You have the free choice to search for reasons NOT to give - or you can search for reasons to give to needy ones
Dear one
you have the choice to search for reasons NOT to give - NOT to share with others
OR
you can search for people who NEED or may need help
the first option is to protect or defend / justify stinginess
the latter option is an attempt to get love flowing freely
there may be thousands cheating
there are MILLIONS in true need of help, love and $
I search for the needy ones and never have enough to give to all
if i see and have absolute evidence that one beggar cheats in any REAL way - then I talk to him and make him aware of his duty.
However above all it is God to judge who deserves help or who needs to learn in another way
the fact that God guides you to beggars proves that YOU need first and above all to learn to give more freely and much less worry about the few ones who cheat on you.
God gave you eyes and common sense
if you directly SEE that someone is cheating then you have the option to make this person aware of the need for honesty and work.
refusing to help ALL for the simple reason of a few % being lazy or cheaters by profession would NEVER ever justify withholding or reducing help. the complexity of helping others just proves that YOU need to practice help and giving MORE freely and more often to better learn how to, when and to whom to give in abundance. You find far more who really need YOUR help than you ever find cheaters.
above all remember that YOU above all need more help than anyone else - you are here on earth instead of being at home - hence you need ALL available help to find your way back home again. without others being willing to HELP YOU - you still may be here on earth in another million or so years from now.
the amount of help a person can receive is directly proportional to the amount of help a person is willing to give. help is living love. love needs to flow to all - to heal all, to free all - to bring all home to God.
Love and bliss
hans