Relationship between reputation and virginity - both - reputation and virginity prevent having fun ! Once they are gone - love starts to flow and joy and fun to arise in your life

With your reputation
it is like with the virginity of a girl

once you have lost it
you can start to enjoy life

a reputation of a human is a blockage
he who loves his reputation
loves to pretend to be different from how he really is
hence he defends his reputation
sometimes with his life
sometimes with all his fortune

reputation is between you and God
reputation is what is created and valued by ego only
if reputation is gone
obstacles that prevented joy of life to blossom and love to flow are gone
such is the nature of virginity as well
its a block against free flow of love

BOTH are a manifestation of ego only
if ego is gone
then fun starts to expand more and more eternally

love and bliss

hans

p.s.:

and if you fail to smile
then you may have one of both or both
...
then just wait another few years or decades
and you'll have plenty of reasons to really smile
about any or both of above