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How to get rid of your husband / wife / partner - the easiest way to loose your partner, the most efficient method to make your partner leave you is jealousy.
How to get rid of your husband / wife / partner - the easiest way to loose your partner, the most efficient method to make your partner leave you is jealousy.
Jealousy always is proof that you give far less love than possible. Most people have a relationship with very limited love. they have a precise limit they agree to give, to do or to accept and anything beyond that limit results in a simple direct or indirect NO.
indirect NO can be any answer like or similar to:
- later
- next time
- tomorrow
- not now
- I am shy
- too many people here
- only at home
- only in privacy
- or anything that delays or excuses the instant YES to a particular request or NEED of true love by a partner.
typical relationships are karma relationships - karma relationships are based on temporary karma creating attraction to feel how YOU are and to learn to be a better lover and finally a true lover. hence for example revenge. karma relationships are the results of actual plans for OTHER than the path of love. Karma always is the conscious result of action. the law of karma ALWAYS has been known to mankind.
hence karma relationships only are existing in selfish worlds. in selfish worlds all has a price and all loving has a limit.
in relationship with limited and hence selfish love there always is an absolute and true reason to be jealous. a person with limited love, with limited readiness to give love or limited readiness to accept love it is only a matter of time until the cheated partner - cheated by the one refusing to GIVE and / or ACCEPT all love needed - finds another partner offering more or better love.
selfish people calculate their love. selfish people account exactly how much they get for the love they give. selfish love means you have precise ideas what you are willing and ready to do under very precise circumstances. selfish love means you have a price limit for the love you give and also a limit of how much love you give independent of the price offered to you. that means selfish lover always have a maximum limit that any and every true lover EASILY will blow into peaces and exceed infinitely to end that selfish-love based fake relationship in an instant. no number of common children, no amount of property can prevent true love from winning vs fake love. the power of true love is mathematically INFINITELY greater than any selfish love EVER could be or will be.
selfish people are losers - ALL selfish lovers always lose the one they cheat by giving their limited love instead of full and true love. Millions of other lovers always are ready to "bid more" to get the love you receive from your current partner. Hence as soon as your current partner finds someone to offer - "bid" - more love, better love or different and more attractive love, you will have lost and even increasing your own "bid of selfish" love may only delay the loss of your partner another few hours, days, weeks or even years.
sooner or later another person meets your current partner who is willing to offer - or "bid" even more than your highest bid you ever are willing to offer in your selfish world.
even worst - one day the ONE who truly loves your partner may come into his life and all bidding has an instant end as the truly loving one ALWAYS offers ALL at once and for ever. The truly loving one offers ALL love and accepts ALL love from the very first second they meet.
... from the VERY first second they meet !!!
and all other bidders lose all together.
a selfish lover has ZERO chance when his partner meets a true lover. a selfish lover has zero chance to change in time - to drop his selfishness to regain "upper hand" in the bidding. true love needs to be proven, to be practiced in millions of smaller or larger situations of life before true love is convincing another true lover.
from the time you have lost until you turn into a true lover yourself you may need years, decades or longer - a time of most intense spiritual growth, spiritual exams all to be successfully completed before proceeding. tests of loyalty, tests of love, situations of emergencies and crisis to test your love, loyalty, truthfulness and honesty even under life threatening situations. then one day and thousands of learning and testing challenges later you may be ready to love - another one because the one you cheated may never trust you again until you have proven true love for a full lifetime.
jealousy is the fastest way to get rid of a partner - jealousy is proof of limited love within you toward what you call "your partner", jealousy is proof of you having reached the limits of love you are willing, mature and ready to give at this moment. jealousy is proof that you lack the readiness to instantly and FULLY drop your selfishness and increase the quality and amount of love to infinite true love. a jealous person can easily proof his own limited love by very seriously testing his own love and thus by finding his own weaknesses in love to be improved. many chapters have been written exactly for that SELF-evaluation - to obtain feedback about your love as is today, to learn and to prep0are for relationship of love rather than wasting your eternal life with selfish fake love with a wrong partner. your eternal life is as your life is today - it is up to you to totally change your behavior today and for the remainder of eternity. make this day the beginning of your eternal life and love
there is no way to hide your jealousy - ego always reveals its true attitude and true nature to all who want to know the truth about your current ego vs your current divinity. your own soul suffers most from your own selfishness - hence your own soul will signal to any true lover the degree of love within you or the fake love you are planning to play.
jealous is only the one who wants to betray his partner by using him for his selfish motives. jealousy is a manifestation of darkness, of anti-love. Jealous lovers are no lovers but cowards too weak to admit their true feelings, jealous lovers are too weak to confess absence of true love and to ask for instant and peaceful divorce to give freedom to the one needing ture love.
the selfish, jealous lover calculates. the jealous lover knows the rules and even the divorce law. he knows that sooner or later you will go astray and you will find better or more love. then he will hit the final part of his selfish plan - he wants you to pay for cheating on him, he may even want all your money because he pretends that you have hurt him. he never will admit that he cheated on you from the earliest moments of relationship ... may be until decades after divorce or until he faces death. the selfish lover will ask for financial support beyond divorce to destroy your future as long as possible - to prevent you from being free for true love as long as possible.
the selfish and jealous lover typically refuses to accept responsibility for failure of marriage - he had a plan he executed and he will insist that you betrayed or hurt him and that you are the one to pay for that - financially and in many other ways.
if ever you become aware of being caught in a selfish fake-love marriage - divorce before another better lover enters your life. your jealous partner hence never has any point against you but his own lack of love.
if you are becoming aware that YOU are the one to catch your partner within your selfish plan, give freedom to your partner - accept full responsibility for all your actions and be free all on your own. be ready to pay the full price for your own selfishness - never make others pay for your lack of true love. your lessons are your responsibility - your mistakes are your financial burden to be solved by YOU only and no one else but YOU. mistakes are the results of your failure to invest in your learning, failure to invest in your spiritual development and spiritual progress. your failure, your laziness to do the necessary always shall remain your sole responsibility in all aspects - financially as well.
jealousy is the most expensive way of life - jealousy always leads to a waste of time, resources, pain and often sickness as well. every jealous partner always will be divorced sooner or later. every jealous lover always will show his real face, his real attitude when going thru the divorce. divorce is the best final test to see who you really are. the true lover goes with a loving heart - all on his own without any blame nor with any request for any recompensation.
the fake lover will fight for every bit of property, for every cent you have, the fake lover will blame you and others for the failure of your marriage. the fake lover is too weak to accept responsibility. typical divorce law in most countries supports the fake lover on earth. divine law supports the true lover at home in God and when ever he surrenders to God even here on earth.
learn from such situations
most are going at least once in eternity thru one such fake-love relationship - many learn slowly and experience many times fake love. the goal of such experiences is to fully recognize and to fully value true love later on with the one God gave you - for eternity.
true love needs neither marriage papers nor contracts - true love IS absolute and beyond doubts for both the lover and the loved one. God's bliss and loving protection is all a true lover ever needs and wants. anyone asking for marriage by paper and contracts has other plans in mind, plans to reduce the amount of love offered. partners wanting or requiring marriage papers and contracts are planning to reduce their "bid" of love and in most cases that reduction starts the day after marriage already or latest after a selfish goal has been achieved - such as having children or having a particular property or social status.
governments and hence the law of course supports fake love and selfish marriages because most governments are selfish themselves as well. governments only can survive amidst a population of weak citizens. weak is who lacks true love or who is caught in a struggle or war with a fake lovers.
a full surrender to God is the only solutions to get free from a fake lover. then however you need to really learn and to really spiritually progress to stay free of future similar entanglements in selfishness of this world. you need to learn to recognize any fake lover before even starting any relationship. God supports true lovers - be a true lover and enjoy true happiness within a true love relationship.
love and bliss
hans
indirect NO can be any answer like or similar to:
- later
- next time
- tomorrow
- not now
- I am shy
- too many people here
- only at home
- only in privacy
- or anything that delays or excuses the instant YES to a particular request or NEED of true love by a partner.
typical relationships are karma relationships - karma relationships are based on temporary karma creating attraction to feel how YOU are and to learn to be a better lover and finally a true lover. hence for example revenge. karma relationships are the results of actual plans for OTHER than the path of love. Karma always is the conscious result of action. the law of karma ALWAYS has been known to mankind.
hence karma relationships only are existing in selfish worlds. in selfish worlds all has a price and all loving has a limit.
in relationship with limited and hence selfish love there always is an absolute and true reason to be jealous. a person with limited love, with limited readiness to give love or limited readiness to accept love it is only a matter of time until the cheated partner - cheated by the one refusing to GIVE and / or ACCEPT all love needed - finds another partner offering more or better love.
selfish people calculate their love. selfish people account exactly how much they get for the love they give. selfish love means you have precise ideas what you are willing and ready to do under very precise circumstances. selfish love means you have a price limit for the love you give and also a limit of how much love you give independent of the price offered to you. that means selfish lover always have a maximum limit that any and every true lover EASILY will blow into peaces and exceed infinitely to end that selfish-love based fake relationship in an instant. no number of common children, no amount of property can prevent true love from winning vs fake love. the power of true love is mathematically INFINITELY greater than any selfish love EVER could be or will be.
selfish people are losers - ALL selfish lovers always lose the one they cheat by giving their limited love instead of full and true love. Millions of other lovers always are ready to "bid more" to get the love you receive from your current partner. Hence as soon as your current partner finds someone to offer - "bid" - more love, better love or different and more attractive love, you will have lost and even increasing your own "bid of selfish" love may only delay the loss of your partner another few hours, days, weeks or even years.
sooner or later another person meets your current partner who is willing to offer - or "bid" even more than your highest bid you ever are willing to offer in your selfish world.
even worst - one day the ONE who truly loves your partner may come into his life and all bidding has an instant end as the truly loving one ALWAYS offers ALL at once and for ever. The truly loving one offers ALL love and accepts ALL love from the very first second they meet.
... from the VERY first second they meet !!!
and all other bidders lose all together.
a selfish lover has ZERO chance when his partner meets a true lover. a selfish lover has zero chance to change in time - to drop his selfishness to regain "upper hand" in the bidding. true love needs to be proven, to be practiced in millions of smaller or larger situations of life before true love is convincing another true lover.
from the time you have lost until you turn into a true lover yourself you may need years, decades or longer - a time of most intense spiritual growth, spiritual exams all to be successfully completed before proceeding. tests of loyalty, tests of love, situations of emergencies and crisis to test your love, loyalty, truthfulness and honesty even under life threatening situations. then one day and thousands of learning and testing challenges later you may be ready to love - another one because the one you cheated may never trust you again until you have proven true love for a full lifetime.
jealousy is the fastest way to get rid of a partner - jealousy is proof of limited love within you toward what you call "your partner", jealousy is proof of you having reached the limits of love you are willing, mature and ready to give at this moment. jealousy is proof that you lack the readiness to instantly and FULLY drop your selfishness and increase the quality and amount of love to infinite true love. a jealous person can easily proof his own limited love by very seriously testing his own love and thus by finding his own weaknesses in love to be improved. many chapters have been written exactly for that SELF-evaluation - to obtain feedback about your love as is today, to learn and to prep0are for relationship of love rather than wasting your eternal life with selfish fake love with a wrong partner. your eternal life is as your life is today - it is up to you to totally change your behavior today and for the remainder of eternity. make this day the beginning of your eternal life and love
there is no way to hide your jealousy - ego always reveals its true attitude and true nature to all who want to know the truth about your current ego vs your current divinity. your own soul suffers most from your own selfishness - hence your own soul will signal to any true lover the degree of love within you or the fake love you are planning to play.
jealous is only the one who wants to betray his partner by using him for his selfish motives. jealousy is a manifestation of darkness, of anti-love. Jealous lovers are no lovers but cowards too weak to admit their true feelings, jealous lovers are too weak to confess absence of true love and to ask for instant and peaceful divorce to give freedom to the one needing ture love.
the selfish, jealous lover calculates. the jealous lover knows the rules and even the divorce law. he knows that sooner or later you will go astray and you will find better or more love. then he will hit the final part of his selfish plan - he wants you to pay for cheating on him, he may even want all your money because he pretends that you have hurt him. he never will admit that he cheated on you from the earliest moments of relationship ... may be until decades after divorce or until he faces death. the selfish lover will ask for financial support beyond divorce to destroy your future as long as possible - to prevent you from being free for true love as long as possible.
the selfish and jealous lover typically refuses to accept responsibility for failure of marriage - he had a plan he executed and he will insist that you betrayed or hurt him and that you are the one to pay for that - financially and in many other ways.
if ever you become aware of being caught in a selfish fake-love marriage - divorce before another better lover enters your life. your jealous partner hence never has any point against you but his own lack of love.
if you are becoming aware that YOU are the one to catch your partner within your selfish plan, give freedom to your partner - accept full responsibility for all your actions and be free all on your own. be ready to pay the full price for your own selfishness - never make others pay for your lack of true love. your lessons are your responsibility - your mistakes are your financial burden to be solved by YOU only and no one else but YOU. mistakes are the results of your failure to invest in your learning, failure to invest in your spiritual development and spiritual progress. your failure, your laziness to do the necessary always shall remain your sole responsibility in all aspects - financially as well.
jealousy is the most expensive way of life - jealousy always leads to a waste of time, resources, pain and often sickness as well. every jealous partner always will be divorced sooner or later. every jealous lover always will show his real face, his real attitude when going thru the divorce. divorce is the best final test to see who you really are. the true lover goes with a loving heart - all on his own without any blame nor with any request for any recompensation.
the fake lover will fight for every bit of property, for every cent you have, the fake lover will blame you and others for the failure of your marriage. the fake lover is too weak to accept responsibility. typical divorce law in most countries supports the fake lover on earth. divine law supports the true lover at home in God and when ever he surrenders to God even here on earth.
learn from such situations
most are going at least once in eternity thru one such fake-love relationship - many learn slowly and experience many times fake love. the goal of such experiences is to fully recognize and to fully value true love later on with the one God gave you - for eternity.
true love needs neither marriage papers nor contracts - true love IS absolute and beyond doubts for both the lover and the loved one. God's bliss and loving protection is all a true lover ever needs and wants. anyone asking for marriage by paper and contracts has other plans in mind, plans to reduce the amount of love offered. partners wanting or requiring marriage papers and contracts are planning to reduce their "bid" of love and in most cases that reduction starts the day after marriage already or latest after a selfish goal has been achieved - such as having children or having a particular property or social status.
governments and hence the law of course supports fake love and selfish marriages because most governments are selfish themselves as well. governments only can survive amidst a population of weak citizens. weak is who lacks true love or who is caught in a struggle or war with a fake lovers.
a full surrender to God is the only solutions to get free from a fake lover. then however you need to really learn and to really spiritually progress to stay free of future similar entanglements in selfishness of this world. you need to learn to recognize any fake lover before even starting any relationship. God supports true lovers - be a true lover and enjoy true happiness within a true love relationship.
love and bliss
hans
