What lover are you - what lover is your partner - do you love spicy sweet love ?
Each person has different needs of love each day. Some days hot and fiery, other days very gentle - or spicy but sweet -. just like food.
Young people - young lovers - always should start gentle and increase the spectrum of love slowly as they grow in maturity and stability in their love relationship. To fully live and experience the entire need of love you need to be really in love with your partner and fully honest, sincere and true in all aspects of love.
Only strong lovers can give and receive all the full spectrum of love a human is capable of. The kind of roses you need or the kind of food you starve for is the kind of physical sex and thus love you are actually missing in your relationship. Love by means of roses, sweets or food is but a substitute to partially balance the needs of your soul, heart and body.
The older a person, the stronger a person, the more mature a person, the sweeter his / her love and the greater his potential to give, to absorb and enjoy any kind, any style of love.