When are you ready to get married - what are the criteria to be ready for marriage - How do you know when to share your life with the one you love ?

In earlier posts about love and secrets of love you find many prerequisites of being prepared for marriage - all valid for both, man and woman - hence here I will go one step further and finalize your self-test.

There is a time to know when you need to focus on growing stronger and mature - and there is a time to know that to practice real love and to enter that eternal bond of true love is ready to be fulfilled. Only your heart can say - when joy is all you feel when you think of meeting and embracing the one you love -. the one who always loved you - the one created by God for you - for your eternal joy and happiness. There is a üpoint in life when it is time to move on, to say YES and do it!

True beauty is the result of orientation toward God with resulting flow of love

To be strong among weak ones is easy - to love among lovers is easy - to be beautiful among clean healthy nature is easy ...

True beauty as a result of true love appears in even the worst situations of life. Love needs to be strong enough for all days into all eternity, for your easiest days of mutual adventure of love throughout the most difficult and darkest days of life. Like these below Lotus flowers grow strong upward toward the sun, open for God even in the most difficult conditions - we too can join in love - joint by God's bliss and healed by God's love - free from darkness - enlightened by divine love - made to help others and to bring all our children home to God.

When are you ready for the one and only relationship that lasts eternally ?

1. You are ready to share your life with the one you love if for an extended period of years you have been able to substantially share and help all others in need.
2. You are ready to fall in love when you have learned to make others happy
3. You are ready to create true happiness in your partner when you have learned to create happiness in all others as well
4. You are ready for marriage for life beyond when you have learned to be a source of solutions to all in need of solutions - a source of strength and stability for others - stability to hold onto and reorient when others have lost their orientation in life
5. You are ready to have a family when you can guide your family in love home toward God
6. You are ready to be loved when you have no longer enemies that endanger your peace of mind and heart and hence all your family will have but friends around to enjoy life with
7. You are ready to love when you are ready to be loved at first glance - loved in full free of need of any descriptions - love of any kind, love in any quantity
8. You are ready for true marriage when you love to have children - any time, any number and when you know that you can offer all your children a happy life in peace and love, with loving jobs in a healthy and natural exciting and adventurous environment.

You are ready for love when only love matters to you anymore - eternally

When you can say, feel, prove and show that you love - in public, to anyone, any place, any time - when to love is infinitely more valuable and more important to you than anything else in life ... when only to love is all you ever want for the remainder of eternity!

You are ready to be a loving partner when you are strong enough to be free of any fear under any circumstances, in any situation, at any place in God's entire creation.

Everything else is but a preparation for love, preparation for marriage - a real life school for real life problems to be solved and real life maturity to be achieved.

No one on earth would hire a 2 grade child as a university professor or as a Commander in a space mission. No one ever can trust a student of love to be a husband of love before graduation day ....

Hence if any doubt at all about maturity to join your love for life - then be willing to mature, willing to grow strong, to be strong and to truly love above all. How long such preparation takes very much will depend on how much of your resources, efforts, time and energy you invest in distracting activities oriented toward other than love goals.

Love can only flow in a heart willing to love. As long as you fear, as long as you reproach, as long as you avoid the one you love, as long as you run away from the one who loves you ... you still will be too week to make happy and hence you will be too weak in your own heart to BE happy and YOU to BE happy is the absolute single most important in life for the one who loves you. For you to be happy you need true faith in God, faith in the power of love, faith that miracles of love can and will happen eternally again and again to all of you. Faith that love instantly can heal anything and everything that ever has separated you from the one you love and always loved in the innermost of your heart.

I love you

hans