Life on earth has many reasons and causes - whatever the cause for your present incarnation might be - the only way to end the cycle of reincarnation is to mature in a solid, loving and dependable way into a truly loving, truly loyal and truly dependable person.

• loving all - all mankind, all nature, all creation and God above all
• loyal to God under absolutely all situations
• dependable as a partner of love for all under absolutely all situations and conditions

A spiritual maturity needs to be proven on a purely physical level as well before being able to return home. Spiritual maturity is achieved thru a large number of exposure to different natural situations of life, challenges in difficult situations, challenged by possibilities to betray or to be loyal, to be honest or to take advantage of situations. To achieve full spiritual maturity can be slowed down by:

1. avoiding challenges
2. delaying decisions
3. postponing lessons or encounters
4. avoid exposure to difficult situations
5. rejection of love or denial of love
6. refusing to forgive or refusing to ask for forgiveness

Immature persons are:

• weak
• betray to avoid death
• betray or lie for personal gain
• betray or lie to avoid losses or disadvantages in life
• betray or lie to avoid loss of social status or positions

Human process of maturing can quiet correctly be compared to the maturing process of fruits.

Imaging apples or oranges - blossoming early spring - and at half term - in summer - you harvest the fruits and either try to eat them or store them until later in fall when they would have reached natural maturity.

Eating premature fruits at half term means fruits are small, acid or tasteless or bitter and hard. while waiting and storing the fruits until end of natural maturity in nature would have been reached may result in the fruits remaining small or more likely rotting or fouling without ever becoming edible.

The very same situation occurs in human life.

If parents keep their children away and out of real life difficulties, then parents prevent exposure of their children to difficulties and challenges of life they have to know to solve latest by the time when parents either die or earliest when children are of legal age and allowed to make their own decisions for job, love and life.

Worst even - by preventing children from being exposed to all normal life, difficulties and problems of life, children may grow adult without being mature to be adult and hence without having the maturity to make sound adult decisions in politics, business or marriage. Children grow up and turn soon into adults, by that time normally children are mature enough to partner up and create their own family. Immature children remain children into any age until all necessary maturing processes are successfully absorbed and completed. Maturing processes are something to absorb, to digest and to grow - just like fruits absorb sunlight, water and minerals in a healthy clean natural environment to develop natural God intended sweetness, taste and turn finally into resources of life-force, vitamins, minerals as well as pleasure to eat.

Young people without exposure to all natural challenges remain weak in life and thus also immature for a truly happy making relationship.

What can you do to support your own natural maturity process ?

1. Have faith in God's love!
2. Accept the first of all challenges or options to grow God offers you. All delay may result in a greater need to catch up with your divine plan to mature and hence any second or third situation to offer you a lesson in life may result in a more demanding situation that requires even greater efforts from your part.
3. God created situations or lessons of love always always are of most loving nature. Learn to accept God's guidance and learn to learn with love the lessons of love God offers you.
4. Review your past and realize that all those loving changes in life God offered you were always leading to an ever more loving situation in your life, while all those rejected offers God made you were usually making your own life more difficult. Learn from your past and make your future a more loving future by accepting with faith the God created scenarios of life - made for you like a learning movie to enhance and complete your inner and outer spiritual and human maturity on a most loving path.
5. learn to accept love, to say YES to love offered by others
6. learn to offer direct love to all those in need of love around you
7. learn to focus all your love on the single most important factor in life - love. Recognize how material temptations, career and money might attempt to distract you from loving and strengthen your power of concentration to refocus faster and more steadily on love in all situations you encounter. learn to do all for love, learn to do all with love and for the single purpose to create happiness in others while doing with love whatever you do
8. surrender in full other people's responsibility for their lives and their lessons of love offered in their lives. Learn to lovingly manage your own full life and be an example for others in doing so.

Love and bliss

hans