Is your life really your life or are you attempting to copy others lacking your own creative power and inspiration ? Find your own life and enjoy life!

I know for sure that many of the people currently around me as well as many I met in my long active life are living another life - the life of people surrounding them, a life of their parents, a life copied from friends or other successful people or ...

Just a lazy life lacking any inspiration and lacking any drive to be innovative to create something out of their very own.

Look into your own life - are you really doing what you LOVE to do or are you merely doing what you have seen others doing successfully ?

If you copy others then you most likely lack true power to succeed, copiers lack inspiration to be a leader, copiers lack the power to work day and night, copiers lack the power of love to enjoy doing what they do and thus to share with all what they do.

If you are a pioneer, a first, a leader, then you have the power from within you - the power God gave all - do work until succeeded, to work until job done and far beyond. Pioneers do things differently, never done before, the first time ever, beautifully, lovingly, for the joy of all - for the joy of God as well.

Copiers do things because they need to do something to survive. Copiers often are so lazy - lacking drive to create, to learn, to work until job done - that even copying is too much for many and hence they try to hire others or use technical systems to copy others while sitting back and limiting their own work to counting money and spending it ... for alcohol, junk or drugs.

How to find out if you really love to do what you do ?

A few days ago I listened to the interview of a world's top tennis player. She was ask what her plans for later are - for the time after tennis. Her answer: To finish her study ... because her mother expected her to study! That woman looked like a woman in a life without love - a life just to fulfill OTHER's dreams, mother's expectations or dreams, father's expectations and dreams, society's expectation or dreams ...

But what about her very own life, likes and loves, her own talents, her own wishes, her own dreams, desires, NEEDS and innermost goals ? all killed in the desire to please OTHERS, to meet other's expectations and wishes.

Look into your own past - did ever any of your close relatives or best friends EVER mention any expectation about your own goal or mention what you should do, how you should live or work ? If yes - drop those ideas without rejecting those ideas and empty yourself first from any foreign influence to be free for your own inner source to dwell from within and to appear as your own innermost goals, desires and NEEDS for the most happy, most loving life of yours.

How is your own current situation ?

Did you select your current job all on your own or did you chose your job or occupation because one of your close friends, relatives or parents ONCE mentioned such goal for you ???

It is a natural tendency of ALL children to please parents - to to whatever makes parents happy for one and only one reason:

To attract your own parents' love.

Mortal parents often make their love FOR children or FOR others dependent from others meeting their own needs or conditions. Conditional love is what most parents offer their children.

If you are in one such situation meeting other's conditions - to attract or receive other's conditional love, then you may realize such situation from yourself lacking drive, lacking real power to create, to adapt to new situaitons, to learn new skills, to change life, to change jobs, to move on and UP in life ... on YOUR path of life.

Your own path of life is a path with open end, a path without any boundaries, endless creativity of most satisfying work - a combination of creativity, productivity - in love with all - for the joy and benefit of all.

If you lack this drive to work, if you lack the joy of being challenged to create new solutions, new services, better things day after day, then most likely you are on another path than your own path.

How to find your own path in life ?

Create distance to your old traditional environment - different country, different culture, different province at the very least - and if nohting more then at least for a few weeks or months, for an extended vacation. During this time of professional retreat, spend time in nature, nature heals, nature frees you from influential energies you might have absorbed from others and may consider your very own until you have been long enough in a new, clean and fresh environment.

Such a professional retreat is like a shower to clean and wash away all debris from foreign influence and impact upon you and your choices.

After the first several days of cleansing, then start to look around how others are living, how others are working, look at ALL different jobs, professionals and activities around your new temporary environment. Look with an open mind and open heart - feel and see what kind of life touches your heart, feel what different life styles may mean to you. realize what values of life really matter to you.

Then let your creative fantasy run wild for a while - free from any influence - look and feel into a variety of different activities and IMAGINE yourself being in different jobs, different activities, even different countries or places and positions. What feels best to your innermost heart, what feels most challenging, what feels most exciting, what gives you most freedom to create, to produce, to invent new things, to mold your life the way you want your life to be, to achieve the goals you love to achieve - goals with an open end.

In what situation, in what kind of environment or job do you feel most inspired, most free, most energized ? That might be the one field of activity best suited for you by now. Looking at life in general, all humans on earth have one goal above all - spiritual progress and development of power of love and purity of love. Hence most of all jobs serve this one goal - to bring you forward and upward on your spiritual path. This innermost highest goal is valid and active for ALL - consciously or subconsciously!

Hence a job you may have loved 5 or 7 years ago may have BEST served that inner higher goal of your spiritual maturing soul but may be outdated today or in a few years from now. Humans are made to grow, to spiritually progress and advance, hence humans are made to constantly change, adapt and change job, environment and recreational activities as well. Progress, strength and growth is fastest and easiest achieved by ever changing challenges. Mankind definitely never is made to reproduce one and the same service or product over any extended period of time. Hence as soon as you got stuck in an environment, job or unhappy/loveless family situation, your spirtual growth slows down or stops completely until you are free again to learn new lessons in new situaitons of our eternal life with infinite possibilities to develop and evolve in all aspects of love in life.

The longer you stay entangled in a wrong life, the harder it may appear to you to get out. Jumping into a new life may be so difficult that a sudden death initiated by God often may be a last resort, a gift of love to give you a new chance to really find yourself and progress in your very own life. Another option often occurring is a kick in lazy ass by authorities or employers - a sudden "you are fired", a loss of a job for economical or other reasons, a closure of an entire industry, or other loss of vital factors in your life that ultimately force you do do what you always knew needed to be done anyway but were too lazy to do all on your own. Lack of your own initiative is a most boring attribute in life - boring for any and every potential lover and partner for your heart. Ultimately it's all about love, about romance - most dream of a romantic love for eternity - most forget to contribute their own share toward their very own spiritual maturity and strength.

Strength in life, strength in your work finally always is also converted into strength of love and creativity to love. Successful strong people surely are better lovers. Success however has little to do with the amount of money earned but above all by having learned to succeed in all situaitons of life, to succeed in all global crisis or economical changes this planet may offer us. Success means being able to be your own boss, free of boundaries, free of countries - to live where you love to live, to do what you love to do. True success of course also and always results in financial stability and security that allows you to constantly progress in life, including continuing education, new investment into a better future of all, working at different places you love, doing new things as new situations occur in your eternal life. Success also means to have an environment of your own life that offers space for an entire family including a number of kids to be active and learning while having fun in father's home business.

A truly successful always is ready to accommodate his partner - his soul-mate - in his life, in his own family business. It's the man to create this most vital basic structure of a family home. It never is the "house" paid by loans and mortgages that provides the safety and security needed by a woman in a man's life - but it is the professional qualification, strength and creativity that gives the woman the feeling of security needed to FALL in love with that man. A woman never can fall in love with a kitchen helper or factory helper - a woman is made by God and hence needs LOVE. Love only can originate from a strong endless source that exist NOW. If you have plans for your future - then you may first wait until that future plan is realized and completed. If your plan is accomplished TODAY, then you are ready to live TODAY and hence to LOVE today and to be loved today.

Love and bliss

hans