Received Wed, 04 Apr 2007 13:54:35 PHT
Father and son - a happy father loves to see a happy son - a loving son loves to see a happy father - to be happy a father needs to have a strong son
No happiness within you without happiness in your children - No happiness in children without happiness in your parents.
For parents to be happy - children need to be strong.
If a son is strong, then the father can be relaxed and enjoy his own life and particularly love life. If a son is weak then a father is occupied to be worried about his son putting himself at risk or in danger - hence a worrying father lacks the peace of mind needed to be happy.
Hence if you want your parents to be happy - you need to be free of trouble -. to be free of troubles you need to be loving ...
To be loving you need to be strong first
The love of a weak one is like the light of a candle in a storm ... to weak to withstand the turmoil of real life - too weak to last from heaven to hell and back to heaven - too weak to last in good times AND in bad times - the love of a strong son is like the sun on the sky - when the sun rises above the horizon or the planet, then all darkness HAS to disappear, the light and power of the sun simply is far too strong for any darkness to survive the power of love a strong son has.
hence
we first grow strong - then we cultivate our strength into power of love
Power of love then is needed to help others, to protect others, to heal others, to free others.
A son who becomes a protectors of others needs to be strong for many - a strong son never could be a source of worry but only a source of joy, happiness and love. Love only can dwell within the heart of strong ones. Strong ones cause peace around them in addition to the peace within. The peace and the power of love within turns into a "contagious" sun radiating happiness, love and peace into all neighborhood.
If you as a father want to be free to make your wife happy - then give freedom to your sons to venture into the world, give freedom to experience all world, all life, all dangers of this world and beyond. Sons need freedom and adventures to grow strong like trees need hurricanes to grow strong.
Only strong sons can make women happy - and happy daughters is the key to happy mothers. Happy mothers is the key to happy fathers ....
Mothers to be happy need their daughters to be married with strong husbands ...
As you see - it's a cycle ! All need to be strong for all to be happy!!!
You are the beginning of the cycle, because only you can make all the needed changes, decisions and steps for yourself to be strong and to remain free eternally. Start to be strong, stop to cause any pain or worry to your parents, start to love, to grow stronger and stronger until you have mastered the world within and around you - until you have found peace within to create peace around you as a result of your own strength in your heart and soul - as a result of your own power of love.
Working harder and more - working longer and better ... is the beginning of yourself growing free as a result of being strong.
love and bliss
hans






