How does a girl know that the man of her heart is ready to be a happy making lover and father of a happy family ?

It is a girls duty and divine right to be a happy woman - hence each girl has to be critical when deciding to enter a love relationship with the man other choice. To be ready as a lover and man - her chosen one needs:

only a happy woman can make a man happy - only a happy wife can be a happy mother - only a happy mother can have happy children !! Children only can be happy if both - father and mother - are happy as eternal lovers together and as parents of all.

to have several years of professional experience of working in a qualified and solid professional job. preferable at least a few ears abroad or at the minimum experiences in several different companies.

this proves that he can adapt to the needs of economy and society as well as having acquired professional skills and experience needed to guarantee a secure future for an entire family of any number.

to be involved in the wellbeing of society by actively supporting or substantially contributing to either welfare or needy ones. A man needs to be strong enough to care for dozens of others in addition to taking care of his own family. this entire world is populated with people having most severe problems - from active warfare to broken families, drugs, alcohol and many other sources of problems. only the one who cares for others truly loves - only the one who has practiced and proven true love can be expected to make you and your future family truly happy.

Never accept a man's promises about his future - chose and judge his potential of love by his past and present only. what is now is what you get in your future. if he is jobless or lazy now - then that will most likely be your entire life. if he is student now - then you will have a man living on father's or governments welfare in the future as well. a truly strong man starts working and earning his living at age 15 or soon thereafter. hence by the time he is ready and strong - at age 30 or beyond - he will have years of experience and love helping, protecting or supporting poor or needy ones.

chose your man when he has learned to be open for other cultures, different jobs, different religions - make sure you have an open minded lover that is able to accept the truth independent of his own education or situation, a future husband and father willing to grow, willing and mature to change where changes within are needed. your own children may all be totally different from each other and from you as parents as well - a loving parent needs to prove love toward all different kind of beliefs, traditions, cultures, jobs, mentalities, etc.

A man without any global experience beyond the horizon of his own country and culture always will remain more narrow minded than a man with years of travel and work across the planet. an open minded father of a family and lover of your heart and soul definitely will be a much better - more loving father of an entire family. for you as his wife.

Chose a man who is healthy and strong. whoever is ill, simply is too lazy to do what is necessary to maintain health - hence he may most likely jeopardize the health of his entire family as much as his own health. an ill or handicapped father is neither a good lover for you nor a good father to play with ŷour children. children love to be wild at times - children need a strong and loving father sharing years or decades of exciting adventures with the entire family. life is too beautiful to be thrown away by laziness. keep in mind that we here and now learn for eternity and we all will and need to learn to be healthy and to live healthily for all eternity. hence each of us needs to learn to live in full harmony with nature and God.

accepting anything else but true love from a true and hence strong lover will definitely result in a disaster and divorce or life empty of true happiness and true love for you.

Test your lover's love for kids, for children from all over the world, test his love for needy ones, for weak ones, for hungry ones - be sure he loves all before you surrender your heart for life to him. all can learn to love all - but for most it may take thousands of years - let him take the time he wants or thinks to need. but make sure you have clear priorities about your requirements to meed all the needs of your own loving and love-hungry heart and soul. only a man who knows how to make dozens or hundreds of other children happy will know how to make your own children truly happy - happy children are the basis for your own mutual happiness!!!

there are many other points to consider to chose your loved one - to decide whether he is ready and mature for a true family or whether he may need more time, years, decades or entire incarnations to mature. you have to listen to your heart and admit all true innermost needs of your female needs, sexual fantasies, desires as a woman, requirements as a future mother and wife. sometimes a man has proven beyond any doubt that he continuously is learning, growing and progressing on a steady path of love in his job, recreation and love life as well. then it is time to say yes or to ask him to marry you - to be your partner for life and beyond. finally it must be your heart to decide - from top to toe all aspects of a man need to be attractive and exciting - with zero exception all parts of his body, mind, emotions, actions, moves need to be attractive to your heart and mind - exciting and thrilling!

love life between two lovers is an eternal romance between an eternally young charming angel girl and an infinitely wise strong man.

the less strict you are when making your decisions - the less challenges your loved one has to grow and the more you feed his potential laziness. be demanding - and be ready to meed his needs for your love as much as he need to fulfill all your dreams for love and romance. each man needs to know that having a wife for eternity is a divine privilege - a gift from God - a gift from God needs to be cared and loved with all the strength from the bottom of a mature, strong adult man.

Love and Bliss

hans