To have peace in life you need to be strong in life

Weak ones say YES to the stronger ones. Weak ones are scared, weak ones fear, hence weak ones submit themselves to the stronger ones ...
at the expense of true happiness.
To be in real peace with others you need to be strong. Only a strong one has multiple options in life - if a strong one offers peace then his offers comes from the bottom of a loving heart.
If a weak one offers peace then his offers comes from the heart of a coward fearing to get beaten up by the stronger one. Hence his offer of peace, his silence, his peace is proof of weakness and cowardice but never the result of true love.
A true lover needs to be truly strong. Strength can be achieved by girls as well as by man. Strength can be achieved by all ages.
Strong means ready to die for your love - ready to die for God - ready to die in loyalty to all loved ones rather than to betray or surrender your ideals of love.