Create joy in other people life and accept the joy of life God offers in your life

Others want to make you happy - many of them. Hence learn to always say YES to other people love offered to you. It all is love from God sent to you via many others around you. Pleasant company is vital for the preparation for Samadhi. Hence surround you by all those who love you and avoid all others causing troubles. Surrender the troublemaker to God and join all those loving ones God sent you to assist you in your endeavor of love home to God.
May be you feel that a week or a few weeks of vacation or a weekend now and then might be beneficial to you - then do it - enjoy whatever it takes to make you feel better and better. Samadhi ONLY can be experienced in you create the most pleasant and most loving environment in your life. I have devoted dozens of chapters about making happy and having fun in life - now more than ever before it is vital that your agreement is more than simple affirmation or words. Now is time for you to really live the love and joy of life offered by God to you.
After years of heavy and sometimes hard, dirty or demanding work - it should now be easy for you to accept a pleasant time in your life. All the years of most intense loving work and care for all others on this planet should now bear fruits and have you prepared to be hungry for love from God. Years of loving work should have strengthened your own understanding of the importance of love and the value of making others happy. Smiling faces around you will assist you on your way home, specially during your final steps home preparing Samadhi and falling into Samadhi.
After years of an active loving working life you should be strong enough to fall in love and you also should be hungry enough to feel and say "love me please" to God. God's love will set you free - God's love will heal you from all your past and present. God's love is but pure pleasure for all ... eternally and infinitely.
Samadhi is nothing else but a scientific way to fall in love with God - the source of all love and to fall in love with Love!