happiness is the result of love flowing trough a person. while here on earth and for a long time on your way to god, love may have millions of different - sometimes purely material "colors" and "flavors".
basically loving others - all - anyone - means
happiness may be created in others by positively responding with a loving YES to a request or by fulfilling a need for them without being asked by them
any YES always is the first step for getting love to flow and making others happy
any NO always KILLS love and any NO always NEEDS to be justified and replaced with alternate MORE powerful action of love.
the basic step for BEING happy is to be without open needs and open wishes - part can be done by dissolving the longing for goods or wishes - other part needs to be fulfilled by OTHERS - by US as making happy is an eternal part of our divine being.
without readiness to make others - ALL happy - our eternal life would be empty of real and satisfying purpose !
creating happiness whenever a need occurs or fulfillment of a wish of others or creating a pleasure to others is POSSIBLE should become to our first nature - such divine behavior is the expression of pure divinity and divine love.
by saying YES to the needs and wishes of others and fulfilling these - you reduce your ego and become God like. Be wise and always create loving solutions for others.
be creative - be divine - be loving - be giving - be making - be creating solutions of love and happiness !
our feeling of being lovable and love-worthy depends almost entirely on the quantity and quality we make OTHERS happy by loving them the most direct and most efficient way in all different ways they are open to be loved - continuously.