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Received Fri, 21 Apr 2006 10:28:11 PHT
Is your problem only your problem - or is your problem also my problem or our all problem ?
Problems sometimes are real - sometimes problems exist only as a matter of wrong perception or partial perception of a situation or as a result of lacking knowledge about a subject.
In a relationship a problem always is the problem of the entire family. Even if only one person considers a situation as a problem - all family is affected by that one person having a problem, hence all family needs to assist and cooperate to make that problem disappear or to solve that problem.
open and loving talk about ALL is needed to solve a problem situation where only one partner considers a situation as a problem. change in attitude in one or both partners concerned usually also is needed in addition to learning how to change the situation that created the problem.
in a relationship where BOTH partners share ALL a problem never should occur for more than minutes. when you share all with your partner you share
- all thoughts
- all fantasies
- all dreams
- all interests
- all plans
- all goals
- all mail/eMail
- all conversations
hence both partners always are fully and directly aware of all in each others life.
sharing all is normal in all truly loving relationships. keeping anything away or even secret from the rest of the family or from the partner is the beginning of a problem as the partner or remaining of the family KNOWS that there IS something else you never talk about. consequently the fantasy starts to create wild scenarios about what that hidden part could be in your life: a love affair, a danger, a secret plan, ...
when you have a partner, a family OR even friends, you are expected to always share ALL with ALL at any given time, eternally as much as we all always share all with God. all have a divine right to know all, all have a divine right to know how they could help you, what is going on INSIDE you, ...
why?
because ALL creation and here on earth ALL your family, children, friends, neighborhood, colleagues at work, etc. are affected by your aura and hence need to know the cause and origin of all that is inside you.
in true spiritual life there is truthfulness, honesty and loyalty among all as a basis of true love. such true love is ever growing, refining and thus getting more enjoyable for all - the love giver as well as the love recipients.
all those having a problem as a result from wrong perception have a divine duty to spiritually progress and to clean and thus enlighten their own perception to always see all as it really IS and to always act and react in a truly loving way. The cleaning of perception is achieved as a result of true and full practice of Kriya Yoga and will result in absolute perception of all as it really IS. In situations of ture love and full openness among all, the truth always is loving and hence healing and freeing.
All problems always need to be solved - best is problem solving on a daily or even ongoing basis. Unsolved problems may either lead to serious real problems in your relationship or life or even to an additional future reincarnation. we all need to mature to the point to avoid problems, to solve all problems in love instantly and to protect all others from future problems. ture love is the key to avoid problems within relationships. if problems repeatedly occur in a relationship or a particular problem persists in a relationship - then this may be considered a serious proof of lacking true love in one or both partners. a relationship is to be based on true love and is the be clean and free of ANY problem. Both partners need to FULLY cooperate by spiritually progressing and solving all wrong perception and all wrong behavior in divine love. If true love is your goal in life, then true love will help you to solve all problems - if anything else is your true goal in life, then problems always will persist in your life as well as the life of all around you.
love and bliss
hans
In a relationship a problem always is the problem of the entire family. Even if only one person considers a situation as a problem - all family is affected by that one person having a problem, hence all family needs to assist and cooperate to make that problem disappear or to solve that problem.
open and loving talk about ALL is needed to solve a problem situation where only one partner considers a situation as a problem. change in attitude in one or both partners concerned usually also is needed in addition to learning how to change the situation that created the problem.
in a relationship where BOTH partners share ALL a problem never should occur for more than minutes. when you share all with your partner you share
- all thoughts
- all fantasies
- all dreams
- all interests
- all plans
- all goals
- all mail/eMail
- all conversations
hence both partners always are fully and directly aware of all in each others life.
sharing all is normal in all truly loving relationships. keeping anything away or even secret from the rest of the family or from the partner is the beginning of a problem as the partner or remaining of the family KNOWS that there IS something else you never talk about. consequently the fantasy starts to create wild scenarios about what that hidden part could be in your life: a love affair, a danger, a secret plan, ...
when you have a partner, a family OR even friends, you are expected to always share ALL with ALL at any given time, eternally as much as we all always share all with God. all have a divine right to know all, all have a divine right to know how they could help you, what is going on INSIDE you, ...
why?
because ALL creation and here on earth ALL your family, children, friends, neighborhood, colleagues at work, etc. are affected by your aura and hence need to know the cause and origin of all that is inside you.
in true spiritual life there is truthfulness, honesty and loyalty among all as a basis of true love. such true love is ever growing, refining and thus getting more enjoyable for all - the love giver as well as the love recipients.
all those having a problem as a result from wrong perception have a divine duty to spiritually progress and to clean and thus enlighten their own perception to always see all as it really IS and to always act and react in a truly loving way. The cleaning of perception is achieved as a result of true and full practice of Kriya Yoga and will result in absolute perception of all as it really IS. In situations of ture love and full openness among all, the truth always is loving and hence healing and freeing.
All problems always need to be solved - best is problem solving on a daily or even ongoing basis. Unsolved problems may either lead to serious real problems in your relationship or life or even to an additional future reincarnation. we all need to mature to the point to avoid problems, to solve all problems in love instantly and to protect all others from future problems. ture love is the key to avoid problems within relationships. if problems repeatedly occur in a relationship or a particular problem persists in a relationship - then this may be considered a serious proof of lacking true love in one or both partners. a relationship is to be based on true love and is the be clean and free of ANY problem. Both partners need to FULLY cooperate by spiritually progressing and solving all wrong perception and all wrong behavior in divine love. If true love is your goal in life, then true love will help you to solve all problems - if anything else is your true goal in life, then problems always will persist in your life as well as the life of all around you.
love and bliss
hans
