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Received Fri, 03 Nov 2006 14:09:27 PHT
A new partner and where to live now - at my place or at your place - who is responsible for housing and support of family ?
It clearly is the men's responsibility to provide work for all family.
It is a man who will have his family business ready to provide support for all family, to offer an enjoyable living filled with creative and productive opportunities for his wife and all children.
Hence from a purely spiritual point of view it is clear that the family always starts at a man's home!
The man is made to provide support for God's creation, for all outside world, for food and services needed by the general community - hence a man's duty decides WHERE the family will be located and what they are doing.
The right partner always has prepared herself exactly for such family joint venture! But how can 2 people know what to prepare for before they meet ? - Those who belong together always are joined in their hearts no matter where they are - no matter what they do, no matter age or culture they grow up in. The God created harmony always makes BOTH of them know what to learn, what to do to be ready and to be truly prepared when they meet.
Before they can join - before they even can meet as lovers
BOTH
need to be free from debts - free from debts of any kind !
both need to be educated for the joint venture that lasts an entire eternity
both need to be strong from the very beginning - strong in the heart and strong in life to be free to travel any place to do any work that needs to be done in favor of all creation and global community.
at NO point whatsoever and for NO reason and NO exception should ONE of the partners EVER have to pay for debts of the other part - nor shall any of the two ever have to clean up his partner's life, mess or karma.
Each potential partner has a divine duty to be fully ready, to be fully prepared, to be strong and FREE inside and outside for a joint venture of eternal romantic love.
If a man has a lesser apartment than the girl - then either he has been too lazy or too long daddy son, he screwed up his life by having fun instead of focusing growing strong and free.
If a girl has no experience in life, no professional education and no professional skills, then she too has failed to be ready for a truly strong and happy making relationship based on true divine love.
BOTH
man and woman
need to be free from their parents for several years before joining a partner - both need to have explored the world far beyond mother's and father's protection as a free and strong person experiencing true life on this planet, earning strength by real life adventures, earning a reputation of being honest, sincere and pleasantly useful for many others BEFORE entering a relationship of love with the God given eternal partner.
IF for any reason one or both of the potential partners are indebted - then they should first - ON THEIR own, clean up all in full all debts of any nature, financial or otherwise BEFORE joining for life.
Premature joining of even the right God made partner most seldom leads to success - but most of the time to frustration, to constant deeps in relationship, to disharmony and struggle until divorce separates them again - may be for life or even for many incarnations.
to BE prepared means to be FULLY self-dependant, free from social welfare, free from subsidies, free from parents or relatives - living for many years from your very own honestly earned income resulting from a honest and useful creative work.
Useful work is available by Billions of occasions - most of the top jobs need to be created by the love-seeker himself. we all are due to have one day our own eternal family business, to be our own boss and to work as free souls joint venture with the ones we love most.
anything less than above always is proof of laziness, stinginess and of being spoiled.
never join a person who wants you to do his/her payments, work or solve his/her karma. BOTH need to be strong and strong is the one who has learned to manage his / her own life for an extended period of time under most difficult situation using his own labor forces and God given creative potential.
The time of a spoiled princess-life is over as much as the time of a spoiled daddy or mami son - now is the time of truth, the time to prove true love toward all and toward your etenral partner in particular. Loyalty to each other only is of any value of love and loyalty dwell from a strong and God oreinted heart and soul.
It is no longer husband who cleans up all debris of past mistakes or pays all credit cards and bills or debts for his wife and it is no longer the wife who has to care and worry about how to fee children and repair housing each day. In God's creation BOTH - man an dwoman have a 50% share to carry on on their own - 100% of their own shsare !! strong partners are capable of strong love resulting in strong happiness an joy of life.
BOTH first prepare - and when all preparation successfully and completely done - then it is time start to enjoy mutual eternal love. FIRST duty - then joy of life.
Love and bliss
hans
It is a man who will have his family business ready to provide support for all family, to offer an enjoyable living filled with creative and productive opportunities for his wife and all children.
Hence from a purely spiritual point of view it is clear that the family always starts at a man's home!
The man is made to provide support for God's creation, for all outside world, for food and services needed by the general community - hence a man's duty decides WHERE the family will be located and what they are doing.
The right partner always has prepared herself exactly for such family joint venture! But how can 2 people know what to prepare for before they meet ? - Those who belong together always are joined in their hearts no matter where they are - no matter what they do, no matter age or culture they grow up in. The God created harmony always makes BOTH of them know what to learn, what to do to be ready and to be truly prepared when they meet.
Before they can join - before they even can meet as lovers
BOTH
need to be free from debts - free from debts of any kind !
both need to be educated for the joint venture that lasts an entire eternity
both need to be strong from the very beginning - strong in the heart and strong in life to be free to travel any place to do any work that needs to be done in favor of all creation and global community.
at NO point whatsoever and for NO reason and NO exception should ONE of the partners EVER have to pay for debts of the other part - nor shall any of the two ever have to clean up his partner's life, mess or karma.
Each potential partner has a divine duty to be fully ready, to be fully prepared, to be strong and FREE inside and outside for a joint venture of eternal romantic love.
If a man has a lesser apartment than the girl - then either he has been too lazy or too long daddy son, he screwed up his life by having fun instead of focusing growing strong and free.
If a girl has no experience in life, no professional education and no professional skills, then she too has failed to be ready for a truly strong and happy making relationship based on true divine love.
BOTH
man and woman
need to be free from their parents for several years before joining a partner - both need to have explored the world far beyond mother's and father's protection as a free and strong person experiencing true life on this planet, earning strength by real life adventures, earning a reputation of being honest, sincere and pleasantly useful for many others BEFORE entering a relationship of love with the God given eternal partner.
IF for any reason one or both of the potential partners are indebted - then they should first - ON THEIR own, clean up all in full all debts of any nature, financial or otherwise BEFORE joining for life.
Premature joining of even the right God made partner most seldom leads to success - but most of the time to frustration, to constant deeps in relationship, to disharmony and struggle until divorce separates them again - may be for life or even for many incarnations.
to BE prepared means to be FULLY self-dependant, free from social welfare, free from subsidies, free from parents or relatives - living for many years from your very own honestly earned income resulting from a honest and useful creative work.
Useful work is available by Billions of occasions - most of the top jobs need to be created by the love-seeker himself. we all are due to have one day our own eternal family business, to be our own boss and to work as free souls joint venture with the ones we love most.
anything less than above always is proof of laziness, stinginess and of being spoiled.
never join a person who wants you to do his/her payments, work or solve his/her karma. BOTH need to be strong and strong is the one who has learned to manage his / her own life for an extended period of time under most difficult situation using his own labor forces and God given creative potential.
The time of a spoiled princess-life is over as much as the time of a spoiled daddy or mami son - now is the time of truth, the time to prove true love toward all and toward your etenral partner in particular. Loyalty to each other only is of any value of love and loyalty dwell from a strong and God oreinted heart and soul.
It is no longer husband who cleans up all debris of past mistakes or pays all credit cards and bills or debts for his wife and it is no longer the wife who has to care and worry about how to fee children and repair housing each day. In God's creation BOTH - man an dwoman have a 50% share to carry on on their own - 100% of their own shsare !! strong partners are capable of strong love resulting in strong happiness an joy of life.
BOTH first prepare - and when all preparation successfully and completely done - then it is time start to enjoy mutual eternal love. FIRST duty - then joy of life.
Love and bliss
hans
