Ar first out ego may feel pain - pain lasting a few times onward while the joy experienced increases with every new experience of love
The methods described before may lead to pain to your ego - the simple fact to carry a real amount of pocket money with you cash for the sole purpose of being spent for others may cause you fear of theft or fear of love.
Both - fear of theft and fear of loss however only is known to the stingy one. As soon as you are getting used to let love and thus also your money flow freely toward those who need it this very minutes, you will experience deep inside you the joy of relief created in others by your action of love.
Relief in others however frees the experience of enjoying life again in others. The burden of hunger, debts, existential problems or being separated from loved ones by a few dollars suppresses the feeling of happiness and joy in life of those others in temporary need.
When we talk about needy ones - we never think of the professional beggars but those in need for a single emergency or those having been pushed by society into the depth of darkness. Those that cross your path physically are those you take care of - all others are been taken care of others next to them or by God.
When you encounter the two types of needy ones - the lazy one who found out that begging may lead to more money than working and the one who lost all by accident ... focus on the last group of needy ones and let God take care of professional beggars and lazy ones. This prevents stress and frustration within you and still leaves you plentiful to love and help.