Received Fri, 02 Mar 2007 17:48:10 PHT
How many happy sweet and sexy girls does a man need to be happy ? How many girls need to be happy before you can be happy ? How many men does a hot lover girl need to be happy ?
How many girls does a man need to be happy ?
1 girl, 2 girls, a dozen girls, several dozen girls or several hundred girls ? What you think ?
Think a while until you belief to have your personal answer - then scroll down to read the precise answer.

A truly loving man needs all the girls of this entire planet and beyond to be happy. One just for you - that is your own lover girl - the one made b y God, the one total match that takes your breath away when you see her. The one you never miss but only love. If you are separated from her then you know that one of you 2 has made a substantial error in the past. Assume always it to be your own and only error - never blame loneliness on others or even on her.
To be really happy you need all the other women of this planet also - you need them all to be happy, to be sexy and weet lovers - lovers for their own God made lover-husband. That means one man on this planet needs some 3 Billion happy girls to really find his full and eternal happiness.
But how can you make all 3 Billions of so girls happy ... by helping them all to find their own match, by strictly avoiding to flirt with any other girl but your lover girl, by strictly helping all girls to be free and ready for the one and only God made for them, by never hurting any of the other girls on this entire globe, by never abusing any of the girls for your selfish needs or reasons of revenge or satisfaction of your ego.
You can also help all the girls to find their own ideal match by helping all the men on this planet to grow strong, to be strong and to be or regain freedom. Only a strong man can make a strong woman happy. Hence all men first of all need to grow strong. To grow strong requires heavy, hard, dirty and / or dangerous work at times - it also requires any kind of work and duty to be done when ever need arises for anything to be done. Strength never can be a result of simple ideas or self-hypnosis. True strength is the result of real work being realized. Of tones of material being shifted for the benefit of all.
Temporary limited happiness vs lasting strong and eternal happiness
It certainly is possible to experience some kind of happiness just you and your lover girl. But that happiness might be tampered each time you encounter a situation of conflict, each time you meet a hungry or needy person of any gender, race or age. Hence most of us get divorced for the very reason of having neglect the need to make all others happy - or - at least to start working toward that single most important goal, to join your lover and start making as many happy as you can - day after day - until all others are happy - until all lover girls are in love with the man or their dreams and desires of their heart.
Whining about loneliness, whining about being rejected never solves your situation. Look at your past months or weeks. How many % of all available resources, time, money, professional expertise, physical potential of loving work did you invest in the wellbeing and happiness of all mankind. A work of sharing love = sharing help = sharing all resources available that goes beyond your ideas of profit making or ROI. If love is what you want to experience and earn one day - if happiness is what you love to know and enjoy all life, then love you need to give in abundance by all possible means to create happiness in all others. Never expect others to contribute their share. Love others as if you were the only one on earth to love them - because may be you are the only one who wants to make all others happy as a basis of your very own true and eternal happiness with your dream girl that is existing but may be run away from your past lack of love or weakness in loving, or run away for any other reason.
Create a flow of love so strong that no one can avoid that love, that the one you love feels that love in all others you love. Love all to make all feel loved - until the one that should be on your side because she belongs to your side as a divine plan created by God will feel in love with you and stay in love with you.
3 Billions of girl to love - that should be quiet easy to do for a real man - just start one by one. You most likely have wasted thousands and more years of splitting worlds of men and women into half, info female world and male world - now it is time to heal all broken hearts and to rejoin all hearts that belong together.
How many lover men does a lover girl need to be happy ?
The answer is exactly as above for men. All men need to be happy for you to be happy with the one God gave you. Hence stop abusing all other men around you for your revenge for something that happened between you and may be only one other man long time ago. Stop punishing all men for the pain that one single man may have caused. Even if one single man has caused huge trauma - may be you have been so difficult to him that he simply never knew how to handle you. Like many men can be extremely stubborn, extremely slow and complicated in love matters - women too can at times be so complicated - saying NO while meaning YES please - that no man ever could have known how to "handle you". Hence may be a tiny little part of all the damage you may have experienced in your past has been self created by your pride and silly games you once played with others or with the one God gave you.
By the time you have learned to say YES and mean YES and prove your YES - by that time you are ready to be loved. Then join the one who waits to love you and assist him in making all others happy to stabilize your own mutual love and eternal happiness. Healing hearts and souls is one of the most important jobs that all lovers may share for a long time - on earth and beyond until all are happy because a girl too only can be happy when all other men are smiling and happy ... with their own partner but assisted by you to find their partner, to find their happiness, to heal their hearts - with your love from the bottom of your divine heart and soul.
When you belief to be perfect lovers and refuse to see any significant misbehavior inside your own manifestations - then keep in mind where you are to shrink humble again. True angel-woman are in heaven - all those men and women being here on earth have made very substantial mistakes to drop from heaven to earth. Nothing to be proud of, nothing to whine either - but lots of reason to change yourself - girls and men alike - until you match thru all the love tests with a 100% passing score on the way home to God. Then and only then can you know to be as perfect as you love to belief to be.
Love and Bliss
hans




