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Received Wed, 05 Apr 2006 21:44:40 PHT
Hugging - 3 different types of hugging - what kind of hugging do you practice ? Is your hugging well balanced ??
It is normal to love hugging
it is normal to enjoy hugging
however sometimes hugging sucks after a while
why?
the 3 types of hugging are:
1.
the one who needs love, the one who needs protection, shelter and comforting
2.
the one who loves to GIVE love, who loves to protect, to comfort, to be mother or to be father for others
3.
the 2 lovers who love each other - the 2 lovers who love to give and receive at the same time these two lovers BOTH are equally strong in life and in their spiritual heart. as a result of excessive experiences they love to love, to be loved, to play any love game that is fun for both and they know and feel what the partner needs because they BOTH always are receptive for the needs of their partner. the first type of lover is enjoying to receive like a baby. his giving / protecting / pampering, comforting lover is the ever nursing - ever giving provider of love. such type of hugging may be interesting or even healing for a partner who has missed being parent - being father or mother for a long time. for someone who loves to GIVE or NEEDS to give for a long time, for weeks or months ... in extreme situations even a few years ...
but then it is time to reverse polarity and GIVE love rather than being a lifetime "sucker" of love. this first type of hugging sucks after a while. "sucks" in this case LITERALLY means this type of hugging draws energy away from the other partner, hugging draws life force away from the giver without any "refill". after a while that giver will feel EMPTY and search for another source of love to refill his own needs. a "sucker" is like a baby who drinks from the mother without ever giving any food to the mother - like a vampire to empty the giver of his life force and finally to kill that giver.
the second type of hugging is done by those who are strong and have plenty to give - a strong love can give for an extended time without receiving anything at all - he receives from nature or from god directly. Until God calls him / her back HOME.
THE LAST TYPE of hugging is the normal hugging that is eternally pleasant for BOTH. an ever changing giving and receiving. a free flow of love in BOTH directions. creating joy in the partner, joy in OTHERS and enjoying the happiness created in others while at the same time absorbing whatever received from others. This type of hugging may switch within minutes or hours from seducer to being seduced, from lover to being loved ... however needed, when ever needed, whatever is enjoyed most by BOTH at any given time.
A man in his physical incarnation FIRST and above all needs to focus on GIVING love in abundance, in giving shelter, in providing food and comfort to his family and lover girl ... while a girl in her female incarnation needs to focus on saying YES to accept and absorb all love available and offered.
may there be an ocean of love for all
to fulfill all lovers needs to receive all love
as well as to give all love dwelling from an infinite divine source of a divine heart
Make sure you know what type of hugging you practice and make sure you are strong enough to be source and recipient in similar proportions to maintain a healthy balance between giving and receiving love at any given time.
love and bliss
hans
it is normal to enjoy hugging
however sometimes hugging sucks after a while
why?
the 3 types of hugging are:
1.
the one who needs love, the one who needs protection, shelter and comforting
2.
the one who loves to GIVE love, who loves to protect, to comfort, to be mother or to be father for others
3.
the 2 lovers who love each other - the 2 lovers who love to give and receive at the same time these two lovers BOTH are equally strong in life and in their spiritual heart. as a result of excessive experiences they love to love, to be loved, to play any love game that is fun for both and they know and feel what the partner needs because they BOTH always are receptive for the needs of their partner. the first type of lover is enjoying to receive like a baby. his giving / protecting / pampering, comforting lover is the ever nursing - ever giving provider of love. such type of hugging may be interesting or even healing for a partner who has missed being parent - being father or mother for a long time. for someone who loves to GIVE or NEEDS to give for a long time, for weeks or months ... in extreme situations even a few years ...
but then it is time to reverse polarity and GIVE love rather than being a lifetime "sucker" of love. this first type of hugging sucks after a while. "sucks" in this case LITERALLY means this type of hugging draws energy away from the other partner, hugging draws life force away from the giver without any "refill". after a while that giver will feel EMPTY and search for another source of love to refill his own needs. a "sucker" is like a baby who drinks from the mother without ever giving any food to the mother - like a vampire to empty the giver of his life force and finally to kill that giver.
the second type of hugging is done by those who are strong and have plenty to give - a strong love can give for an extended time without receiving anything at all - he receives from nature or from god directly. Until God calls him / her back HOME.
THE LAST TYPE of hugging is the normal hugging that is eternally pleasant for BOTH. an ever changing giving and receiving. a free flow of love in BOTH directions. creating joy in the partner, joy in OTHERS and enjoying the happiness created in others while at the same time absorbing whatever received from others. This type of hugging may switch within minutes or hours from seducer to being seduced, from lover to being loved ... however needed, when ever needed, whatever is enjoyed most by BOTH at any given time.
A man in his physical incarnation FIRST and above all needs to focus on GIVING love in abundance, in giving shelter, in providing food and comfort to his family and lover girl ... while a girl in her female incarnation needs to focus on saying YES to accept and absorb all love available and offered.
may there be an ocean of love for all
to fulfill all lovers needs to receive all love
as well as to give all love dwelling from an infinite divine source of a divine heart
Make sure you know what type of hugging you practice and make sure you are strong enough to be source and recipient in similar proportions to maintain a healthy balance between giving and receiving love at any given time.
love and bliss
hans
