way possible.

Else - if the answer to any 2 above question is NO - divorce instantly - give freedom and stop occupying a person you never wanted to truly be happy from the bottom of your heart.

Both situations - rejected love or denied love - can lead to sex addiction. Rejected or denied love are a most serious emotional and spiritual stress factor in a human being. There is nothing worst than any or both - rejection of love or denial to love. The refusal of accepting and fully absorbing all love by a given partner can lead to an ongoing search for another partner, as well as the current partner's denial of giving any or all love needed may lead to the search of another partner ready to GIVE love.

Love can be re-learned or better re-awakened by instantly dropping any cause against our true partner - the wrong partner however may never be capable to fully give that deep innermost satisfaction of loving us as we wish or dream to be loved nor give us the satisfaction of acceptance of our love.

What keeps all sex addicts keeping addicted is the deep innermost memories of another time, another relationship, of how it once was - only the one true love partner God gave us can create instantly and eternally that true satisfaction that solves and dissolves any hunger for love and thus any sex addiction - our "soul mate" one in all of God's creation. the one we keep dearest in our innermost memories, the one who now may be lost as much as we on our search for true love, or the one who may be home in God - one with God - already waiting for you to return home as well - in love and free of any revenge toward any one for any reason.

Sex addiction is nothing else but the persistent hunger for love in a situation without truly loving partner or with a wrong partner. Sex addiction is the manifestation of extreme unsatisfied hunger for love - hunger for giving love and or hunger for receiving love beyond simply being horny. Sex addiction is the result of extreme emotional distress in an environment without true love - in an environment of wrong values of life and no time for the most important in all eternal life - true love between husband and wife and all creation.

Only true love can solve sex addiction. True love requires full spiritual development and spiritual progress in all aspects of spirituality.


Love and bliss

hans