When a woman assures her ex lover how happy she is with her new lover - when your ex wife assures you how happy she is with her new boyfriend or husband ...

Women in general are far too proud to ever admit a mistake
hence women speak in quizzes and question marks and send you the truth in subconscious messages

It is up to you to understand the truth within such messages
but it is up to those women to wait and wait - if needed millions of years - until they have acquired the truthfulness, humbleness and power of love to directly admit mistakes made and to ask for forgiveness and love.

When an ex girl friend or ex-wife wants to tell you how much she misses your love and you above all she will send you eMails or postcards or letters telling you how happy she is and that she has the best husband on earth

in reality
if she would be happy and loved
she would enjoy that love and be so busy in loving that she would know you see and feel her true happiness.

Female pride is as destructive as male stinginess and laziness is
Female pride is half of all creations destruction and half of all creations separation between male and female

the other half is the male laziness, stinginess and weakness
both have to learn
now during Christmas time it is an ideal time to learn - to approach each other, to simply admit mistakes made in clear language in clean words and to ask for love and forgiveness

no matter how big a mistake is
no matter how many mistakes you ever made
the right woman and the right man always belong together
the love between two made by God FOR each other always can heal any new separation or new divorce needed to bring two together that always have been one in their innermost core of their loving heart.

To stay together with the wrong one is a lie to the wrong one
to stay together with the wrong one is cheating on the wrong one AND cheating on the right one
because like a chain reaction
one wrong one together with one other wrong one
leaves a total of at least 4 who waste their lives with wrong partner
but
it also leaves any number of friends, family members and children in an environment of fake love, of unhappy parents, of unhappy lovers ...

What belongs together needs to be joined together at any cost of pride or ego
drop all your pride,
drop all your ego
drop all your laziness
drop all your stinginess

and join the one God gave you
who is it ?
the one you would marry as a very last choices may be
the one you always wanted far away from you may be
the one you hated from the bottom of your heart at times
the one you betrayed or lied to more than to any other
the one you neglect more than any other
the one who still loves you after all and despite all - because he is MADE by God to love YOU and no-one else but you in that very special way that makes you fear him most and make you attracted to him most - because his love needs to be answered and absorbed in full or it will be like a Taifun in your heart and mind - you either need to love him eternally and fully or be far away from him until ready to love him - he is the one to ask for all or nothing and never will be happy with a little love from you !
he is the one you contacted in past when your distress, pain and problems have been greatest most likely

the one you say from the bottom of your heart "never"
that most likely is the one that God gave you
and deep inside you KNOW it, you always felt it, because that one is the one who always proved the greatest affection,k greatest love, greatest readiness to forgive YOU whatever you did.

A man's strength is his potential to move mountains with his love
to forgive anything and everything no matter what
- without even knowing what
- without even asking what to forgive

Right now - these very days of Christmas time
there are so many children calling and searching for daddy or Miami
so many children needing true love, true loving hugs, true loving homes
so many children need an angel of love in a woman's body to hold them - to squeeze them gently in love - to kiss them with love, to feed them with love, to sing for them with a voice of an angel mother

all want to return home
home to their eternal spiritual parents
to be happy family
eternally


love and bliss

hans