Hence every father loves to be loved above all. Loved by his children as father but also loved by his wife as lover. To be father also includes the life as a lover and husband. If one of the 2 roles is neglect then a marriage drifts apart.
Every day thus starts first of all with love between husband wife. Before children wake up and long before daily work starts. A happy love life between fathers and mothers in their original role as romantic lovers is the best fuel for a successful and productive day of creative work.