A man's duty to work and be useful before engaging in love relationships

A man is responsible to be a strong partner before becoming a partner -. a girl's need are of different nature than a man's need. A girl at any age potentially always is a mother to be. Hence a girl's heart looks at a man with more than hug and sex in mind.

To provide stability to a future family, a man's duty is to be strong before entering a love relationship. That duty is his own responsibility to fulfill at his time and his expenses. Any age is right to grow strong, any life is suitable to start learning to grow strong. Even youngest boys can learn to grow strong and useful by such playful and simple things like being an active member of boyscouts. A typical part of being a boyscout is to do at least one positive deed per day - another boyscount rule is that the strong one protects the weak one. Such principles of being useful, being helpful to others starts in earliest years of life and grows into real teenage jobs soon later in life.

If you fail to fulfill your duty as a man, you also have to learn to face the consequences of having skipped basic lessons in life during your own growing up years as a teenager. Skipped lessons in basic life results in missing maturity to be a lover by the time your body is ready to be a lover ....

Immature kids create broken hearts and hence create disaster, pain and troubles to others rather than to be a source of love, source of help, source of solutions, source of happiness in the lives of all others.

Accept your duty to grow strong as a man before claiming your right to have a woman sharing your life! Without true inner and outer strength there can be no wise use of God given freedom, without freedom there can be no true happiness. Without being able to be happy on your own you never be able to make another person happy. Your own happiness never should depend on another person being in your life - your own happiness should depend on your acquired strength and potential to make many others happy on a daily basis of your life. Having done so an extended period of time will result of the happiness you created in others to bounce back into your own life - that is the time you are ready to be a qualified partner for another strong lover girl - an eternal love beyond description. Until that magic moment is is your duty to do all efforts to grow strong by all means offered on this planet.

Opportunities to grow strong change and improve decade after decade and may include:

1. Working extended periods of time for charity or humanitarian organizations on national or global level
2. Wokring years in jobs that need to be done for the mutual benefits of all planet - jobs like oilfield, construction, seaman, UN and many other jobs offered in modern times.
3. Peace corps

A man's duty includes all jobs on earth that are needed by the global community. There are Millions of jobs, dirty, hard and often dangerous, yet they need to be done by someone - by all and each individual man would be the normal spiritual procedure. Those having done so will be those who earned the next level of much better jobs as they have proven to be willing to see, reqcognize and fulfill all duties waiting for a man to be done in God's creation. Human life is like "Mother Holle" - an ongoing continuation of duties to be seen, to be accepted and to be successfully completed by each and all.

Those who avoid such "duty" may luckily find opportunities to create later chances to redo missed chances. Without such experiences you always and eternally may lack a part of strength needed to be a true lover, a true man .... and thus you may later on develop a wish to repeat such experiences in a new incarnation.

Hence - why do much later what you could do now or could have done already many years ago?

Face your challenges of life as they appear to you, accept all and every challenge and learn to grow - to be ready for true love when your love is challenged by a lover girl.

Love and bliss

hans